| He has an adult friend finder's account?
Posted: 8/12/2007 11:52:31 AM | Hey, thats very brave of you to say that. Especially on here. I will say that too many men reliquish dominance to the woman, especially after a long term relationship. And interest does fade because of it.
Going back to the topic at hand, too many men do not understand women. All their varieties cannot fit into just one web site. Those that are on the others have the courage to reveal what others would only dream to. Please ladies you're confusing enough don't cover up your deepest desires with little girl antics. Men will always want women and women will always want to be chased by men.
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| He has an adult friend finder's account?
Posted: 8/12/2007 6:24:26 PM | | This thread was started in March....... and the last time the OP made a post was on March 16th............ Pretty safe to say she has moved on and most likely forgot she even started a thread here, lol | |
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| He has an adult friend finder's account?
Posted: 10/2/2008 11:11:20 PM | | If I found my bf did that I would talk to him if he denies it I would show him and if he gets argumentive I would break it off I would break up with him | |
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| He has an adult friend finder's account?
Posted: 10/2/2008 11:31:16 PM | | I would move on! That is a sex web site. If u have been with him 6 weeks and he is on there then I would look for someone else. It means he is looking for sex. | |
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| He has an adult friend finder's account?
Posted: 10/3/2008 12:47:15 AM | If he is truly into you, he will not want to go there. I wouldn't bring it up. Men do like to be spied on.
I am a member of AFF. I did ot know of this group.
Someone on AFF said how nice a group this is.
The people here seem to be more poilte and do not attack others.
This is a nicer group with no chat room to get picked on in.
This place seems to be run by someone that wants people to meet and be happy.
You will just have to wait and see.
Pay more attention to his actions than his words.
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| He has an adult friend finder's account?
Posted: 10/3/2008 9:54:30 AM | Aff is primarily a sex-oriented site, but back in my dating days I checked it out and found that many single women - usually of a more adventurous mindset - were on the site seeking relationships (not just sex) with single guys. I never met anyone from that site, though - mainly because there were few single women there in my area who were of interest - so I never thought it very useful for dating. There are a lot of single guys on the site - just like here!
So, while not primarily geared to the dating scene, aff is often used as a dating site - just as this site is often used by people just looking for sex. It's just another tool for meeting, albeit with a different emphasis. Anyway, rather than leap to conclusions about this, you may want to have a conversation instead. | |
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| He has an adult friend finder's account?
Posted: 10/3/2008 10:13:46 AM | That is why you need to google the heck out of any potential dates. I was just talking to a guy a couple weeks ago from here... he started off as a good clean cut guy, then got nasty. So I googled his screen name... holy cow!!! It showed aff, some international sex site, and are you ready for this one????? Some beastiality website!!!!
You can never be to safe. Don't bother confronting them as they will lie. Just wipe your feet in the sand and walk away. | |
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| He has an adult friend finder's account?
Posted: 10/3/2008 10:13:59 AM |
Aff is primarily a sex-oriented site, but back in my dating days I checked it out and found that many single women - usually of a more adventurous mindset - were on the site seeking relationships (not just sex) with single guys. I never met anyone from that site, though - mainly because there were few single women there in my area who were of interest - so I never thought it very useful for dating. There are a lot of single guys on the site - just like here!
This is very very true. That's where I snagged my guy from, lol. We've been together 4 months now and the relationship does not revolve around sex. I found my (almost) perfect match on there. He is not the first guy I have dated from that site either, I spent 9 months seeing the first person I met on there over 4 years ago. | |
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| He has an adult friend finder's account?
Posted: 10/4/2008 8:08:31 AM | | I have both a Adult Friend finder account and Plenty of fish account. I like to go to the Adult Friend Finder (AFF) and chat. I have only ever met with one person from that site. I live in a small town and everyone is afraid of being found out. I have only met a few also from POF. I wish POF had a chat program too. I've been on AFF longer than POF. For a 4 month period I was seeing someone, I had removed my POF profile and didnt really go chat much on AFF, I didnt think it was fair to the person I was seeing if I was still going either site. But thats me not everyone thinks the same. | |
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| He has an adult friend finder's account?
Posted: 10/4/2008 7:22:36 PM | If you decide this gentleman is LTP ( long term potential ) might be best to find out his involvement. Otherwise, men and women have names for people that snoop. You would be considered a Computer Natzi. 6 weeks is not a long time and your already snooping on his computer. Be careful. You might find something you dont like.
I just handled a dual jurisdiction case b/t a woman, in MO, from POF who met a guy in NJ. He caught her snooping on his computer. He kicked her out of his house without her blackberry. He went through her texts and other files. both ended up pressing charges in NJ against each other which fell under domestic disturbance under NJ Penal Code. Both were almost faced with Court costs and attorney fees to make it go away.
Ive dated women who have gotten on my computer and taken my phone to snoop. I addressed it two ways: I talked about it in non-threatening fashion and I put passwords on everything.
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