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 KCzilla

Joined: 3/2/2007
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Posted: 3/24/2007 10:12:09 AM
You can stick pads in your bra, as long as I can stuff socks in my shorts...
 judyluvsvegas

Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 52
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Posted: 3/24/2007 10:31:11 AM
[3. What would you poor ladies do if this were 100 years back? Bras were invented in 1907 and didn’t become popular until 1913.]/]

I'd be much happier! I hate the darn things. My friends laugh at me, but I just wear them because of the culture I find myself in.
 ProfJim

Joined: 2/17/2007
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Posted: 3/24/2007 10:55:37 AM
To hell with the culture. Somewhere, some time, some one person had to start the “culture”. Who is that one person to tell you how to dress? In this case it was likely the bra manufacturers much like the card printers and rose growers did for Halloween I mean Valentines.
Are you free? Or are you a sheep? Be yourself. Be a culture of one.
 riverhawk46201

Joined: 3/25/2008
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Posted: 4/5/2008 11:47:06 AM
Bless your heart - sheepherder! LOL!
To pad or not? May as well ask - just because it's Valentines Day, send flowers or not?
What ever happened to this wonderous "garden" of humans that has been made? Each of us individual? No two alike (well, of course, excepting identical twins! LOL!).... WHY would I want to be more than I was created as? Who's to say I can make a better decision on what part of this "garden" I'm supposed to be? What if the roses thought poison ivy was "the way to go"? Wow... all those Valentines Day bouquets would change quickly, wouldn't they? LOL!!!!
 Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007
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Posted: 4/5/2008 2:40:52 PM
It depends on the cut of her clothing. Some dresses simply require a fuller bust line, and whatever measures are necessary to fit properly are certainly appropriate.
 aitche

Joined: 12/22/2007
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Posted: 4/5/2008 4:05:36 PM
I wear a padded bra. I don't wear it for anyone else but myself. Strategic padding and some wishful thinking are the only way I get a cleavage. I don't see how it can be false advertising as I've never been picked up in a bar or club, which is the only places I wear them. As for the 'sock down the rotch' analogy, I've never checked out a guys cratch in my life, his butt maybe but not his crotch. I look at the way he carries himself, his smile, his spirit but not his crotch. I'd expect him to do the same for me. Plus if it did ever happen that I met someone in a club and they were that disappointed at my shape without the padding, they're hardly worth keeping are they.

Plus I have it on good authority that a good bj would make up for any disappointemt



H.x
 SLAFFA

Joined: 8/13/2007
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Posted: 4/5/2008 4:25:28 PM
Ummm, I believe that would be DISHONEST. Have yet to see any profiles, men or women's, stating that they are looking for a dishonest person.

Besides, there are tons of threads at tons of sights that basically back up the FACT that MANY MEN do not care about boob size and/or would actually prefer medium or smaller if given the choice. Not that boobs are a life or death matter...

Would/should a guy put a sock or two in his pants? If yes, WHY?
 crazytimes1

Joined: 3/24/2008
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Posted: 4/5/2008 4:59:42 PM

Besides, there are tons of threads at tons of sights that basically back up the FACT that MANY MEN do not care about boob size and/or would actually prefer medium or smaller if given the choice.
That is merely man pandering to the supposed desires of women on the internet. Put absolutely no faith in it whatsover.

Check out the hottest 500 pictures. Most of the women are very well endowed indeed. Check out any mens magazine. Except for the boy-look fetish porn, everything else has large breasted women on it.

Except for on forums on the internet, men like large breasts. No two ways about it.
 hardcandylick

Joined: 11/19/2007
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Posted: 4/5/2008 7:23:17 PM

That is merely man pandering to the supposed desires of women on the internet. Put absolutely no faith in it whatsover.

Check out the hottest 500 pictures. Most of the women are very well endowed indeed. Check out any mens magazine. Except for the boy-look fetish porn, everything else has large breasted women on it.

Except for on forums on the internet, men like large breasts. No two ways about it.


Ever heard of Photoshop and airburshing? Hate to break it to you dude, but most women that are society's interpertation of beautiful are not a D cup like people think. And the vast majority of them that have big breasts also have silicone enhancement. Even the wonderful Scarlett Johanson wears a wonder bra in her red carpet premieres or dresses than enhance a woman's bustline. That's why they pay the big bucks for tailoring. Check out the early pictures of Marilyn Monroe versus her later Hollywood-famous pictures. Big difference that's all about the "presentation."
 aitche

Joined: 12/22/2007
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Posted: 4/6/2008 2:38:24 AM


Ever heard of Photoshop and airburshing? Hate to break it to you dude, but most women that are society's interpertation of beautiful are not a D cup like people think. And the vast majority of them that have big breasts also have silicone enhancement. Even the wonderful Scarlett Johanson wears a wonder bra in her red carpet premieres or dresses than enhance a woman's bustline. That's why they pay the big bucks for tailoring. Check out the early pictures of Marilyn Monroe versus her later Hollywood-famous pictures. Big difference that's all about the "presentation."


