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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 8/27/2007 12:01:46 AM | I really don't see a problem with men visiting the paid ladies as long as they aren't hurting anyone else. I've found that some men HAVE to have sex or they will just burst. Some men are not into sex so much and are happy with porn and hand. And some men need all of it!
What I don't think is right are the men who like to abuse women and use prostitutes for their sick and deranged fantasies. That's why so many are murdered, hurt and abused.
Making it legal in a house that has protection would be great. The more men that can drain themselves of their little swimmers with ease, the less tension and violence in the world there would be. | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/11/2007 5:31:29 AM |
We pay for it one way or another:
whats more degrading? paying a girl to sleep with you and have no negative repercushins. Or sleep with a woman that later wants to marry and have a family but realizes half way through you won't change into what she really wanted so she starts seeing someone else and you get divorced and paychild support and live in a tiny little shack, while your ex is driving your porsche and banging younger guys in your house!
I vote for the hooker
Not to mention that the hooker usually doesn't mind when you like her and her friend!
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/11/2007 8:56:26 AM | | I would if I could figure out how to do it without getting busted or ripped off. I have come to think of a normal relationship as impossible. I also enjoy sex. It is not a matter of being desperate for sex, just of liking how it feels. I couldn't approach a woman and ask her to have sex just to have sex, because she wouldn't. That leaves prostitution. The trouble is, it is illegal around here. I don't know how to find a prostitute without getting arrested. I would ask the police but I don't think they would tell me. It's like when women sneer at men who just want sex, telling the men to go get a hooker, they never explain how to go get a hooker. They assume the man will know how, or they don't care if he knows. In other words, it is clear to me that I am alone in this and if I ever do find a hooker and have sex, it will be from my own effort with no help from any of the women who are not hookers but who don't want to have sex with me. At some point sex is too much bother to arrange. I am at that point. So although I would be happy to find a happy hooker, I will just go without and put my time into other pursuits, such as posting online explaining why I would if I could but can't and don't. | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/11/2007 2:14:38 PM |
Not to mention STD's & some condoms can't even protect against
Hmmm because you couldnt possibly catch one of those stds from a guy you meet in a bar or on a dating site??
I think end of the day prostitutes provide a service, men need sex, the women need the money, if their happy in their work fair play to them so long as their being careful and getting checked out regularly whats the problem? | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/13/2007 2:47:30 AM |
At some point sex is too much bother to arrange. I am at that point.
Me too -at least I can still beat off I wonder what guys who can't beat off do?
So although I would be happy to find a happy hooker, I will just go without and put my time into other pursuits
Hooker's cost a lot of money too. I think I would rather focus on becoming rich (which has been known to illicit attraction from certain types of women:) instead of running around looking for prostitutes!
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/13/2007 3:21:21 AM | I wouldnt be overly bothered if a guy i saw had used a prostitute/escort.
I mean look at it like this.
you can meet a guy whos had hundreds of lovers but you dont know bout this or a guy whos had a handful and visited a lady of the night.
My mate was an escort, basically a prostitute.
People always bring up about stds when mentioning this profession but its not brought up about relationships etc so much but the thing is you can catch them anywhere!
Most of nowadays are usin condoms etc but you can still catch an std.
Thats the risk we take or we would never have sex.
From what i know bout my friend she was tested every 3 months and had as safe sex as possible like the rest of us.
Someone made the comment that they wouldnt buy a car that someone had died in so wouldnt fvck a man a whore has sucked on.
WELL i hate to point this out but just cos a man aint paid for it doesnt mean he aint slept with some right dirty old bags!!!!! | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/13/2007 9:59:12 AM |
Someone made the comment that they wouldnt buy a car that someone had died in so wouldnt fvck a man a whore has sucked on. WELL i hate to point this out but just cos a man aint paid for it doesnt mean he aint slept with some right dirty old bags!!!!!
Haha, so true!
People always assume prostitutes are full of diseases, its simply not the case, having worked at a sexual health clinic in the past, its very rare you get a prostitute with an std.
