| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/18/2007 6:51:37 PM | you claim such high morality, although i would venture to say you probably arent all that selective when it comes to sluts who just hand over $ex to anyone lookin their way.
Gotta just love the common and predictable themes in your post,,, "desperation", "self morality", "STD'S", and then the guise of victimization from an ex.
oh and btw,, condoms arent going to protect you from the chicks who troll the bars lookin to get laid either. | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/18/2007 7:24:29 PM | What's worse... knowing your man had sex with a prostitute that gets paid for it... or one that gives it out for free... a whore is a whore whether or not she gets paid for the services she renders.... There are many women in this world that are bigger whores than the ones that get paid for it... so... to the person that said you will never have a man that has had a whore on his manhood... better join the convent.... JMO | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/19/2007 12:26:26 AM | Not to sound stuck up or anything, but I've always considered myself too dignified to do such a thing.
Even if self respect isn't something you pride yourself on, there's still the whole risk of disease or legal complications... it's just a losing proposition all around. | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/19/2007 5:35:34 AM | I dont see the problem with it really
Women have for eons "traded" sex for a roof over their head, a meal in a posh restaurant, a few drinks and even just for company and companionship
Every human interaction is a trade in one way or another if you think about it, try not being "friendly" with your best friend for six months, dont be civil to them, dont help them if they ask, dont talk to them when they have a problem etc and see how long the friendship lasts compared to when you WERE keeping up your end of the unspoken bargain
As for using them, not yet. I dated a couple of them when I was in my late teens but have never paid a woman for sex if you exclude "dates" or jobs in their homes they were "ever so" grateful for having done and just wanted to "repay the favour"
But I have a list of things I want to do before I kick the bucket and its on there so I probably will at some point just for the heck of it
As for STD's, I'd be far more worried about those from women who will shag anything that will oblige when theyre pissed
At least prostitutes **** people with a bit more class than that | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/19/2007 7:57:52 AM | as a gal, no i wouldn't use a prostitute, not even a male one .. 
if a bloke i met had used them when he was single, then i'd be concerned as to whether he was clean (of course any sex, whether paid for or not can lead to std's.. maybe just not at such a high percentage rate..)
if a bloke used them when he was in a relationship with me, then we wouldn't be together any longer.. that would count as being unfaithful, to me | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/19/2007 8:06:35 AM |
I think people who go to prostitues/escorts are the scum of the earth! LOL!
^^^ That's the side of "womankind" that makes me happy being apart from women.
yeah really. some people are just freakin' dead stupid.
she happens to be one of them.. and probably is oblivious to her man going to see a hooker at some point in his life.
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/19/2007 8:06:49 AM | Zain,
You just did a great job at quoting out of context stuff to prove your points. Very good job. To which I should delight in a rebuttal. But, to what avail. You are set on your ways. I am set on mine. You get results by paying. I get results by listening. Yes, this mean-looking face I have in my profile is aimed at keeping women off me, because right now I am not looking. So it serves my interest quite well. And even then, that photo did attack a share of good looking women who were interested in rather intense type of guys.
As to having to work out, or get yourself better, I don't think that is part of the payment you give women, that is something you do for yourself and it doesn't get you women, it gets you a better woman. Believe it, don't believe it, it's up to you. And no, the type of women you think you get for free is not a scank, or some thing nobody wants. Hah. It's the type of woman that most men are scare sh¡tless to approach, so they stand by a corner holding their drinks while I go dance with them. Total cost: one drink (mine). Some other guys she can't even remember bought her drinks.
You can be so busy that a prostitute is all you have time for. Fine, to each their own. But it is still lazy. So go rent away! | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/19/2007 10:48:32 AM |
Not to sound stuck up or anything, but I've always considered myself too dignified to do such a thing.
Im sure your much more dignified than the directors, bank managers and pilots etc that use escorts. Have you never had a one night stand? Whats the difference apart from not paying?
Even if self respect isn't something you pride yourself on, there's still the whole risk of disease or legal complications
Riiiight, because you dont have to worry about disease or legal complcations after a one night stand/casual/normal relationship?? | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/19/2007 11:07:49 AM |
Im sure your much more dignified than the directors, bank managers and pilots etc that use escorts. Have you never had a one night stand? Whats the difference apart from not paying?
