| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 8:53:16 AM | AMEN ECKY,,MEN ARE PRO'S AT PLAYING WITH THE HEART AND EMOTIONS,,THEY HAVE BECOME PROS AT SAING WHAT WE WANT TO HEAR THAN,JUST OUT THE BLUE THERE DONE,OR GONE TO THE VICTIM.. | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 10:28:13 AM | | Men play with hearts as much as women. I'm tired of games and playing. I want one man in my life who will love me and cherish me for me. I DO NOT play with hearts and emotions. What you see and hear is what you get with me, period. I don't understand why so many men are on dating sites stating they want longterm relationships when they have no intention of getting involved with anyone. | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 11:59:47 AM | | i can say im sorry that it happens but the fact is that if someone isnt mature enough emotionally or mentally for a relationship its not gonna happen, im only 20 and im far more mature then most people in that i know what i want exactly from a relationship and i know what to expect by getting into one, my thing is you have to experience the bad to really appreciate when something or someone good comes into your life, if you never get hurt how can you appreciate the good things right. I have to say it sucks that people play games string you along get your hopes up just to let you down its hard and i've experienced it enough to know first hand what thats like, i would go into my story but its a long winded tale that will probably take to long to write and read so ill just sum up and say dont lose faith in finding that special someone for you, they are out there. love comes to us in unexpected ways, we cant always be ready for the hurt just as we cant always be ready when our true love will come into our lives. | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 12:02:04 PM | Is it not better to loved wholeheartedly and lost, then not to have loved at all? Just know that eventually you will meet someone true and honest. Someone who reciprocates your feelings, but if you remain closed off you will never know when that person will cross your path, as you will not be able to see how good they are.
Good luck! | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 12:11:02 PM | . . . you trust someone with your heart not to hurt you and they do it anyway. I am done. - sixpacabs2004
> I don't mean to sound disrespectful, but this sounds like the thinking of a naïve 16-year-old schoolgirl. "Don't break my heart or I'll get my big brother onto you." "You promised to love me for ever, and now you [substitute whatever 'crime' was committed] . . . " "I trusted you, and yet . . . "
> You need to read a book called Awareness by the late Anthony de Mello. Put aside your long-cherished and deeply-held illusions, your fallacies, your ideas about 'love', which are invariably wrong, and read this book.
> After you have read, and studied it, you will see the world anew, with fresh eyes. You will revisit your words on this posting - and I squirm when I read them, to be honest - and you will blush with embarrassment.
> I promise you, sixpacabs2004, that by the time you finish reading Anthony de Mello's book you will be an entirely different man. No one - and I mean no one - will have the power to 'hurt' you ever again.
> This book, in my opinion - and I have been an avid reader all my life and have read thousands of books - is the finest I have ever read.
> I could finish off with three words - read this book. But I am more inclined to finish off with four words - read this book now.
> Best wishes - Soul Union. | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 12:33:28 PM | | That's a good positive attitude.........just give up.....and tell everyone about it......that is pathetic...........I don't think this has ever happened to anyone before...I hope you never reproduce....oh yeah.....you'd probably give up if it didn't work the first time. | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 12:35:32 PM | Well I know my latest experience opened my eyes and I think this is what maybe has happened to u. Met a man on POF, we chatted, talked on the phone, got along great. Went out on the meet/greet
Take some time for ur self and then get back out there and keep dating. The right one is waiting for u.
J | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 12:41:50 PM | There are two sides to every story..I've found that most people on here lie,at least aren't honest,or do some serious hedging...and that goes for forums too....I guess the best adage to believe in,is,do unto others as you would have them do unto you...whichever way you take it...maybe we need to read the book up above...love?...what is that?...between man and woman......very rare commodity because most of us really don't want to get involved....and if you look at the animal world,there are very few animals that commit....and stay with their mate....and they suffer when their mate is gone,but then again, so do siblings....I think maybe we better stop with the fantasies and get real about life....just because you like someone,doesn't mean that they have to like you back...and that in itself is very rare....they may like you back,but only if you give,give,give.....so they are using love as payment,barter,to get what they want....that sucks....men should stay solo...they can only love for a little while...the honeymoon stage.....when that's over,it's over...jmho...unless of course,they are enjoying other perks in the relationship....such as spoiling,infatuation,need,comfort...and that's not love....so suck it up and be a big boy...maybe she was too smart....lol
Women aren't as dumb anymore,unless they're needy...just because a guy flirts with them or is attentive,they do guard their heart,and even then,they can be tricked...Guys fall in love too easy...it isn't love,it's lust...and they get all disillusioned when the female realizes it. | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 12:47:21 PM | I've found that most people on here [Pof] lie, at least aren't honest . . . - hellofagal
> That's a hell-of-an-accusation.
> Have you personally communicated with 'most' people on this site? Have you had sufficient, in-depth experience of how they think? Have you interacted with them and generally become acquainted with them to substantiate that accusation?
> Generalization is the art of the fool, it has been said. You might want to alter the course of your compass, at least a few degrees.
> Best wishes - Soul Union. | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 12:51:06 PM |
I've found that most people on here lie,at least aren't honest,or do some serious hedging...
I think your assumption of most people on here lie isn't necessarily true. Maybe the people that you've come into contact OR attract lie.
Now I think "some" people lie. But come on the guy maybe having a bad day and just needed a "forum" to let it out.
Sounds like you have had some experiences hellfagal that have tarnished you in some way. Sounds like this was a forum for you to let it out :)
Reality is that things don't always go the way you want them to. If something happens that upsets me I have only a 24 hour pity party after that I move forward. | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 1:04:43 PM | | It happens to us all , you could of married and then she decided it wasn't for her than how would you feel? I've had men break my heart and you just have to recover from it it all takes time, don't go jumping in another relationship after this one.Freshen yourself up .Smile be Happy!!! | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 2:30:29 PM | | Well I am sorry that happened to you. But not all women are like that. And let me tell you there are just as many men who do this too. Good luck. Don't give up. | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 2:31:17 PM | | Well I am sorry that happened to you. But not all women are like that. And let me tell you there are just as many men who do this too. Good luck. Don't give up. | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 2:46:31 PM | Then quit getting together with them.
Only problem is,you don't know what's going to happen when you meet someone.
I guess that's the risk we all take,men and women alike. | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 4:49:40 PM | The only problem is, you don't know what's going to happen when you meet someone. - drmmergy
> What 'problem'?
> Isn't it wonderful, not to 'know' what will happen when you meet someone? Otherwise it becomes a dreary, dreaded, sense of here-we-go-again with the same old familiarity. Why would we want to know what will happen when we meet someone new? That's not the reason for meeting people. We should be taking chances. Meeting new people. Opening up our horizons to new experiences.
> Otherwise, it's the same old predictability and stagnation.
> Best wishes - Soul Union. | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 5:09:43 PM | Most of the trouble in the world is caused by people wanting to be important."
TS Eliot
"I am a deeply superficial person. " Andy Warhol
"Everyone is a prisoner of his own experiences. No one can eliminate prejudices,just recognize them." Edward R. Murrow | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 5:20:13 PM | Hey, get over yourself...you are not the first and sure won't be the last.
Maybe she was scared of getting hurt. Couldn't deal with the pressure.
Maybe she had been hurt in the past. There are alot of reasons why...but I am sure she didn't mean to hurt you. Stop thinking about JUST YOURSELF and try to see it from her perspective or else you are gonna wind up bitter, synical, and ultimately ALONE!!! | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 5:59:17 PM | I know what you are going through..... I had the same thing happen on her not once but twice by the same guy.. Here is hoping they are not all like that.... Good luck you seem like a lovely guy  | |
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| I am so sick of woman who Play with your heart
Posted: 2/22/2008 6:08:07 PM | She changed her mind ~ they do that
I'm sure there are ones that don't ~ but not many
The question is ? ~ what was ever on their mind to begin with?
Were there ever words of love? ~ hopes and dreams?
Only you and her know that. ~ dar | |
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