The majority who catch somehing are regular ppl having unsafe sex when their drunk etc, so it makes your wonder, who has more sense? The girl sleeping with men for money, being careful, getting checked up regularly... or the girls/boys that go out on a fri/sat, pull a stranger and for whatever reason don't use protection? | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/16/2007 5:11:11 AM | If a person is single, then they aren't hurting anyone. If a man goes out and picks up a chick at a bar and has a one night stand, he has no idea of her sexual history. She isn't being paid, but how wld u know she doesn't go there and sleep with every guy she sees. Not a hooker, but same idea really. So the fact that money changes hands is really the only difference to going out and sleeping with a random person.
It's wrong if the person is in a relation ship with someone, but some men can't go without sex, so if it's available, can't blame em for using it. I'm a girl, I don't need to pay for it, lol. | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/16/2007 6:51:40 AM | ^^^ That's the side of "womankind" that makes me happy being apart from women.
Being attracted to creatures who abuse you for your being attracted to them leads to being disgusted with the situation, and that disgust spills over onto the object of desire making it disgusting, and the derisive laughter settles it. I know it is not women's fault men find them attractive, but it is their doing to scorn men for it and to ridicule frustration and loneliness. The net effect is good, an antidote to a doomed desire, erasing the desire, replacing it with contempt, making the contempt mutual, and on to other things, sex with women left behind as a thing that came and went, and women seen altogether as people best to avoid. | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/16/2007 8:37:03 AM |
^^^ That's the side of "womankind" that makes me happy being apart from women.
Being attracted to creatures who abuse you for your being attracted to them leads to being disgusted with the situation, and that disgust spills over onto the object of desire making it disgusting, and the derisive laughter settles it. I know it is not women's fault men find them attractive, but it is their doing to scorn men for it and to ridicule frustration and loneliness. The net effect is good, an antidote to a doomed desire, erasing the desire, replacing it with contempt, making the contempt mutual, and on to other things, sex with women left behind as a thing that came and went, and women seen altogether as people best to avoid.
TomCat: Thats just one woman's point of view. Not all women think the same way.
BTW: I had a cousin who went into the escort biz when her husband left her. During their marriage, he had insisted that she stay home and she had very little working experience.
From the stories she told me. They are most likely way safer when it comes to STD's then your average bar pick up or casual dater one might indulge with. It was mandatory that safe sex be practiced in every encounter. She was clinically tested every 3 months for std/hiv. Not only that, the guys she hooked-up with were mainly business gentlemen and treated her with more respect then her husband ever did.
She also made a fortune.
I wouldn't want someone I was in a long term relationship to be enjoying the benefits of an escort, but I can certainly see the benefits of one.
I also feel that a "prostitute" is of a different calibre in the sex-for-money trade, and would think (but I admit I do not know) that they would be a little riskier overall. | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/16/2007 8:58:45 AM | I never used to understand why men would employ the services of a call girl or escort, but lemme tell ya, the lovely city of Lesboqueerque, Noo Mehico is teaching me why.....
I do sometimes see men in the pretty obvious company of an escort out at bars and clubs, and I'm starting to understand why.
As for regular street hookers, I have NO FREAKING CLUE why anyone in anywhere even NEAR their right mind would ever even want to look at those disease ridden, multiply infested scum!
YUCK! | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/16/2007 9:10:13 AM | "Never pay for something that you can get for free. And if you do, you're just lazy."
That's a rather disingenuous statement, If you really do believe you can obtain sex from any woman for free, you are clearly lying to yourself. if it's really that easy what are you doing here on a singles dating site? for a lot of men Finding a sexual partner can be very time consuming and emotionally draining. Dating invloves putting up with lots of rejection, drama and other tedious bullshit. If you can obtain sex without having to pay for it good for you. but just because you're not paying any money doesn't mean it's not costing you anything. Calling men who pay for it "lazy" is another disingenous statement. They are paying for sex with the money they EARNED from their jobs. It's certainly not any lazier then a guy who gets sex simply because he was born with good looks. and what about men who seek the company of an escort because they don't have time to do the whole bar/club thing due to their time consuming jobs? are they lazy to?
something to ponder about | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/17/2007 5:12:50 AM | I think people who go to prostitues/escorts are the scum of the earth! LOL!
Youd actually be amazed at the type of guys that visit escorts/prostitutes, what I gathered from talking to girls, alot are married men, their wives won't do certain things or they just arent intimate anymore and men need sex. And they have very well paid, high powered jobs, bank managers, directors etc.
