| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 5/11/2008 5:21:26 PM | im a indian guy,however im not what you would call a typical indian guy...
for starters,im algo indian,this means im indian with european/british origin,this is beacuse my grandad was a white britsh guy,a solider in fact.
im also catholic. and very english,in a sense of there is no indian accent (more east london accent really!) and have lived in london all my life,but have noticed there are not many anglo indians around,so i tend to get classed as the above,in the "apu-type" indian
for me,ihave noticed this aswell and i would consider myself a normal guy but i guess alot has to do with culture,aswell as how open minded people can be but if women give guys like us a chance,they would find out that there really is not much difference between me and a guy of the same race as them,other than skin colour | |
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| Kama Sutra
Posted: 5/11/2008 5:28:50 PM | | emerald teardrop that statement is sillly and untrue. im white and think indians are great people. i would date and or marry one simply becuae the ones I have met are wonderful people. the ones i knew did not have caucasian features at all and as far as their money went ..who the hell knows i didnt ask him how much he made nor what he done for living. so your statement is false. It aint ALL white women that would not date them. | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 5/11/2008 5:33:38 PM | Dunno what's the situation in your town and cannot speak about anyone else (unlike some people here)... but, all I can say is that race/ethnicity/nationality has no importance for me.
The only race I would not date is the race of STOOPID.
But, they know to stay away from me.
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 5/11/2008 5:41:07 PM | | i don't think that this has anything to do with someone's ethnicity. it's a cultural thing. nothing drives people apart more then religion | |
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| Kama Sutra
Posted: 5/14/2008 5:41:57 PM | The Emerald Teardrop has said:
The most attractive caucasian women will probably not date an asian or Indian male unless
A) He has many traditionally caucasian features.
^^^ Thats a fair point. But it could also be your opinion. There are a plethora of other factors to which your simplistic and naive mind is not capable to analyzing. I know why Indian guys dont get too many dates. Maybe I will elaborate on those issues on this thread when I have time.
B) He can guarantee her a specific lifestyle she finds attractive and desires (usually implies having great wealth).
^^^^^ Thats a red flag and it is prompting my response. Reminds me of Dr. lecter's exposition of Clarice Sterling's shallowness in 'Silence of the lambs'. My request to any Indian guy taking that advice would be:
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If you are gonna spend money, spend it on a hooker. The sex will also be much better. A girl who wants to date you because of money is a prostitute. What use is she to you? But then why is she even suggesting this? It is because of 2 things called "remarkable sense of entitlement" and "I have a magic vagina mister" respectively. Maybe the best way to treat such women is to act, pretend, prevaricate, promise wealth and then....when they are ensconced in the comforting thought "I have his balls in my purse"....to do what Cauccasian men have taken to an art form- "pump her and dump her." | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 5/14/2008 11:18:05 PM | bro,
I am not indian, but here is the bottom line! Its racism and streotype. Just look at some of the comment. Anyone thats says its not is just excusing themselves becuase they dont w ant to be known as racist b/c tv told them and just to be nice, they are as racist as anybody. I had many white women that absolutely smell like crap down their that I could not even finish what I started and the reason was they never cleaned themselves (not all, some smelled lovely hence I had more then 5times those nites lol). To make smell comment is absolutely ludicris and stupid. Thats all! Girl 18-25 specially have a metal block when it comes to this issue. But as they growup and hit 27 to 30's they start relizing men with culture actually have substance and they were wasting time. If you wanna date white women hit them after 25 and the game becomes alot easier. Thats when they really start becoming women. bye to all! | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 5/15/2008 7:34:18 AM | If one wants to discuss the fact that women under the age of 25 have the decision-making-abilities of a 5 year old, one could also accuse of why a majority of indian/middle eastern/asian, whatever (regardless of age) will date caucasian women and resort to "pumping and dumping" them when they find a wife who is of the same culture as them.
It has been brought up before, and the fact that this is NOT, I repeat NOT a generalization of caucasian or indian people, but not addressed nearly as much as why caucasian women seem to be snobbish towards the idea of dating an indian.
It works both ways. If there's no men/women in the neighbourhood...BAIL OUT.
There are too many double standards! An indian can get away with sleeping with someone until marriage, then will dump her and say she was 'promiscuous' for sleeping with him either before marriage, or before the second date but no one even thinks twice about thinking of the guy in the same way. | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 5/15/2008 8:05:59 PM | f one wants to discuss the fact that women under the age of 25 have the decision-making-abilities of a 5 year old, one could also accuse of why a majority of indian/middle eastern/asian, whatever (regardless of age) will date caucasian women and resort to "pumping and dumping" them when they find a wife who is of the same culture as them.
