| help I love him
Posted: 2/18/2008 11:35:00 PM | | If someone breaks up with you, the only thing you can do is preserve your dignity and forget them. You will heal faster if you just cut off all contact, eliminate any fantasies of getting back together. Once the words are done, once you are broken up -- it is done and can't be fixed. Only about 1% of reconciliations ever work out. Move on and find someone new. | |
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kellum
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Joined: 1/22/2008
Msg: 27 | |
| help I love him
Posted: 2/22/2008 4:29:31 PM | | obviously you loved him but he didnt love you. he never let go of her in his heart. im sorry. but this happens to everyone. if you love something set it free.... dont give him excuses for being a shit head | |
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| help I love him
Posted: 2/22/2008 4:39:17 PM | At least we was honest with you and he might still be thinking about his ex more than anything else, even though you don't want to believe it. I think you are hurting yourself by sticking around him and are keeping your hopes up. Think about it a little, if broke it off once, who says he won't do it again.
Time to pack it up and move on, you'll find someone as good or better for yourself.
Good luck! | |
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| help I love him
Posted: 2/22/2008 5:32:43 PM | | Ive also done what he has done. Run away from relationships instead of lettin them run their course and just go with the flow and see what happens. Normally I do one date and Im out, but i can say this. Ive only just started seein someone and it hasnt happened. I realise now that the others just didnt feel right in some way and this time i had a wobble and discussed it and felt bad tryin to end it. The point im tryin to make is that maybe for him it isnt the right relationship if it was he'd discuss it like i had to cos losin someone is worse than facin the fear. You cant force him into being with you and it seems your gonna have to force him and thats no good. He should want to be with you enough to deal with it not leave you to do all the work it isnt fair hun x | |
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| help I love him
Posted: 2/22/2008 5:55:12 PM | But is too hard. I have the same problem and is very painful see him here trying to meet another worman. When he dont give any explication for leave me alone...... I am trying to forget or hate him but i cannt...
micman111 why you did me this??? =( | |
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| help I love him
Posted: 2/23/2008 7:31:57 AM | | You need to sit him down and tell him everything you are feeling in your heart. Just come clean with it all. If he is afarid of being hurt, and if you are certain you will not hurt him, tell him so. If he isnt back with his ex, maybe you can suggest taking your relationship up a notch. Just tell him you love him so much. If he is a caring man, ask him to open his heart to you, and give your love another chance. If you love somebody and they love you, I dont see the reason not to be together.Love is a powerful emotion and its hard to come by, true love that is. When you finally find it, dont let it go no matter. If he wants time to think, give him time. Always be there for him so he will know you have no intention of hurting him. | |
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