| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 7/4/2008 6:53:00 AM | | I usually only view profiles if they've caught my interest in something they've said in the forums. Or if they've viewed me first. I rarely send a message and rarely receive one. Life's already too complicated. | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/11/2008 8:11:36 AM | I check every day. Then I just end up feeling disappointed that so many men have checked me out and not one message.. sigh. I had pics up, then I got all kinds of mail, it isn't fair! I want a man who wants Who I am, not What I have or What I look like!
I am Not bling!
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/11/2008 8:23:02 AM | cheerleader ^^^
I check every day. Then I just end up feeling disappointed that so many men have checked me out and not one message.. sigh. I had pics up, then I got all kinds of mail, it isn't fair! I want a man who wants Who I am, not What I have or What I look like!
Perhaps there are other aspects of your profile that are discouraging fellows from contacting you. Currently you live in "Exterior, British Columbia". I admit I not familiar with every community in this fair province but suspect if I were to search for "Exterior" would not find it.
So perhaps it isn't so much Who or What you have or What you look like but Where you are? Long-distance relationships by definition are both difficult and expensive.
I think if you want to hide you will get little attention.
Tight lines.
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/11/2008 2:49:45 PM | Yes! I have ended up talking to some great guys who actually have been caught looking at my profile regularly but were scared to contact me (you KNOW who you are!)
I understand it shows if u want to check someone's profile out the first time, but if they keep looking at your pics more than once then they must have some interest.
This feature almost works like a wink if you notice that someone keeps looking (or you can at least put a fact to your next stalker). | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/11/2008 5:51:38 PM | I turned my show viewed off because It's hard too see those tiny little pictures, and I still have yet to read about who they are...by that time... whether you like what you see THEY SEE ME. | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/11/2008 5:56:19 PM | Ya...I think I may now do the switch now and then to let them know I've viewed them..especially because I WANT them to know that I looked at there profile.
Wish there was a button I could click on so I can say Show I Viewed or
Don't Show I Viewed
It'd be alot easier.:up | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/12/2008 2:38:50 AM | i check to see if i can spot my future ex....i can't help but wonder what she will look like .....
where she lives....what she likes to do.....children or no children..??how long we will last.......lol... | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/12/2008 5:49:10 AM |
Msg: xx I don't interpret frequent views as meaning anything too serious. Probably just as well. The top row of the “Viewed Me” page doesn’t actually show frequent views, just users who viewed you at some point (and maybe once only) and when they were last online. | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/12/2008 4:56:10 PM | ^^^ viewed me so often - one of us went blind !!
lol - ya thats it i posted at myself
gawd what a dork | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/12/2008 5:28:53 PM | | I wanna know what GIRLS view me Hmmmph................................. | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/12/2008 8:35:30 PM | | I view alot of random profiles so if I checked out anyones I was just browsing :) and i check out both men and women :P | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/12/2008 9:05:01 PM | I always check! I have rarely logged on this year and in it gives me a snapshot of whom I may want to say hi to! So little time and my way of filtering :( | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/22/2008 9:24:37 AM | | It is a curiosity to see who's looking, personally I don't spend any time thinking about their motives. No harm in looking, and since we all put ourselves on here freely, looking at each other on this type of forum would not be considered stalking. I do find it interesting that many people seem come across as too perfect, something to be vary of as no one is perfect, except Jesus and maybe the Dalai Lama. It's all in fun, and if some make that magic connection, how wonderful it is too meet someone that trully compliments you. | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/23/2008 11:05:28 AM | Yes I do, because I am curious, but on a down point, would love to know why they looked and kept on going On an up note I get to look at them and keep on going sometimes, a lot of the time I will drop a small note to them but very seldom hear back. | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 8/23/2008 11:21:50 AM | I only check those that are New on the list.... The others haven't actually 'viewed me' in ages..... and it's already been determined that there's no match in chemistry -one way or the other- So the list, itself is pretty much Useless...
I wish that Canadians were included on 'The List', though...!! I'd like to talk with a Lot of them...!!! ... ... | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 9/1/2008 8:01:45 PM | Of course I look...just making sure you BC folks haven't forgotten me lol...and sometimes I just lurk
OT: hello all, life just isn't the same without you..and i really mean that! | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 9/1/2008 8:08:53 PM | robisaleo
Wish there was a button I could click on so I can say Show I Viewed or
Don't Show I Viewed
there is,... go to mail settings and you can click on the option of if you don't want people to see that you viewed them. | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 9/2/2008 11:56:27 AM | | Can't say that i do.If someone has viewed me and not left a message of some sort then they must not have liked what they saw or read.Now,if someone adds me to their favorites,then i look. | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 9/2/2008 5:00:03 PM | Looking...................
Adding.............................
Waiting...............................
Hoping.....................................
Wishing........................................
Praying............................................ | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 9/2/2008 5:39:04 PM | | I check, but just out of curiosity. However I've learned it really doesn't mean much since I suspect that a lot of people have that feature disabled and for whatever reason don't want people to know they looked at their profile. I've turned mine off quite recently. | |
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| Viewed Me..do you check? Posted: 9/13/2008 6:11:21 PM | Base on repeated observations I realize that some people do not understand exactly how the "Viewed Me" feature of POF works.
Months ago a woman (since deleted) wrote and said something to the effect "I notice you keeping viewing me. Whatever you are looking for you won't find it here."
I politely explained I needed to have looked at her profile only once with stealth settings off. She didn't even thank me, she blocked me. Go figure.
The top row of user photos or user names is users who have at one point viewed the profile. They need have viewed the profile only once.
The second and other lines is users sorted by when they last viewed the profile.
I am frequently on a computer for other reasons but when I am online I am usually logged into POF as well. Sometimes my stealth settings are off.
So it is likely that my photo frequently shows up in the top row of viewers, though I might have looked at a profile only one time and it could have been long ago too.
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