Some are single attractive guys who simply couldnt be bothered wih the hassel of the dating game, the effort of meeting a girl, taking her out a few times only to find shes not iterested, so he sees an escort and is guaranteed sex, whats the problem? their normal people with needs just like you. still think their 'scum'? Wouldnt you think tthe men who pimp and rape girls (postitues or not) are scum? | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/17/2007 5:18:46 AM |
As for regular street hookers, I have NO FREAKING CLUE why anyone in anywhere even NEAR their right mind would ever even want to look at those disease ridden, multiply infested scum! YUCK!
Of couse not one man in any bar/club could possibly fall ino the category of 'disease ridden, multiply infested scum' regular people couldnt possibly catch an std?
Your comment is so small minded, you know nothing about their background, some have addictions, most have pimps who will either beat or rape them if they dont come home with the goods, and then you get 'scum' men who offer the girls who re in a desperate situation ie; have to feed their kids more money to do it without a condom, so who do you blame?? | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/17/2007 5:28:38 AM | Well I've had a few friends in the past that would, most the time there fed up with the drama b.s. , there are a lot of women looking for mr. right just to treat like shhit and a women can generally get what she wants when she wants! we know how pathetic some of you men are! On top of all this I have a brother who runs an escort service, so I've seen first hand what type of women these are, let alone the type of men who use them.
I will happily rent a video and jerk it all night long, before ever turning to a whore or a dirty slut, you should take your time because the only difference between the two is one of them gets paid for it! | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/17/2007 10:54:11 AM |
That's a rather disingenuous statement, If you really do believe you can obtain sex from any woman for free, you are clearly lying to yourself. if it's really that easy what are you doing here on a singles dating site? for a lot of men Finding a sexual partner can be very time consuming and emotionally draining. Dating invloves putting up with lots of rejection, drama and other tedious bullshit. If you can obtain sex without having to pay for it good for you. but just because you're not paying any money doesn't mean it's not costing you anything. Calling men who pay for it "lazy" is another disingenous statement. They are paying for sex with the money they EARNED from their jobs. It's certainly not any lazier then a guy who gets sex simply because he was born with good looks. and what about men who seek the company of an escort because they don't have time to do the whole bar/club thing due to their time consuming jobs? are they lazy to?
What do you mean by disingenuous? Sounds like a big word used for ubiquitous meanings. So here we go. No, you cannot get sex from ANY woman for free, but you can get sex from SOME women, absolutely for free. Not only that, but if you do it right, it is not you the one doing the soliciting, it is them. Why, because you have created attraction on them, and they don't feel that they are doing you any favors, but doing something they want and enjoy. So am I lying to myself. No. When I dated, I got plenty of sex. Now in a relationship, I get plenty of sex. Some times I have to turn down sex. (That's horrible in my part.)
You ask if it's really that easy why am in a dating site. I can ask you the same questions, since in your photos you seem to show some weeding activity, yet you don't say anything about it in your profile. What is with that? As for me. I enjoy the forums. There's more to life than just sex.
Now finding a sexual partner can and is time consuming and yes, emotionally draining. So give up, pick up porn or a prostitute, and do none of the things that will help you achieve that. I remember, when I became single and I would go to the gym and run for one hour. I would stare into some woman's as$ working on some machine across the room. I would repeat to myself "what's your motivation?"
So when you give up easy, you do not do the things that will improve yourself, but also you will not learn the valuable lessons that are only leaned through rejection and overcoming that fear of rejection. Ohh, she said no. So let's get the call girl. Oh, I could talk to her, but she's going to reject me, so let's get the call girl.
Another thing you need to learn is that the girl that is going to sleep with you, you can not buy her. The girl you are buying expensive dinners, and flowers, and all that good stuff is not going to sleep with you. After you drop her home, she calls this guy she thinks he's a brute, then goes over his place and fvcks him. With you, she wants to go slow, hoping that something evolves, develops, like a bolt of lightning. But it doesn't.
Now don't get me wrong. I have paid for expensive dinners, but only because I wanted to have that expensive dinner, not to impress her. In fact, some of the women I have gone out with, then have said, next one is my treat, or let me buy you drinks on the next place. They believe in a equal footing.
Now how about those very busy guys, that just don't have the time because of work. Again, I believe they are lazy. People at work waste a lot of time being buzzy. Instead of trying to do something more efficient, that produces better results, they consume time putting out fires that a lot of the time could have been avoided if they took the time. Funny that a couple of my friends that are awesome with women, also happen to be the heads of companies and they almost don't have the time to do anything. So they maximize their time.