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Hey Flounder...notice 1 thing.....you bring up marriage. YOU. Is the purpose of dating marriage? You first see if you are fit for a relationship. And you have sex. And you jump straight to marriage. So you mean Cauccasian men date you because they want to marry you. You know thats not true. It could happen. Most likely, it wont. The point is, since a majority of Indian men eventaully get married to Indian women (how many of them have ever met a Cauccasian woman anyway), many girls automatically develop a feeling of resentment ...thats because deep down there is a subconscious thing within you to get married and have babies.
"An indian can get away with sleeping with someone until marriage."
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What do you mean "get away"? Is it a crime to get laid before marriage. Your motivations are very very clear now dear...your ultimate goal is selfish...to get married. You are shallow. As shallow as I am or any Indian guy or any cauccasian guy or any guy anywhere. Never forget Adam Smith's golden words about "the individual selfish hand". You know as well as I do that the average Indian man does not get as much poon as a black/ white guy. A white guy probably sleeps with 100 women. Black guys- maybe 500. So marriage is a way to get poon. But the Cauccasian guy has the benefits of a free market economy- he has plenty of poon. When the Cauccasian guy bangs you and then dumps you, you don't complain as you know that he is a beneficiary of the free market. There is just as much a chance, if not more, of a white guy pumping and dumping you as an Indian guy pumping you and then getting married to his own color.
So why are you so freaked out? That could be because dating a Cauccasian man or manipulating him to marry you and have kids with you gives you a better chance to bust his balls- as you know you have 2 great weapons in your armory- alimony and child support. That could be because you find Indian men plain ugly- and hey you have every right to feel that way. I am a libertarian. But what you get from Indian men is veneration or crassness- and you quite enjoy the attention in the first case, and either way all that does is accentuates your supercilious tendencies.
But you know the reason as well as I do as to the prime reason why white women generally don't Indian men - thats because most Indian men here in North America are not adept at jerk like behavior. They are either talking the obvious too soon or too shy. Thats because they don't have experience in dating. But the white guy knows you from high school. He knows the right time to ask you out, right way to lower your self esteem, right way to press psychological buttons, right time to kiss you, right way to build up the sexual tension by simultaneously giving you attention and then making you crave for it till you get wet, the right time to take your panties off and the right time to dump you. And you...since high school....are habituated to this timetable. So you consider it natural.
Most Indian guys are not jerks or adept at pretensions of being jerks- and you know its a truism that women date and have sex with jerks. Till...as someone above said....when they are 25 and realize that its time to find a keeper. So I absolutely understand why many Cauccasian women don't date Indian men. :) But most men on this thread are trying to analyze the situation from a mathematical or rational viewpoint. As if dating is extremely scientific. Dating is nothing but a sophisticated version of the age old hunter gatherer game.
I am Indian and I have dated and slept with Cauccasian women. But I like Latina women the best. And the day I started getting more ass as opposed to no ass was when I stopped giving too much veneration for shallow women (of any color ) and started to play the subtle games giving a damn about results. And I didn't spend too much money too. Guys who spend too much money are often treated like doormats. Ill tell you where I have spent money on women- Amsterdam. I am careful about return on investment- and I will never ever get married.
But the guy who started this thread seems to be a nice guy who wants poon but eventually wants to settle down in a relationship which may culminate in marriage. Responses show that there are a substantial number of Indian men of similar predilections. So there is a demographic within a demographic which doesn't fit the stereotype about Indian men. And if you analyze that stereotype from a demand supply point of view, you will understand that it was built on choices made out of limited opportunities, and in a changing world, is itself undergoing change quite rapidly. | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 5/17/2008 2:32:32 PM |
want them to have a clean genetic background as well.
Interesting !!! How do you check that ? and what is clean genetic? | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 5/17/2008 11:32:32 PM | ^^^^
Classic example of a kind of mistake that most Indian men make. Giving an attention whore further attention. Is it really important to know why some frog in the well feminazi **** from some shithole place has some idea of ethic cleanliness? Again that mistake of not recognizing red flags. Again that mistake of veneration of vagina. The moment you ask her motivation, it is quite apparent that consider the logic of her comment to be worthy of consideration.
Please let me know of you don't understand the concept of attention whore. I will send you a link from the great Tom Leykis illustrating the phenomenon. The only good thing about her is her candidness. I mean seriously, changing the title of this thread slightly- would you ever date a cauccasian women like that piece of shit. :) Is she an unanimous voice for all women of that race? She is like the urinal you pee on. Cold and white. Now is there any use in analyzing why the urinal is filled to the brim and unflushable (you questions how, why etc)? If not then you life's too short to give any more attention to this object. | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 5/18/2008 8:05:28 AM | | I know she doesn't represent all and I haven't met someone with this opinion. I am really interested to know from where is she coming from. Its not my mission to change her opinion. She will grow and learn with time (As with everybody). I don't care if my attention to her statement boldens her opinion. | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 5/18/2008 10:16:11 AM | I think clean genetics suggest ''white supremecism'' and she means nothing in the DNA to suggest that they were polluted by non white blood. Yes, there are some of these people around who think like this. There are in every race. They want to keep it pure. I grew up around racist people, and I seem to be surrounded by them at times.