Exactly. That rounded cleavage up by the chin look is not a natural one. The woman in films, tv, magazines all use tricks to enhance their figures but when 'normal' women do the same we're called deceiteful. Men say they like big boobs, but they have to be real and they have to be perky - well I'm sorry but that eliminates about 80% of the female population. Wake up guys.


H.x
 crazytimes1

Joined: 3/24/2008
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Posted: 4/6/2008 2:52:21 AM
Who stole the jam from your doughnut champ? Someone opened the door and let the fun out did they?

Not worth arguing with any of you. I know where I sit.
 AZgradstudent

Joined: 2/16/2008
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Posted: 4/6/2008 3:13:24 AM
There's no sense to padding your bra.

Either a guy's interested in a girl with a chest or he isn't. If he is, he'll be very very disappointed when the bra comes off. If I was in a situation like that, it'd be a deal-breaker. Not only is physical attraction important, but I want a woman who's comfortable with the body she has, not the one she can pretend to have with enough padding and lycra. If he's not interested in a woman with a chest, then you're wasting your time and money :)

Be yourself and find a person who likes that in a woman :)
 aitche

Joined: 12/22/2007
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Posted: 4/6/2008 3:20:36 AM


Check out the hottest 500 pictures. Most of the women are very well endowed indeed. Check out any mens magazine. Except for the boy-look fetish porn, everything else has large breasted women on it.

Except for on forums on the internet, men like large breasts. No two ways about it.


Damn, that's me resigned to the scrap heap then. And yet men scream 'no' when women say they want implants. Lose - lose situation.


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 crazytimes1

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Posted: 4/6/2008 3:37:47 AM

Damn, that's me resigned to the scrap heap then. And yet men scream 'no' when women say they want implants. Lose - lose situation.

I generalised a little, but you have too. Some men are obsessive compulsive about implants. Most are not going to be able to pick a decent job in reality. The majority of enhancements are from a below average to average or just above average size, they are not the massive dumptrucks seen in fetish porn.

Most prefer larger breasts. Most are accepting of anyone regardless of breast size. Preference and acceptance are very different beasts.
 aitche

Joined: 12/22/2007
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Posted: 4/6/2008 4:10:09 AM
It's a sad state of affairs when women feel they have to mutilate themselves in order to fit in. Some men have come on here and said they prefer smaller breasts and you call them liers, do you know for sure they are lying or is it possible that they do, actually, have a different preference to you? Or are you assuming they're saying that to get laid?


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 hardcandylick

Joined: 11/19/2007
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Posted: 4/6/2008 4:51:18 AM

Who stole the jam from your doughnut champ? Someone opened the door and let the fun out did they?


Awww...did mass media commercialism get the better of you? Feeling like a kite with no wind in your sails or no lead in the pencil? No bullets in your gun and just shooting blanks? I'm sorry for not being a sucker, too. But there's something that you can take to cure all your ills of unrealistic expectations of people that you don't know: it's called reality.


When you're talking the science of breasts and discovering their true shape and form, dude, you're messing with a master. Observe.


Compare the artifically enhanced Demi Moore to the old Demi Moore. Age aside, she was better back in the day. Two of the most popular porn stars in the past few years were Taylor Rain (retired) and Jenna Haze. Both are no bigger than a B cup and guys were definitely using them to pull a fast one. Then look at that montrsoity called Pamela Anderson or Jenna Jameson. Big fake boobs ain't doing nothing for their looks, that's for sure.

I'm not against "big bangers" (POF member inspired), but don't spread the myth that it's the #1 common denominator for an interpetation of beauty. Just because you can't get past your monthly cum covered FHM issue, doesn't mean that it's the end all to be all. BTW, a lot of those girls in those magazines are no bigger than B cup, but that's the miracle of modern photography and most men's inability to determine cup size (thanks damn wonderbra).

That old trick of a woman handling the breast from underneath with her palms and the fingers spread out in pictorials is the original breast enhancement. Bent over gravity shots are always a great tease and you'll see plenty of women employing that scheme here on the good 'ol POF. Same deal with the overhead helicopter shot peering down from above, like the camera is a fly on the wall ready to bungee jump in her cleavage. Combined with a low cut top and the forearm under the breats, viola! Big hooters. Most enhancement bras give the tell tale sign of what is called, "soft cleavage" in the industry. It's most noticeable when runway models strut like crazy down the catwalk. When they cross their legs while charging down the runway, it causes everything to sway and jiggle, giving the false impression of bigger tits. But truly bigger ones don't bounce as much due to their weight.


