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 Author Thread: Your Friends Feature.
 TheDancingQueen

Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 101
Your Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 4:45:11 PM
Actually if no one minds me saying so in here, I'd like to see a couple of things changed

A quote and reply feature so you can click quote and reply and quote the text of a particular post above you. Or if the dry text tags were to the right, i.e.

[quote#][/quote#]
[B#][/B#]
[I#][/I#]

The # were left up there so the tags wouldn't activate.

So that people could copy and paste them themselves without having to line delete the "This allows you to ...." out each time.

I'd also like to see a more expansive search feature. I.E. search for threads by number of replies and posts and page views. This would make it easier for people to search for threads and hence avoid the dreaded "This topic has been done to death" issue. I think more people would use the search feature if the search feature was a little more expansive.
 .Marc

Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 102
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Posted: 3/17/2007 4:51:14 PM
^ I agree. Totally.
 guynamejeff

Joined: 7/14/2006
Msg: 103
Your Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 4:56:42 PM
it seems whoever I put on MY favorites can now put me on their profile, which seems ok with me, but it will probably slow down the favorites adding.

However, my fourth best friend feels pretty crappy about now.
 girlyx3

Joined: 10/20/2006
Msg: 104
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Posted: 3/17/2007 5:20:05 PM
this is dumb ,why would ya wanna just post the same gender?? I dont have any girlfriends on this site its a dating site LOL. and what if they dont have pics, these friends. dont like it.
 justlooking_69

Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 105
Your Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 5:34:38 PM
don't like cause they need a pic any ways i fould my lady on here and she had no pic i am happy with your service here thanks pof
 sapphiremist30

Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 106
favourite 3:crying: cant be done
Posted: 3/17/2007 5:35:23 PM
It just doesnt make sense to pick 3 people when i chat to loads and some of them i dont want a testimonial from just like the conversations we have and it could only be half an hour or something so dont like it lol sorry
 picker_grinner

Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 107
Your Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 5:41:33 PM

this is dumb ,why would ya wanna just post the same gender??

To warn ya!

I dont have any girlfriends on this site its a dating site LOL.

Why not? Girls Talk too! lol

what if they ... dont like it.

The 'Block' feature works very well.
 Riley Rose

Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 108
Your Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 5:46:33 PM
I am going to pass on this one like so many others, simply because I love the majority that are on my favorites.
However Admin. I would like to thank you for the changes that you do like the roses and the fish. I do appreciate all that you do to make this a GREAT dating site.
 deagleninja

Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 109
Your Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 5:51:05 PM
Seems rather pointless to me.
 desperodolove

Joined: 2/5/2007
Msg: 110
Your Coolest Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 6:38:33 PM
i have met alot of yoyo on this site and all they wanted was sex -hello- what r we an animal on th web site? and then i met some that were so darn nice -they were lost in their own world of star trek. and then u get the pests like to name a few-that ' '''' the word no didnot assit in they minds'''''' why cant there b a web site that catches that and weeds them in to their own world webs. and b strict with the ones that r like that -- and give the one s who r really lookin a better out look .............and the smileys -come on some of them r not even near what some of us even want. -- u might of put a human up with flowers and a girl in a nice rabbit for a date, my opinion u have a good thing going but so many make it hard to find mr-mrs right.
 beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006
Msg: 111
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Posted: 3/17/2007 6:47:35 PM
Yes, many people add me to their favs, I tried deleting for a while they just add me back. It became more trouble then it is worth deleting over and over. So, yes I can only get to "L" and the 3 friends I would add are all past "L".

sniff sniff....
 truegypsy

Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 112
Your Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 7:21:24 PM
Do you mean people from here that we consider as friends we people that we have met around the globe that we consider as friends as it was a bit vague for me to know what you are looking for with this ..actually in a way I think it is an odd thing to as actually..but hey it just might be the mood I am in at this late hour of the evening who knows as feelings are not always the same so when it is not a new moon rising I will ask myself this question again and see how much I want to devuldge to you
Ciao
 DianeNC1

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 113
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Posted: 3/17/2007 7:24:49 PM
I don't see the point in this new feature, and thought the "fish personality" thing was just lame (sorry, nothing personal toward the admins here at POF). Why not ask POF members what features they would like to see added to the site (instead of adding them, and then asking us)?

Just my opinion ........
 bucsgirl

Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 114
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Posted: 3/17/2007 7:30:46 PM
AKK..what's with all the fuss! It's a free site, and the best I've ever seen. Admin is adding new features...WHOOPPEE!! Give him credit, he's trying to add things to make it better. It's your choice, use them or don't. Favorites lists, testimonial, roses, fish personality and now 3 friends. It's all an option, opt in opt out.
I use what I want to or don't. Don't affect my enjoyment of this wonderful site, never has, never will.
Admin started this thread to get feedback, I gave mine. Not an option I'll use personally, but I'd never vote or ask to have it removed.
That is what he was asking, the man who owns and runs the site.
I say keep it and those who want to use it do so and enjoy it.
 jjkitty

Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 115
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Posted: 3/17/2007 8:03:52 PM
This is stupid. We already have a favorites button. Why don't we have a wink button?
It would be easier than
 bigpapa05

Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 116
Your Coolest Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 8:54:31 PM
Id like it if you and I were friends. You are georgeous!


