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Posted: 6/20/2005 3:20:11 AM | trust me rose you are still a good looking woman as for me i do have a limit to the age of how old and yung as for older 36 is about the age where i make the line as for yunger 24
the thing about older is the have there head right in most cases so you dont have to play the games as much and i have lived a long hard life in my 26 years and have played 2 many games that is y i look for older as aposed to yunger but thats just me o and sorry for
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Posted: 6/20/2005 8:50:51 AM | thats funny i have the same problem try living in a military town,,,,oh BOY......lol
there are the ones that think coz you are older you are desperate,,,lol,,lil do they know,,,but there are ones that are really attracted to us,,they dont want the indecissivness of younger women and they think all older womEN have their crap together,,,but most of all THEY KNOW WE ROCK..LOL | |
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Posted: 6/20/2005 9:35:10 AM | LOL...I can relate to this thread, I have had so many younger (and I mean at least 20 yrs)contacting me it's nuts. I agree with the threads that say it can be uncomfortable to date someone young enough to be your son. I have nothing against these young men, but my comfort zone is my comfort zone. What annoys me is they are so persistent and they get downright rude. Fragile Ego's perhaps. Not all of them mind you, but a large majority. I'll talk/chat with almost anyone provided it doesn't start with "Hey baby..want a boytoy?".
That brings out the grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr in me.
JMHO
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Posted: 6/22/2005 1:26:09 AM | | @Susanna: I totally agree. I guess the young fellows who try and use that pick up line, don't understand women at all. The last thing I want is a boy toy. What I want a man. lol | |
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Posted: 6/22/2005 6:32:30 AM | TO SWEET N SASSY
i agree to you ,as being a 24 may i ask am i in MAN group or BOY group,lol | |
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Posted: 6/22/2005 7:04:59 AM | | I think it's all about control.(Power) All the older women I've ever dated seem to try and control the relationship. That's why I don't date much older than me. I date younger because they don't have this attitude that seems to say they know more because they've been around longer. I don't want to control anybody in a relationship but I don't want anyone that thinks they can control me or always knows what's best for us. Partnership implies both have something to offer the growing relationship. I don't veiw a relationship that's based of sex as much of a relationship but more of a sport. You play a sport with someone of your own physical capabilities if you want it competitive. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2005 7:19:52 AM | | I don't think these guys think you're desperate. I think your risque pictures speak louder than your no-intimate-encounters profile. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2005 7:38:07 AM | I am finding the same thing. I usually response saying, " I am not seeking a grandson thanks". One was actually "offended" at my response.
Not sure what they are on about. It is more weird than complimentary or flattering.
I watched a news show about Cougars and apparently we older women who seek out younger men are called cougars and there of course is a book about it written by a 50 something woman from England who is having herself a great time.
I always thought younger men would be the answer since men on average die earlier than women and I have already been alone too much of my life, but not so totally young so you need to babysit them.
They seem to be surfing for us and using the line that they think we know what we want. And we do and it is not a rerun of The Graduate. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2005 9:16:45 AM | I like chatting with men and women of all ages and backgrounds. This is why I don't restrict my mail according to gender or age. I'm just not interested in "dating" much younger men.
The idea of a young "boy toy" is not appealing at all. I wouldn't want a 45 year old "boy toy" either. lol I like my dating experiences to be about much more than sex. Comprendez vous moi? | |
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Posted: 6/22/2005 9:41:45 AM | I do get many mails from 25 to 27 years old guys who do insist on meeting
me. I honstly think it only would be ''CHILD PLAY'' and nothing more.  | |
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Posted: 6/22/2005 9:50:38 AM | Desperate!!! Hahahahah...mature women rock...in more ways than one and the younger men know it. We are totally appealing IMO.
Got Milf? | |
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Posted: 6/22/2005 9:54:07 AM | Hi all
I used to have a limit for the guys I would see. But have changed my ways lol. Mind you I think drawing the line at 20ys difference is enough for me. I have a great guy that is 19 years younger than me. We are the best of friends. Treats me better than most of the men my age.
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Posted: 6/22/2005 10:06:44 AM |
I usually response saying, " I am not seeking a grandson thanks". One was actually "offended" at my response.