And to anyone wanting to argue that men see big breasts as a sign of a good nuturer from our less evolved days, well that's only a piece of the story. According to what has been reaserched it's not only the breasts, but the overall shape concerning the width of a woman's hips in relation to her shoulders, i.e. the hourglass figure, that draw men in. She has to look like she can carry a child for the majority of men who want to bear children. The guys who don't care for children/don't want any soon, are more inclined to not be impressed by a huge chest that much. An even more hidden gem was the fact that our sense of smell plays a larger role than most people know when choosing a mate to "hunt." Though most people don't realize it, it's quite obvious, i.e. as soon as you pick up on something that stinks, you turn away and wretch. The opposite has turned out to be true, but not like the perfume and cologne companies would have you think. Our natural clean scent mixed in with our body oils is more of an attention getter than any body spray. Ask any woman and she'll usually admit to being a sucker for the way a man smells when getting all cozy and naked. Huge turn on for women and for men, as well. It's one of the reasons that we go after the neck and face when kissing a woman, because of the fact that there's more blood vessels located underneath the pores there than on any other body part that generate a release of scent when aroused. Simply put, when a woman gets flushed more blood rushes in and more of her scent is given off due to the horniness (scientific term). Sense of smell is a significant reason why some people also love to perform oral sex, too.

See dude, like I said, I'm a master on this subject.

Of course, if all you're doing is jacking off to pictures, well whatever. Your computer screen, dude.

Visit www.awfulplasticsurgery.com and behold the horror!
 crazytimes1

Joined: 3/24/2008
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Posted: 4/7/2008 1:38:30 AM

Awww...did mass media commercialism
I lost interest and skipped to the ending.
See dude, like I said, I'm a master on this subject.
Nope, it did not improve.

Nice little speech, if anyone bothers to ever read it.
 PeterC

Joined: 3/6/2008
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Posted: 4/7/2008 2:29:13 AM
Im a leg man not a breast man !

Small and pert suits me fine :p
 Ahoytheredave

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Posted: 4/7/2008 8:44:19 AM
I have read that men who are hung up on large breasts have issues over being bottle fed.

Back when streaking was the fad on college campuses, I remember the large breasted women wore bras with their sneakers. It really drove in the point about practicality.

As far as the men are concerend, if you want to draw attention to your breasts, enhance them. If you prefer to draw attention to your personality, enhace your personality.

Attractions are based on genetic programming first. Men are programmed to be attracted more the a woman's shape than anything else particularly waist to hip ratio as it is a fertility indicator. Women are attracted to ability to provide and "dominant" genes usually starting with height. Their attraction to dominant behaviors in men run counter to honesty, loyality, generosity etc. claimed in profiles. Key phrases are "knows what he wants and knows how to get it." When it comes to looking for long term, its personality that should count as you are considering that person as a life partner.

Women tend to be far more selective than men based on appearance. The men they are not interested in tend to be invisable. The limited number of attractive men don't need to treat people well to get all the female attention they want thus many women claim all men are jerks. In fact, the more abusive men tend to be more genetically attractive to women because of the behavior.
 Lucky_Vet

Joined: 3/27/2005
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Posted: 4/7/2008 8:51:38 AM
Flat is sexy, so is big boobed.

Its all good.
 bobafett777

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Posted: 4/7/2008 8:58:21 AM
natural looks are always better then unnatural. no matter what. silicone and all sorts of pads are a big turn-off for me.
 hardcandylick

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Posted: 4/8/2008 8:52:51 PM
You said that you "skipped to the ending," but then said nice speech if anyone bothers to read it." You realize the oxymoron in your statements, right? If you "lost interest," then you couldn't determine whether I "improved" or whether it was "nice." So by your own turn of the tongue, you do admit to reading it and not losing interest. So I guess that you did "bother."

So which lie are you perpetuating on yourself today?
 crazytimes1

Joined: 3/24/2008
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Posted: 4/8/2008 9:15:49 PM
You said that you "skipped to the ending," but then said nice speech if anyone bothers to read it." You realize the oxymoron in your statements, right? If you "lost interest," then you couldn't determine whether I "improved" or whether it was "nice." So by your own turn of the tongue, you do admit to reading it and not losing interest. So I guess that you did "bother."

Sarcasm is lost on you.

I assure you I did not read past where I quoted and the last couple of lines. Even that last post was that boring I struggled to read it all too, you may want to add a little zest sunshine.

So which lie are you perpetuating on yourself today?
Funny you should turn up again. I had a brief discussion with someone about this thread only a few hours ago. They do not believe you are real. I will link them and maybe they will read your post.
 hardcandylick

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Posted: 4/9/2008 12:35:07 AM
Poor attempt at sarcasm dude. Try better next time.


Funny you should turn up again. I had a brief discussion with someone about this thread only a few hours ago. They do not believe you are real. I will link them and maybe they will read your post.


Oh yeah, I'm imaginary now! Do you really have that much time on your hands? Try masturbating to women with A cup breasts instead. At least you'll get something to show for your effort. Try Taylor Rain for porn. She's a total slut.
 ~Scoundrel~

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Posted: 4/9/2008 3:32:07 AM
Should a woman pad? Hmmmmm... Should a man lie about his income?
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