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| Older Women and Younger men
Posted: 9/4/2007 4:42:22 AM | | When someone is that much younger, I say I am sorry but You are way to young for me. Om the other hand in San Diego, where there where plenty of men available and dating sites where not needed I dated men 20 years younger than I . As My sister say's If you sre both over 30 it's your business. And I found the opposite to be true the older men where the ones looking for the bedroom, grouping me on streets. ( witch I would back away from and say " Hey are you stupid or what, get away from me and don't come arround me again, you are totaly inappropriate." The guys in their 30's and 40's wanted to go some place and have a good time. Starbucks and other coffe shops are the thing we would go there and talk for hours. | |
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| Older Women and Younger men
Posted: 9/4/2007 9:43:06 PM | I personally know of a few reason's young guys hit on mature women.
1 - There is a game that is played by younger people.
A - If a person gets a date with an older woman they receive points for each year that the woman is older than the guy.
B - Extra points are received for how far he can go with the woman. ( lowest to highest > date; kiss; BJ; sex)
C - Additional points are given if the woman is married.
D - If physical proof is provided, additional points are awarded to the guy.
The highest points a male that is playing the game receives is from the following coupling.
Highest point awarded to guy who meets up with an older married woman more than 1 time and photo or video proof of the sexual act.
2nd highest points awarded to guy who meets up with a older married woman 1 time and photo or video proof of the sexual act.
Least amount points awarded to guy who gets a single older woman's phone number or a way to contact her. Then he has to actually have an exchange of pleasantries with her.
Sad but true game, that is played by a lot of young guys today. There are seminars that are given, throughout the US, telling guys how to approach older women, so they know the best tactics to play this game.
2nd reason younger guys date older women.. They want a mother figure.
3rd - younger guys date older women.. they are mature and really want a mature woman who knows who she is and what she wants in life.
4th - There are also guys looking for a sugar mom..
5th - They want to have sex with a woman that knows more than they know about sex
These are a few reason's, I'm sure I missed some others | |
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| Older Women and Younger men
Posted: 3/4/2008 4:35:08 AM | well wats wrong if a young lad finds!!!! it very attractive a women much elder. Is it crime i hve always found ladies much older to me very attractive.. nd ya i wld approach smeone and i do...but i don't feel it should offend a lady just bcos d guy approaching her is younger to probably her kids......sadly i hve not yet lived ma fantasy...nd im already 26...has ma toyboy age past sellby date !!! wanna live it | |
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| Older Women and Younger men
Posted: 3/10/2008 11:52:04 AM | It's not only younger men who think an older woman alone must be desperate.
I have had nastiness on more than one occasion, because I dared to turn down unwanted advances from men in my own age group. (Not contacted through this site)
Some seem to have this idea that simply because you are the same age and alone, you must be interested...???
At one time, I preferred to date younger men, because we tended to be on the same wavelength. I then made the mistake of marrying somebody much younger and it was a bad mistake for myself and my daughter.
I am now not so young and good looking, but still find that most of the men I have interests in common with, are younger than me.
I don't want to date a young man, I know it wouldn't last, (as much as I may sigh over some of them) but can't see anything wrong with dating somebody, say, 10 years younger if we get on...after all, a man of my age would not think twice about dating a woman 10 years younger than them.
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| Older Women and Younger men
Posted: 7/27/2008 4:40:35 PM | I looked at your profile and it says you are 40. At that age, dating a young man 22 years younger than herself is just a little too much for me. He would be 18. That's borderline jailbait. That does not mean I am against dating younger men. It would depend on common interests and mutual respect. I am a very young 54 and have dated men 35, an age difference of 19 years, and enjoyed myself very much. They treated me with respect and dignity, we had a lot in common and talked for hours. It didn't work out, but I would do it again.
I prefer dating men younger than me. They generally have more energy and a passion for living life and, in my experience, is sorely lacking in my age or older.
What is important that age is a state of mind. Be with whomever you are comfortable with and don't let age be the deciding factor. Good Luck. | |
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