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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/21/2007 9:10:49 PM | hhhmmmmmmm
for the record, there is such a thing as a bad blow job-so bad you just tell the lady/partner to stop(if they aren't receptive to....coaching that is) BUT that may not be the same as a guy who doesn't enjoy oral sex
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/21/2007 11:14:05 PM | You need to relax! You'll have the opportunity to please her and you’re not in a race...
Think of it as a gift. They want to give you that gift and often that gift gives them as much pleasure then it gives you. It would be rude to suggest her gift is not worthy.
So, stop being so selfish....
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/21/2007 11:56:45 PM | I can though not always. Most of the time though it's not a problem. If the woman is putting forth a lot of effort (as I do when I lick her) then more than likely I'll orgasm. If not, or if she scrapes me with her teeth a lot then will probably have to finish up with penetration.  | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/22/2007 12:23:53 AM | My ex husband hated getting oral, only came about 1/4 of the time, and even then, it was kinda like 'whew, thank god thats over and done with'.
Now I know its not me, as I have had plenty of comliments in my time, plus I love it!
He said that I was the first girl he met that liked it, and he always felt like he was abusing me for letting me go down there..... so maybe psychological?
And yes, it was a huge issue for me (one of the many!!) for the reasons the other girls have stated. | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/22/2007 2:01:34 AM |
I've never known a guy who didn't get off from oral.
I couldn't care less if a woman performs oral sex. It feels nice, more relaxing than sexual, and I do not orgasm from it no matter how good she is. It just doesn't stimulate me in that way. I appreciate the effort, but if you are planning on continuing until I have orgasmed, as some have tried, you are excercising futility. | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/22/2007 3:27:19 AM | | I love it but.... it might take me a looooong time to come, so if she isn't enjoying what she's doing for her own pleasure, or isn't in it for the long haul, she's going to get tired of doing it, and I just won't get there either. | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/22/2007 4:29:27 AM | I have had a couple guys say they couldn't get off from oral..... well, one said never and the other said that only one other woman had been able to accomplish it and that was his highschool sweetheart. I succeeded with both of them. I do it because I LOVE to..... not as some sort of challenge or anything like that.
Although, I would be interested to know if any guys compliment women on their skills just to get more oral or say that noone has ever gotten them off by oral just to see if she will do it. Because I've always wondered just how sincere all the compliments I've received have been. lol Not that I mind..... I love the compliments and I love doing it.... just wonder sometimes is all. And I must be pretty good..... you don't keep going back if it's bad... right???? 
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/22/2007 4:53:35 AM | Virtually impossible for most guys to get off from oral - well, at least from my experiences and those of my male friends.
Unless you're giving some presentaton at a high-powered business meeting with her under the table/podium or she has a terrible technique (which is also pretty rare), then let it snow, so to speak.
Although it does take me longer to release with oral (as I'm sure it's same with other guys) ... but it feels so damn good. | |
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Rhett1
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Joined: 10/16/2005
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/22/2007 6:30:35 AM | Now if the girl doesn't mind being man-handled {being as to where I slam in and out of her mouth while she sucks} Okay, it just got very warm in here... (I love this little guy!)
My experience has been that some men can't do it, others can and some can't do it all the time, other's can. Another big factor is the woman. Let's face it, some of us aren't as skilled as others. My ex told me that I was the only one who could do it because I had the perfect technique (yeah, yeah, I know, he could have been lying...whatever) and I wasn't afraid to get a little aggressive, aka "woman-handled".
I wouldn't hold it against a guy, it's not something that works for all. Of course, he shouldn't hold it against me, either. Wait a second...that's not what I mean...lol | |
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Joined: 8/17/2005
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2007 12:00:35 PM | | Who doesn't like oral sex? I like it, it should be part of sex. I don't enjoy doing it to men though. But enjoy it if it's done to me properly.. Ha ha. | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2007 1:28:03 PM | | I find it depends on the partner giving the oral sex. I have gotten off from it and there were times when I couldnt either. I guess it depends on both partners and how they work together to get each other off. Good or bad sex takes work from both partners. Giving is more important to me than receiving. | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/27/2007 10:07:50 AM | this is a funny topic. I think the first thing we all have to remember is to ENJOY the other person, feel your way. I had a guy once tell me that I was so into my "job" that he didn't think I knew he was attached to his penis! (Oh, and he was saying this while he was orgasming.) Then there was my ex husband, the minute I even started to go down there, he would tense up and lose total interest - notice the ex in front of husband).
So some great results and some not so great! I think it all depends. But if anything please be honest with us women. If you can't come in say 20 minutes, and she is giving it her all, and you KNOW you won't be coming, then let her off the hook and switch to something else! | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/27/2007 1:54:43 PM | | iv never come close to getting off on oral despite many gals and many hours worth but whats more important to me is the fact that giving is more important to me because its a much better experience knowing a woman gets to have a dam good orgasm, its just awsom especially when lots of women never have an orgasm from their partner. | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/27/2007 2:03:32 PM | ^^^ Nice plug for yourself there dezzhoudini! 
The topic of this thread is Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Not what YOU can do to make the girls feel good. I'm sure messages will come pouring in your box now. lol
On topic: I have yet to meet one of these guys who don't get off from a good...well you know. | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/27/2007 2:11:49 PM | lol not my intention venusocean
gals would have to work herd to get me cuz i go for faithfull women not women after 1 thing
dam im doin it again lol | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/27/2007 2:28:54 PM | To Dezzhoudine - Post #43
This is from your post on "Charity Sex": You said: besides sex is sex why go for intamesy if your not in a relationship with the person your about to have sex with? just have a good time and then be done with it.
What's your actual position? | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/27/2007 6:30:27 PM | I think if I could never get him off I would be disapointed...it's all about the money shot and the money shot makes it more fun
sometimes I'm just too greedy to wait any longer though
However if it was a never I would be disapointed but keep on trying cuz I like it anyways
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/27/2007 7:03:28 PM | I think for me what a lot of women don't realize is it is about finesse... you don't necessarily have to do it fast, or even hard. As sex therapist Dr. Ruth Westheimer suggests... try approaching it like licking an ice cream cone..... WORKS FER ME!
P.S. Any of the women out there who claim they've never had a problem getting a guy off orally.... CARE FOR A CHALLENGE? Let's talk! ' ' | |
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Posted: 6/27/2007 8:41:39 PM | yeah I guess I am one of those rare guys...(weird to most of you all from the comments I have read)
I enjoy it but dont ever get off on it. Not that it really bothers me - masturbation works fine lol. I dont think its that big of a deal. For some not seeing is like the end of the word - but if you were born blind its just part of who you are....right? | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/27/2007 8:43:07 PM | | usually i just want to thrust so that's why i wouldn't get off..i would feel bad to hump her face... although some chicks want you to do that. | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/27/2007 9:18:18 PM | im a guy that carnt get off by oral i dont no y i love it. my gf gets mad at me sumtimes dosnt think she is ne good but she is its just me  | |
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| Guys that don't get off from Oral sex
Posted: 6/28/2007 8:50:32 AM | to wishes granted - post #44
theirs intamesy and theirs sensuality its only good to get intemate with some one your really care about where as every one like to get sensual when sex is involved
as for my position, well that would be tellin ;) | |
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