| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/15/2007 3:14:11 PM | are you seriously asking this as meaning pad her bra? whew, don't most girls who want bigger breasts go get them surgically altered these days? I'd say no to padding, and if she wants bigger boobs to get them fixed. It does not bother me the size of a womans breasts, I prefer a slim woman with a nice a$$ over one with saggy big boobs. | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/15/2007 3:16:59 PM | | Wear whatever makes you comfortable. I understand some clothes look or hang better on particular shapes. Me, I also like small boobs, but most of my girlfriends over the years have worn a padded bra at various times. Hey, why should I complain? I don't have to wear 'em. | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/15/2007 3:26:09 PM | No Pad please! I don't like false advertising, I would hate to see anyone get sued for " Bait and Switch "! Besides how you would you feel if guys started stuffing their shorts? Kind of silly isn't it? | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/15/2007 4:33:55 PM | | i've had enough of women asking guys what f|_|cking tits they like. Leave them the f|_|ck alone. If you women want attention, do something crazy like jump out infront of a truck. You'll certainly get the attention you want. If not, leave your boobs alone and just get on with life already | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/15/2007 5:10:37 PM | cuz really im a butt man
Wear what makes you feel sexy or attractive! Sure you want your man to smile broadly, almost prancing, as other guys check you out but, your man should be happy with you as you are, not what you could be. | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/16/2007 12:25:33 AM | You must dress to highlight what you have. IMO, if you have big tits, wonder bras and plunging necklines are your friend. If you have small tits, no bras and close fitting shirts are my preference. If you're lucky enough to be in the middle, you get the best of both worlds!
So, to answer your question, don't false advertise! Besides, more than a mouthful is just a bonus!
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/16/2007 1:00:47 AM | I'm amused by this thread....I know I'm not a man, but I'll give the men some needed info on padded bra's.
Not only are the majority of cute bra's I see these days padded, the padding isn't usually for making breasts appear larger. Many of my bra's are padded, usually I'd guess about 5mm thick....gee, thats just a huge boost to the girls. I'm large chested, padded bra's in no way make me look bigger. The padding is good for hiding nipples, regardless of if you men like nipplage, it in no way means we like you staring at it all the time. Padded bra's typically help lift and shape, for me, a padded bra means extra support for the girls so their not bouncing around as much, which is always appreciated....by me at least, I know some men will disagree, but its not about showing off boobs.
Basically, padded bra's are no more false advertising than any other bra that holds up a pair of breasts. | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/16/2007 2:44:25 AM | Alien Space Tourist
This is gonna sound rude so please, try not to be offended by whats said.
You might not feel the need to "show off" your bust etc because your already big chested as you said, but with some women who are smaller chested also have alot of (apparently as of to what i've heard and read) emotional qualities added to it, feeling dis-satified with their bodies etc.
Admittedly normal bra's which are only slightly padded to cover nipples is no problem. But as you very well know, there's also bra's such a Gel Bra's etc to boost the bust size or shape. Men dont mind normal bra's with slight padding but we're usually talking about the Gel Bra's etc when we say "fasle advertising".
We're not that dumb about a womans body
Well i hope not, if most men are then they need to go back and do sex education again  | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/16/2007 2:46:18 AM | *waits for childish people to start trying to prove how idiotic he is*  | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/16/2007 2:51:20 AM |
I'm amused by this thread....I know I'm not a man, but I'll give the men some needed info on padded bra's. That's telling us like it is. We guys needed it. Certainly 5mm (less than a 1/4") is not false advertising. Actually, I think women need to do whatever makes them feel good about themselves.
I would think, if a gal is flat chested she needs a padded bra so as to not feel self-conscious. Those with small breasts might have a little less padding and others as much as is approprate for hiding nipples, etc. | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/16/2007 6:30:45 AM | | Um, really... does it matter? If a lady has self esteem problems then I guess it's ok for her. But if the guy she's dating doesn't care, why should she? If I was so uptight about something concerning my body, I wouldn't go sticking socks in that area! Be yourself and don't let the physical things get in the way. Anyone who looks at you more in a physical way than anything else is pretty darn shallow and you don't need them around. | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/16/2007 6:38:31 AM | Haha.....Sorry, this reminds me of when I was a young chicky. There I was on the dance floor going for it to the beat of the music, and out it flew, and landed on a table where people were seated. I didn't even notice till one of the people at the table returned it to me. Never again.....Say NO to padded bra's.....stick with the push up's.  | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/16/2007 7:51:51 AM | I think women padding a bra is the same as a man stuffing a sock in his shorts... its dumb and you will get busted anyway.