Big difference. In one, she is just doing her job. Earning a living. In the other, she is there because she wants to get laid. She is having a good time. And yes, she wants to be seduced. She is just hoping that the idiot doesn't screw it up by saying something so stupid that she decides she is not going to sleep with him.
From the male point of view. And okay, what I say may p!ss off some women, but it is something ingrained in the nature of men, and that is the hunt. Not that I engage in one night stands, but I have on occasion in the past, and part of the thrill is the hunt. When you are with a prostitute to me would be like shooting fish in a barrel, half the fun is gone. | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/20/2007 9:33:09 AM |
Big difference. In one, she is just doing her job. Earning a living.
Is it not possile for her to enjoy that living?
[quoteIn the other, she is there because she wants to get laid. She is having a good time. And yes, she wants to be seduced. She is just hoping that the idiot doesn't screw it up by saying something so stupid that she decides she is not going to sleep with him.
I dont quite get that commentwhat would the 'idiot' say to make her not want to sleep with him??
When you are with a prostitute to me would be like shooting fish in a barrel, half the fun is gone.
I can see your point but I dont think thats the idea, think about it, if a guy hasnt had sex in months/years and really wants to, the easiest thing is to go to a prostitute/brothel, and on the plus side, the girl is more than likely going to be a stunner who he wouldnt normally have a chance with. | |
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Posted: 11/20/2007 10:35:17 AM |
Is it not possile for her to enjoy that living?
Absolutely.
I dont quite get that commentwhat would the 'idiot' say to make her not want to sleep with him??
Many women that go to clubs, want one of two things, one, have men dote on them so they feel good about their looks, self esteem, whatever, two, find a man to get laid. Sometimes they know it, sometimes they don't. So what happens, she meets a cool guy, he starts talking and along the way he says something very stupid, thus disqualifying himself in her mind. So she meets the next guy. She wants him, but yeah, she's hoping he is not the same duffus than the previous one.
and on the plus side, the girl is more than likely going to be a stunner who he wouldnt normally have a chance with.
Ha. This is funny, but very true. And it doesn't negate my original argument. So I guess if you can't get it for free, well you just have to pay for it. | |
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Posted: 11/20/2007 11:57:41 AM | | I've never felt so desparately in need of sex that I felt the need to use a hooker. From personal encounters with both in the course of my career, I'd say both the hookers and the johns are sad, miserable people. Nor, as many men tend to fantasize, does it attract really "hot chicks". I never met a hooker that "enjoyed" what he or she did; most were forced into it by violence, drug use, or both. It isn't a job of choice in most people's reality, and in this country using their services or plying the trade is illegal. There are too many risks and too much human degredation involved for anyone with any sense to think its OK or fun. | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/20/2007 12:19:23 PM | | I don't have a problem with it. If a man is single and wants to spend his money on a hooker, then that is his business. Not mine or anyone else's. Some men are just looking for sex and they feel that is the easiest way to get it. Maybe some men don't want to spend time and money on dating a woman that might or might not have sex with him. IMO a man having sex with a hooker isn't as bad as a man using a woman for sex. At least with a hooker, it is strictly about sex. Some other women can develop real feelings for him and he might not be interested in her besides the sex. | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/20/2007 12:53:04 PM | It is legal at the Mustang Ranch though right?..I have friends that stop in that establishment & they said it is Legal..and they have their medical cards..and condoms..the employees are screened and I don't think they are losers or pathetic..they make good money doing what some give away without the medical card & condoms..all for legalization. | |
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| Would you use a prostitute/escort? What do u think of people who use them?
Posted: 11/21/2007 2:42:09 PM |
Many women that go to clubs, want one of two things, one, have men dote on them so they feel good about their looks, self esteem, whatever, two, find a man to get laid. Sometimes they know it, sometimes they don't. So what happens, she meets a cool guy, he starts talking and along the way he says something very stupid, thus disqualifying himself in her mind. So she meets the next guy. She wants him, but yeah, she's hoping he is not the same duffus than the previous one.
Smethting stupid lik?? 'I have a wife an 3 kids?' I must have missed somethting in my 10 years of clubbing, i've never gone to a club hoping men will 'dote' on me in order to feel good, if I go out its to hae a good time with my mates, nothing else, i've never even pulled in a nightclub as you know all the men are just after one thing!
So I guess if you can't get it for free, well you just have to pay for it.
