| | Suppose you were stuck single forever... Page 13 of 17 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17) | I would do just what I'm doing now! Live each moment and try to improve myself and my world alittle each day. Meditate. Read. Go out. Have fun. Work on my artwork. Dance(badly) to live music. See the poetry in life and try to be the coolest verse in Gods' prose.
After all, I MAY be single forever. Who can know? But I'm in control of my life and it's a fun one. Never bored. | |
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 8/29/2007 8:45:19 PM | i Would cope with it very well and how is something that is beyond our technolodgy at the moment but i'm sure i could figure this one out.
To cope with it, i'd convert my body of cells into Bytes and put myself on the net to haunt all the bad people that use it for cruel and unusal reasons...
and for those of you wondering that's about 100 trillion bytes according the average size of a human being and Science NetLinks!  | |
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 8/31/2007 7:46:43 AM | When the tough times hit, you look beyond yourself, you look around and care and connect with others. You think about how you can make a difference - and that is a good way to live whether terminally ill, contagious, mentally unstable/unpredictable, paying dues for crimes or any other situation. On the cat theme, there is always someone or something that needs, wants and loves you, if you are willing to be there for them. Note the Dalai Lama always seems a happy and giving man, look how many people are touched by a life such as his and others like him.... | |
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 8/31/2007 7:26:04 PM | Living in Kansas City made me feel this way. When I got to the point where I thought I was coping with the situation as best I could, I woke up and realized that NOTHING is out of my control. And so I moved.  | |
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 8/31/2007 7:30:10 PM | Interesting question.
Personally, I wouldn't have a problem with it if I were to be in such situation.
I enjoy my own company and don't become lonely. I do enjoy my quiet times.
I am assuming this question is posed re: not having a life time partner and not meaning, one cannot have friends. | |
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 9/2/2007 7:25:07 AM | Would you be able to cope with it and still be happy? Yep...I would. I would be smart enough to realize that this is what is best for me and move on.
How would you cope with it? Get busy living and life to the fullest and making my life come alive by doing the things that make me happy.
Everybody is not ment to be in a relationship and just because they aren't does not mean that they are gay. Also everybody is not ment to be a parent and should listen to this inner voice telling them this also. We each have our own special purpose in this life to live and it is not to live up to the exspection of others it is to live up to only our own exspection of what we know we are and who we should be as human beings....to fulfill ones happiness. When we stop trying to be what others want us to be and live life as we know what is right for only ourself we will be so much happier and there will be so many less problems around also.
May you find the skin that is you and be happy living in it! | |
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 9/2/2007 7:37:28 AM | | i often feel i will end up this way, but what can you do but try and except it, as long as i still got some kind of affection every now and then. i think i would be fine ! | |
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 9/2/2007 1:00:31 PM | You know I dread that thought. I was married for 19 years and have been alone since 2001. Trust me having someone that loves you and you them to come home to is way easier. You have someone to go places with experience new things. Someone to talk about their day and yours. Being in a relationship in My humble opinion is the best. But alas I have yet to find her. I know shes out there and I will find her and we will live life to its fullest. Peace Out!!!! | |
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 9/2/2007 2:48:27 PM | I've been single for a while - and I know what that is like. I am really independent and I noticed that since I had my child I have not been as interested as I used to be in relationships (though that is changing) and it is hard to find someone that I click with. It's easy to have meaningless and pointless encounters and I just don't waste my time with that.
But everyone (even me (!!)) has the choice to change. Period. We all have free will. Maybe talking to a therapist would help. Maybe some soul searching would work - maybe all of the above. Bottom line - nothing is forever - even the sucky stuff. | |
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saspi
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 9/2/2007 4:30:56 PM | | well just because your not in a relationship does not mean you cannot be physical with someone...just enjoy every moment whether you are single or not and if single especially enjoy because before you know it your suddenly a couple again | |
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sorrry
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 9/2/2007 4:46:37 PM | I would be tottally fine with it!!! I like my time alone, but i have friends that i hang out with too. i enjoy my life and am happy with who i am.
I guess if i thinnk about it i'd rather be single and have lots of friends than be in a relatinship and feel lonely and not have any friends!! | |
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~Myth~
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 9/2/2007 5:13:47 PM | No problema . . . . . . . . . . it is spelled . . . . .
B~A~T~T~E~R~I~E~S !!!!!!
[Damna ya "sorry" . . . . . I need to stop following ya around . . . .]
~M~ | |
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sorrry
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 9/2/2007 5:17:05 PM | ~M~ ^^^^ In your case I guess www.BOB.com would better apply?? Oh, follow me I don't mind! You are so cool...Too bad you live so far away.
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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~Myth~
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 9/2/2007 5:22:27 PM | ^^^^^^ Msg: 321 oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh . . . . baby . . . I'm totally into long distant relationships . . . .
Sweetie . . . . little me would not need any B~A~T~T~E~R~I~E~S with a hombre like ya . . . . 
Bring it on . . . . . . . . hummmm? I thinkie-thinkie that I am not stuckie-stuckie single forever . . . . 
ya are smooooooooooooooooooookin . . . .
 ~M~ | |
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sorrry
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 9/2/2007 7:37:05 PM | Oh ~M~ you just like me for my pictures. Perv'in on me! I have to look out for women like you!!! What is it they call them? COUGARS??
Oh, that is ok in your case i will make an exception.
Stuck single forever? Not a problem. I will just go play with ~Myth~!! So am not worried.
Hey ~Myth~ have you seen my banana??????????????
LOL~~~ No offense please. I am just playing with you, or am I? | |
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| Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 9/2/2007 8:30:44 PM | Wait... you mean to tell me I could end up living a life with not having to worry about hurting another person's feeling's, even when I don't mean to? Never get yelled at for flipping through the channels. I could kick my shoe's off where ever I wanted to with out any problems. Do the dish's when I wanted to, if I wanted to. Never have to worry about getting a dear Sunflower letter or e-mail. Never get in hot water for working too much, or not enough.
You mean to tell me there is a way to have everything my way all the time? Oh do tell!!!
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