Another good question is... should a woman with small boobs be allowed to make fun of the size of a guy's penis? LOL | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/16/2007 8:57:56 AM | | Please, no padding. A small chest is sexier looking than a padded bra. | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/22/2007 11:45:12 PM | Don't! hell I'm a woman and I don't understand the whole padded bra thing! smaller breasts are in (much to my own dismay , cue the WAhhh wahh wahhhhhhhhhh music mentioned above hah)
I have a friend who won't even go to the grocery store without her la senza padded bra, convenient if there's a spill in aisle 5 or something but otherwise, wtf is the point?
If I could get away with it , I'd go without a bra every single day , I envy the women who can!
everyone has a great body to someone! | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/23/2007 7:40:34 AM | I should market my idea for a bra... its called the sponge bra.
The more you sweat... the bigger your boobs will get  | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/23/2007 10:10:59 AM | | And the same goes for: corsets, fanny padders, shoulder pads, girdles and 'slimming' stockings. LOSE 'EM! | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/23/2007 11:45:49 AM | | I've dated girls from 1/2 A cup to F? (almost Chesty Morgan sized) but the face and overall look is more important. | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/23/2007 11:57:45 AM | | OK - a Woman's point a view...I dont need to pad but i don't think I could bring myself to do it...I mean, what happens when the guy sees you have big boobs, long nails, long hair a flat belly and a nice butt...then finds out you padded, pasted, clipped and padded again...I feel sorry for the GUY...Totally freaky to me.. | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/23/2007 12:27:32 PM | This is hysterical,
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I'm amused by this thread....I know I'm not a man, but I'll give the men some needed info on padded bra's. Good, we need it. Not like the guys wear bra's, we don't have a frickin' clue what a padded bra is really all about. Notice most of us thought it was a size issue, not a comfort issue??
2. You said 'boobs' and you expect men to form an intelligent response? Hellooooooo. The blood officially left our heads for parts south of the border as soon as you said that. Please remove all boobs from the immediate area and wait 3 minutes while we mentally reboot.
3. This is a joke right? If we say 'pad' you are going to tell us how immature we are and only think about sex, right? No? Oh, okay, so then you will pad and when we look you will slap us and say we only care about your bodies. But wait, you were padding to get more attention, right?
This is sounding like a 'honey do I look fat in this dress' question. Is it to late for me to pretend I was never here?
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/23/2007 12:31:11 PM | only pad in the case of a masectomy or else anything from an A to C is fine | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/24/2007 10:01:59 AM | Awesome thread! Several points: 1. I am a titty man. Like the woman behind them, boobs need to have “character”. Most big ones do not. Many small one do. 2. How is it that the top of your breasts that are natural and OK to show but your nipples which, are every bit as natural, are forbidden to poke out a bit? 3. What would you poor ladies do if this were 100 years back? Bras were invented in 1907 and didn’t become popular until 1913. 4. If a bra changes the shape of your breasts at all (read: keeps them off of your knees) then it is indeed “faults advertising” and dishonest. Let’s say you meet a gent that likes firm breasts. (I am not judging his values. They are his and not mine or yours to judge.) He likes you! When the big unveiling comes and they tumble like an avalanche and he says, “Good bye”, who brought on the deception? Didn’t you ask for an honest man that knows what he wants? | |
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| to pad or not to pad? Posted: 3/24/2007 10:09:15 AM | | What I've found re: breasts, is that size isn't all that important, what is important is how everything works together, some women have bodies which just look good with larger breasts, some women have bodies that look good with smaller breasts, and if I say breasts one more time I'm going to have to go get a chicken sub. In other words though, I tend to think that mother nature does a pretty decent job at matching things up, and, very often when a woman tries to make it look like her breasts are larger than they are it just throws everything out of proportion. | |
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