Either that or 'lower the standards' lol, or theold 1:50am bird, appently it works everytime! | |
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Posted: 11/24/2007 9:17:50 PM | " From personal encounters with both in the course of my career, I'd say both the hookers and the johns are sad, miserable people"
Sad and miserable people? and people who are in relationships and marriages can never be sad or miserable people? Jeeprennie how many johns and hookers have you actually spoken to?
never met a hooker that "enjoyed" what he or she did; most were forced into it by violence, drug use, or both. It isn't a job of choice in most people's reality"
you're right, many hookers don't enjoy what they do and are forced into by violence, poverty and what not but you could say that about anyone who is in a profession that is most people would deem undesirable, the circumstances that got them to that point are irrelevant to the "morality" of the transaction or act. coal miners and fast food workers hate what they do as well.
"and in this country using their services or plying the trade is illegal. There are too many risks and too much human degredation involved for anyone with any sense to think its OK or fun. "
Right....You're one of "those" I suppose you think Violence is caused by video games to right? and you're wrong. prostitution is technically not illegal in Canada Solicitation in public is illegal However in Toronto alone they're hundreds of escort agencies. Private consenting sexwork is quite the norm for most major Canadian cities. They're plenty of people who degrade themselves in nightclubs and have frivelous encounters with strangers and alcohol is always a factor. Where as if you make an apointment with a callgirl and show up wasted She'll kick your ass out and you won't get a refund same goes for if you refuse to wear a condom.
So really does adding money to the mix really increase the risk?
"When you are with a prostitute to me would be like shooting fish in a barrel, half the fun is gone"
Not all men enjoy the "chase" Outmind, some find it superficial and a waste of time. With a callgirl She knows exactly what you want and there is no bullshit mindgames. and a guy who has had a one night stand can pass judgment all he wants on the john but at the end of the day he's no different then he is. You both want the same thing but just have different methods of getting it. I don't believe in all this "I'm an alpha male I have to hunt down the female" macho crap. I guess as a man I'm just wired differently I believe in being logical, and evaluating each situation indvidually, What you call lazy, I call efficient.
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Posted: 11/24/2007 9:36:15 PM |
Smethting stupid lik?? 'I have a wife an 3 kids?' I must have missed somethting in my 10 years of clubbing, i've never gone to a club hoping men will 'dote' on me in order to feel good, if I go out its to hae a good time with my mates, nothing else, i've never even pulled in a nightclub as you know all the men are just after one thing!
I wish I knew what you said, so I could respond. But I am clueless. Go easy on the juice. Get a spell checker. Don't know. | |
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Posted: 11/24/2007 9:47:54 PM |
Outmind, some find it superficial and a waste of time. With a callgirl She knows exactly what you want and there is no bullshit mindgames. and a guy who has had a one night stand can pass judgment all he wants on the john but at the end of the day he's no different then he is. You both want the same thing but just have different methods of getting it.
Somehow I get the feeling that this is something you enjoy. Dude. More power to you. If it works for you that is fine. If you have found some truth with them, awesome. Look, I do not feel that they are any less than anybody else. And I can understand why men flock to them. But for my money, I prefer seduction. Even to the point that even though I am in a relationship right now. I want to seduce her in a weekly basis. | |
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Posted: 11/24/2007 9:49:53 PM | Postitutes or not postitutes.....people who are sexually active will always have STD in their lifetime. At least for postitues who get pay, everyone knows they have to be cautious and use protection when they have sex with them. How about those who put out sex easily and give free sex or don't mind to have one nite stand? Those people are not working as prostitues. I have met people who are not prostitues and have STD. They are spreading the STD around. At least with prostitues, people know what they are getting at.
Watch out, people who are not working as prostitutes have STD too.
One of the women (she is 22 years old and a virgin) in POF is very smart to ask a man in POF to have STD & medical result. He dumped her when she asked for his STD & medical results. BRAVO!! to her. I wish I know her cause I want to tell her she did the right thing and saved her own life. Nowadays it is better to have STD result before you go into deeper intimacy with someone. | |
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Posted: 12/14/2007 9:31:50 AM | Good Day 1UniquePerson,
I would never use these services. One would have to be a
Trick in order to do this. A trick is a Sucker who will spend any amount of Money to
satisfy his or her Pleasures. This Industry Preys on this Weak Clientel and continue
to provide Sexual Fantisies. As do PIMP's who send there Hoes out to the Streets &
Clubs to get you Money. You Clearly appear to be a Trick to Me Peace.
minf033 | |
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