Josh
 euphoric demise

Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 117
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Posted: 3/17/2007 9:11:49 PM
who comes up with this s#it? yeah... the fact that i have no friends should remain a mystery... hey does anyone wanna pet my wookie?
 MyNewName

Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 118
Your Coolest Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 9:12:25 PM
The three people I'd like to expose myself to? Huh? Kiss this--->(_(_)
 drg1301

Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 119
Your Coolest Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 9:17:35 PM
Sounds like a lot of friends feelings are going to get hurt.
Each of my friends are special to me and I refuse to pick between them.
 peglegrider

Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 120
Your Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 10:10:54 PM
Too many people playing games and cheating around on their mates by using this sight, So I personally feel it is a great idea because if you have that much to hide then you are not being real with yourself nor are you being truthful to others about yourself. Too many people think of this sight as a means of entertaining themselves at work or at home Trying to recreate a virtual world and treating this as a roll playing game. WELL PEEPS this is the real world and there are fragile people here and for you to use them in a game is completely wrong and there should be steps to make this sight more reliable in helping people finding their soul mates and true friends. I could go on for ever expressing my Ideas of how much steps like this could be a great asset to this sight.
Please POF put it in and leave it also make it part of the contact limiter If they dont have freinds on this sight that will back them up then I dont need their drama. I have been a member for over a year and I can not believe how many games I have had played on me by LIERS and CHEATS.
peglegrider
Kevin
 euphoric demise

Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 121
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Posted: 3/17/2007 10:21:43 PM
"sounds like someones got a case of the mondays"

Cheers... to the mighty aphrodesiac...
 TypicalOne0

Joined: 11/19/2006
Msg: 122
Your Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 10:24:47 PM
Well after 5 or 6 pages of discussion on this new feature it should be apparent that it does not seem to be well conceived (or even repairable) even though the original intentions were undoubtedly all positive.

The discussion is not even really beginning to converge to a consensus (or even a polarization) of views really, all of which I take to be a sign that this particular feature's design is wrongheaded/muddled/flawed beyond repair and likely needs to be consigned to the dustbin of POF history...

As best as I can tell for every positive benefit it could potentially provide if people were to 'use it correctly' (whatever that means as this feature has taken POF design ambiguity to an art form) there seem to be at least 2 or 3 certain drawbacks that are each worse than all of the benefits. Maybe there are 2 or 3 seperate and/or conflicting features hiding here, or maybe you just 'can't get there from here' right now....

Contrast the design of this feature with that of the recently added 2 roses feature - the external meanings of this '3 friends' business is entirely dependent on how it is used by each user and as we can see that will vary greatly for each individual here... [you could argue this is not a bad thing, but what is the purpose of the site if it is not to benefit the most users most of the time?] ; the 2 roses feature on the other hand is such an elegant solution to the issues it was designed to address that all of its external meanings are essentially unmistakable and unavoidable no matter how the user goes about using it as long as they use it (and they may well not have a real choice either due to the verifiable aspect...) , in fact offhand I would say the only part of the 2 roses implementation you could change without breaking it completely would be to tweak the replenishment duration, and it may well be that 30 days is optimal anyway.

Of course I could be all wrong, Markus seems to have managed ok thus far without my input...
 Billbutler8

Joined: 3/12/2005
Msg: 123
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Your Coolest Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/17/2007 10:37:06 PM
I agree with Leeanne...

I like the idea and I see it's benifet...but some who enjoy the forums have met many we consider our friends...to have a small limit of three to select from is daunting and we do not want any of our other friends to "feel slighted " if we choose someone else over them.



one thing I thought of is do not set a limit on any number you can add. ?
 scorpiodancer

Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 124
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Posted: 3/18/2007 1:07:05 AM

The main reason for the addition is to show people that you are a real person.

But what happens if none of my friends are on PoF? It doesn't mean I'm not a real person, that I'm married, etc.

I could always create a few fake accounts to make it look like I'm not along with that feature.

As some people said, limiting to 3 can be problematic if you know enough people on here. I do understand you wanting to keep the database size down though.
 Joy.

Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 125
Your Friends Feature.
Posted: 3/18/2007 1:21:21 AM
I'm not particularly fond of the feature because, like everyone else, I have more than 3 extra-special favorites plus my list only goes to the F's.

Everyone knows the coolest people have names that start with the letter J and above!!! :)
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