Now here's another little factor. Those that are so lazy that only want the short cut to sex, most of the time will not get sex, unless they pay for it. With dinners or with cash. Spend more time getting in the mind of woman and having simply a good time and you will never will have to pay for sex, in fact you may want to charge her.
So, disingenuous statement? I don't think so. | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/17/2007 10:11:48 PM | "No, you cannot get sex from ANY woman for free, but you can get sex from SOME women, absolutely for free"
It's only "free" because nobody else wants to sleep with them. Free is almost always the worst level of service. Just because you consider it free doesn't mean it's going to be a experience worthwhile. You could walk to work for free or you could spend money on a car and get there faster. Same logic applies when getting women.
"When I dated, I got plenty of sex. Now in a relationship, I get plenty of sex. Some times I have to turn down sex. (That's horrible in my part.)"
That angry looking expression on your face in your first pic says otherwise but
whatever I'll take your word for it.
"Now finding a sexual partner can and is time consuming and yes, emotionally draining. So give up, pick up porn or a prostitute"
Interesting you mention porn, it's a very popular product for many men Do you consider buying porn the same as going to a prostitute? What about women who purchase sex toys? where do you draw the line?
"I remember, when I became single and I would go to the gym and run for one hour. I would stare into some woman's as$ working on some machine across the room. I would repeat to myself "what's your motivation?"
You claim you can get sex for free. Yet why were you going to the gym? So you could get that fit athletic body so you could attract women? You need to work for that body didnt you? So how is it free? The same could be said about a guy who works his ass off at his job he wants to earn alot of money so he could attract women (or afford a hooker) Both of you want the same thing you just have different methods of getting it.
"So when you give up easy, you do not do the things that will improve yourself, but also you will not learn the valuable lessons that are only leaned through rejection and overcoming that fear of rejection. Ohh, she said no. So let's get the call girl. Oh, I could talk to her, but she's going to reject me, so let's get the call girl."
Why do alot guys go to prostitutes? They want sex, no dating, no relationship, no drama no nothing just sex. Is it lazy? that depends on your prespective Would it be better if a guy lied to a woman and tricked her into thinking he wanted a relationship just so he could get laid and then dumped her right after? Or he decided to use the services of a call girl so he doesn't risk hurting a woman's feelings or taking on the responsibility of a relationship when he's not in the market for one or not ready.
"Another thing you need to learn is that the girl that is going to sleep with you, you can not buy her."
Sadly yes you can money is the one thing women are universally attracted to. when you go to a callgirl you're not buying her you're just renting her for an hour LOL
"The girl you are buying expensive dinners, and flowers, and all that good stuff is not going to sleep with you. After you drop her home, she calls this guy she thinks he's a brute, then goes over his place and fvcks him. With you, she wants to go slow, hoping that something evolves, develops, like a bolt of lightning. But it doesn't."
Isn't this more justification for the guy to just go to a callgirl? Why would he waste his money wining and dining a woman who may or may not sleep with him when he could get guaranteed sex with a woman for only a fee (that's at a market price) with no strings attached and no emotional attachment? When you are out on a date it's not just your money you are spending, it's your time.
"Now how about those very busy guys, that just don't have the time because of work. Again, I believe they are lazy. People at work waste a lot of time being buzzy. Instead of trying to do something more efficient, that produces better results, they consume time putting out fires that a lot of the time could have been avoided if they took the time. Funny that a couple of my friends that are awesome with women, also happen to be the heads of companies and they almost don't have the time to do anything. So they maximize their time. "
You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. Did it ever occur to you working a high stress high pressure job with long hours could make dating and the bar/club scene a little tough? Doctors and nurses come to mind. I also know someone who is a head of a company and does well with women. The thing is, he can make his own hours. Everyone's job is different and not everyone's job caters to normal dating hours.
"Now here's another little factor. Those that are so lazy that only want the short cut to sex, most of the time will not get sex, unless they pay for it. With dinners or with cash. Spend more time getting in the mind of woman and having simply a good time and you will never will have to pay for sex, in fact you may want to charge her."
You just sumed up the entire dating game thanks for proving my point. Greatly appreciated. | |
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