As for the guy who stated at 25 a woman finally gets wise. I think not until 35. For me it wasn't until 37 that I learned to be true to myself and grew up a great deal. As far as appreciating men from other cultures though, I've dated from a variety of cultures. Even in 7th grade my boyfriend was polynesian. | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 5/21/2008 10:39:58 PM | "Is she an unanimous voice for all women of that race? She is like the urinal you pee on. Cold and white. Now is there any use in analyzing why the urinal is filled to the brim and unflushable (you questions how, why etc)? If not then you life's too short to give any more attention to this object. "
Dude...you're cold and merciless....
I LIKE IT! | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 6/6/2008 7:40:59 PM | | I did not read all of this thread, but sure got the jist of it. I have always loved Indian men, and would want a husband just like my father. He is very devoted to my mother, and they are the happiest people I know. However, race should never play a factor in who you date. I would date any type of man as long as he had what I was looking for. Religion may be an issue since I am not very religious myself. My boyfriend of 5 years was white, and he had no problem with me being who I was. I even met his parents, who are down right southern. They liked me, and I liked them too. My cousins, most of them anways, have married outside their race. My sister married an African American, my other cousin a Jewish Girl, and yet another one married an Asian girl. As far as the smell things goes, well I think it is a bit stupid to say "all indian men smell and don't care about themseleves". Again it is based upon individual person. I could say all white southerns are racist, but that is not true. There is good and bad, smell, and unsmelly in all genders and race. Okay this was my 2cents. Goodluck fishing guys! | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 6/7/2008 2:38:42 AM | | i agree with most of what you said. this threat is terrible because it's bringing out negative stereotypes. I am brown, but I was born in calgary and lived in vancouver all my life. not ALL indian guys are like that. it SHOULD NOT matter what colour of their skin is. just because you've been raised a certain way means you are not thinking for yourself. It doesn't give you an excuse to not think for yourself. It is ultimately the decision of the guy/girl's heart that should lead to the final result, not of what "most" indians smell like, or whether they trat women as posessions. Its nonsense like some of the replies i've read in this thread that make it hard for someone like me to date caucasian women, who i find attractive...... | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 6/9/2008 9:31:49 AM | | I agree with you!! I totally agree .. Most women over 27 - 30's start to realize that there are datable guys in all shapes and colors. | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 7/11/2008 10:16:31 PM | | I find Indian men very attractive. I was Hindu when I was 14 to 20. I think they are some of the most beautiful men. | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 7/11/2008 11:37:52 PM | | Too much they are indeed very attractive. I've gone out with a few, and talk to even more online. The more I find out about them the more enamored I am with them. They are jovial, good natured, generous, loving, intelligent, relationship oriented, and they are not into drama and games. Of course I can't generalize but of the ones I've met or talked with, (with only a few exceptions) this is what I am finding mostly to be true. | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 7/12/2008 6:23:23 AM | | I am an East Indian guy. I don't have a preference on race. But, I tend to get more attracted towards Asian and Caucasian girls. I don't follow any religion and I am kinda agnostic. I live in Dallas, TX. I have a feeling that girls here don't want to date guys from other guys or, probably they don't find me attractive. I am new to this dating thing and I have never actually asked a girl for a date in person. I just try the online dating stuff and so far, I haven't gotten any responses from any of the girls in POF. That's probably why I am not asking any girls in person for a date thinking that they might reject me (may be I am pessimistic. I don't know). But, I am ready to marry someone if things work out properly. | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 7/12/2008 8:53:04 AM | Well, I have learned a few things about Indian men through dating and talking to them. One is if they are under 30 they most likley aren't going to be serious with a white girl because most have very old fashioned parents just itching for them to get married, and to an Indian girl. Some do have more forward thinking parents, it's a matter of asking questions. Divorce is very rare but I have met a few in their 30's and 40's who somehow never got married, or are divorced.
As far as this difference of religion goes. From what I've seen, Indians are far more Christian like than most Christians...and it's a shame they would be judged for being different. They are far more peaceful, forgiving, kind, considerate, polite, respectfuly and committed than any of the ''so called Christians'' I have met. I've also met a few who are Christian themselves.
I really should not keep praising Indian men though. I don't want to let go of my secret of how wonderful they can be. I actually like the fact that I am considered by them to be ''rare'' among white women and having a ''thing'' for them. | |
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| Caucasian Women + Indian Guys
Posted: 7/12/2008 9:42:32 AM | | Yes I admit that most of the Indian parents will be old-fashioned and they may not like their son to date an American girl regardless of how old the guy is. But, if the guy is determined, has guts and he is firmly in love with the girl he is dating, he would definitely marry the girl he is dating not an Indian girl that his parents found. | |
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