Why wouldn't he be offended? No need to be rude. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2005 10:17:44 AM | Blast kiss, lmao, am I young enough for ya, lol, MILF ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 6/25/2005 12:30:55 PM | hey sassy how you doin' sexy i realy wouldlove to meet you and woman like you means me more than anithing .....i'm very active male ,,energetic open minded fun to be around for woman like you are i would sepnd my last drop | |
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Posted: 6/26/2005 11:40:24 PM | @ devil woman
I get hit on by younger men on a regular basis online and offline. I'm young at heart. Maybe it's the fantasy about a younger man wanting to be with an older woman. Who knows !! lol I do date younger men. Anywhere between 5 to 10 years younger. I don't necessarily seek them out. They come to me. When I was younger I always dated older men. I guess I've done a complete turnaround. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2005 1:28:41 AM | | BLASTKIST dam girl u dont look 39 u look better then most 20yr olds | |
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Posted: 6/27/2005 4:59:26 AM | Hmmm.... maybe this is my problem for why it took me so long to get a boyfriend... a lot of women complain that they look too old, but it can actually help... me, I look younger than what I really am (by about 5 years, 3 on average) so maybe that throws a few people off from saying hi to me or trying to pick me up someplace. I guess it also depends on the crowd, too.
Me personally, I've dated 3 guys who were younger than me... but not by much. Hey, I'm 21 so 5 years is my limit here in Iowa. I've never been with no 16 year olds though. I know too many girls close to my age who catch a lot of crap for doing stuff like that. The guy who was the youngest was only 7 months younger than me. I don't think it really matters though. Older or younger... age shouldn't be an issue. A conversation point, sure, but not an issue.
Still... if I were single... I know an 18 year old and a 20 year old I could have a lot of fun with.... but I'm taken so I have to be a good girl. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2006 3:20:31 PM | | I dated and eventually married a man 16 years younger than I am. The sex was great, but after we realized that there is more to a marriage than sex, we separated.. No more younger guys for me! | |
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Posted: 7/27/2006 3:28:08 PM | I tend to date men a few years younger than me. My last boyfriend was 6 years younger. But I have also dated men 10 years older. As I have a 9 year old son, and I'm 48, I find that younger men are more accepting of my having a young child. Plus, I tend to be a high-energy woman, and younger men seem to be better at keeping up with me.
I have a favourite neighbourhood pub where I sometimes go to socialize and dance with friends. I have been approached by younger men in their twenties and thirties, both for one-nighters (my standard response: a sweet smile and "Sorry, I don't do casual sex") and for actual dates. As I have a 20-year old son, when I look at these fellows, I picture my son in diapers. Just doesn't sluice my juices. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2006 4:37:37 PM | Desperate ............NO WAY Some men just enjoy the company of older women
I have never had any qualms about age at all...... younger or older.
In my early twenties I dated a lot of older women, and although I did date women my age I dated more older women because more older women were interested in me. I got that "your and old soul" alot.
I found that older women are much less drama, incredibly patient and giving lovers, can spend hours and hours in bed playing, Like to go to more intellectual venues and are great conversationalists
In other words they're different from most young women and variety is the spice of life.
At 23 I dated a 63 year old woman........ I wasn't looking for it ...it started very innocently
No regrets ever based on age...... the age thing was never the problem
and since I've been single again I've been out with women from 19 - 65
Have found the right one yet........ahhh but there plentyoffish right??? | |
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Posted: 7/27/2006 4:53:35 PM | | I have had alot of younger men contact me as well almost 20 yrs younger. I personally dont think I could become intimate with a man that much younger than me as my son is not much younger and I would feel like I was robbing the cradle. I do think however a couple of the younger ones that are only about 7-10 years younger would be worth a date or so. I dont know because I havent gone out with one yet but at the space I am in in my personal life right now we will probably be a good match. I believe before we act on that instinct however we need to be able to be on an intellectual level to find out if we have anything in common. For any younger men reading this right now older women are not desperate we are just ready and prepared to take what we need and want, a little bit different than the head games of some younger women. We generally by this age are taking very good care of ourselves and not looking for the same commitment that younger women need. We dont want more children and we are self sufficient, what more could you want, sexy, and self sufficient. Just wish there were more men out there like that. | |
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Posted: 7/28/2006 3:49:45 AM | | I have also found that young men treat a woman different than an older gentleman. My husband who (like I said) was 16 years younger than I, acted more like my son than my husband.. He expected me to always do the giving, and right before we separated, he became quite rude.. He would say things like "you should be glad I even married you grandma!" It was a very unpleasant two years! | |
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