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Posted: 3/20/2007 8:53:38 AM | Ha!, I guess the green monster got ya huh Cyn?.....*grins*
We need something like a "Driver's" licence to catagorize our level of sexual "skill", tho it may be agaist my morals, I will offer a "test run", to determine a proper # rating....
Like they say, wisdom comes with age.......what turns me off?, selfishness........same old same old all the frikken time..... ..yup, that's it......
I mean really, let's get funky, knock over a few lamps, make the walls shake, pictures fall, get the strange looks from the people next store that heard us all night........O yeah, stagger to work in the morning, with shit eating grins and wobbling legs......
Yup, good for what ails ya..... ...
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| Bad Bed Partner!
Posted: 3/20/2007 9:34:53 AM | My cousin would pee the bed when she drank...I love her to pieces but if I was her boyfriend I would call it quits!
It sounds like your cousin needs to find someone who's into deviant behavior--and then she can turn one of her weaknesses into a strength. 
Personally, when I'm dreaming heavily, I'm a shover. I've shoved women out of bed while asleep. It's happened three times. I sometimes talk in my sleep as well, so I tend to be pretty forgiving about others' sleeping habits. One type I don't deal well with: sleepwalkers. If I'm concerned my SO might sleepwalk out the front door in the middle of the night, then it's difficult for me to sleep soundly. | |
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Posted: 3/20/2007 10:40:34 AM | | well it beats taking the piss outer your partner.theres 2 ways of looking at this he tolerates her cause he loves her probably.so thats good.but alarm bells would ring if i were in his shoes.and hers the case she cant remember means shes not responsible to drink vast amounts without showing herself up.your firstly lucky its not you she sleeps with and secondly shes lucky yto have you as a concerned person. | |
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Posted: 3/20/2007 7:44:05 PM | | If a girl pees the bed when she drinks, she might want to SERIOUSLY consider not ever drinking! | |
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Posted: 3/20/2007 7:58:21 PM | | BRIANiac..I was just going to post the same thoughts..if drinking leads to wetting beds don't drink EVER! | |
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Posted: 3/20/2007 10:47:35 PM | *to msg # 18
:D /waves
Yes; I had a neighbor who my ex and I sometimes double-dated with. She once confided in me that her hubby couldn't Do It, unless he had a magazine in front of him.
I wonder if they're still married. We lost touch... | |
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Posted: 3/21/2007 2:41:06 AM | oh the snoring drove me insane
also an ex of mine had terrible wind, and would deliberately put my head under the duvet and say smell that. | |
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Posted: 3/21/2007 10:03:10 AM | | Ok...a bad bed partner...When i sleep...anyone is a good partner while I am sleeping. Now..being awake...that's a different story...one woman I dated would talk during sex and it sounded like I was in Porn movie with the things she would say...sorry to all you ladies out there that do that..a COMPLETE turn off to me. Yes..I like the moans and groans and the Yesssss...tells me I am doing something right...atleast I think I am. The other stuff like...well you know what I mean if you've seen them....I don't care for it. I would tell her...but she thought it was what I wanted to here...I am assuming someone before me liked that. OK..that's all for me..Y'all have fun!!! | |
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Posted: 3/22/2007 11:56:44 AM | I've been following the debate between Renaissance07 and Gothygeek and I have to say that I think Gothygeek sounds pretty angry about the idea of a man helping a woman with her sexual issues.
Perhaps Gothygeek still has a few issues that require some attention. It's all well and good that you think you've sorted yourself out and that you had to learn the hard way. It no cause for requiring that everyone should struggle alone and do it the hard way. There is no sin in asking for help and no sin in offering help whether it's been asked for or not.
I think Renaissance07 diplays an admiral amount of empathy and compassion (though for a purely speculative situation - as he has said) whereas Gothygeek comes across as quite judgemental and lacking in compassion.
Renaissance07 pls look me up if you ever cross the big water!! A thinker and a feeler! How refreshing! | |
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Posted: 3/22/2007 1:13:15 PM | | I agree entirely. I am not a counsellor or a therapist. I'm afraid if it is not working in the bedroom then its not working full stop ....I could never be in a relationship if the sex was lousy. | |
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| Bad Bed Partner!
Posted: 3/22/2007 3:55:28 PM |
I've been following the debate between Renaissance07 and Gothygeek and I have to say that I think Gothygeek sounds pretty angry about the idea of a man helping a woman with her sexual issues.
Perhaps Gothygeek still has a few issues that require some attention. It's all well and good that you think you've sorted yourself out and that you had to learn the hard way. It no cause for requiring that everyone should struggle alone and do it the hard way. There is no sin in asking for help and no sin in offering help whether it's been asked for or not.
I think Renaissance07 diplays an admiral amount of empathy and compassion (though for a purely speculative situation - as he has said) whereas Gothygeek comes across as quite judgemental and lacking in compassion.
Renaissance07 pls look me up if you ever cross the big water!! A thinker and a feeler! How refreshing!
Thank you for this response to the debate. I had decided that it was pointless continuing the discussion as I have been in this situation many times before on internet forums. No matter what is put in response the other person takes it apart, and the cycle continues. Quite frankly it is boring for the viewer.
It is all speculative, and I think I have added all the comments that I want to make on the subject. I also think that gothygeek has some unresolved issues, I am sure that they will be resolved over time on her terms.
All the best. | |
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Posted: 3/22/2007 3:57:46 PM | | i had a boyfriend that always wanted to role play, every single night, I guess he really want into me... | |
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| Bad Bed Partner!
Posted: 3/22/2007 5:36:53 PM | liquor breath is a turn-off *as are other funky smells* but I've never had an issue with it to the point where I felt the need to call it quits.
a selfish lover would also be a turn-off, as I believe the best sex is between 2 ppl who BOTH love to give more so than receive. I've had that once before and it was damn near amazin! applause:
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Posted: 3/22/2007 5:39:14 PM | Eh,
Ever try someone that in the middle of sex turns into a fire breathing dragon and tries to eat you?
Then, you're stark naked in a strange living room, and you have a freaking DRAGON attacking you.
Not cool. | |
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Posted: 3/22/2007 5:49:52 PM | Bad sex:
F*rting during oral sex
Guys who think that "cl*t*ris" is Latin for "stay away" or a figment of a woman's imagination.
WD | |
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Posted: 3/22/2007 5:55:37 PM | | Bad bed partner = woman with bad vaginal hygene. Huge turn-off. | |
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Posted: 3/22/2007 5:57:25 PM | I don't mind snoring, I find it oddly comforting hah
as for bad bed partners, the standard *insert* *thrust* *repeat* in the middle of the night with no warning irritated me (in more ways than one hah)
I'm all for the 3am groggy sex but please for the love of sweet merciful crap , a little foreplay!
so far I'd agree with most I've read here , someone smells , no thanks
pissing in my bed - forget about it! , making my nipples *bleed* - OUCH and NO!
Actually I don't like silent partners, I think talking or at least making some kind of noise during sex is normal (heck I love that!) , One of my exes was so quiet it wigged me out a bit.... | |
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Posted: 3/22/2007 6:18:37 PM | | One of the only things that comes to mind for me is when someone puts their arm over my neck a lot. I can't stand anything around my neck. I even have a problem with wearing a tie! | |
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Posted: 3/22/2007 6:25:36 PM | | hmm,this is like kiss n tell,yes,NOT MY STYLE | |
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| Bad Bed Partner!
Posted: 3/22/2007 8:18:59 PM |
I've been following the debate between Renaissance07 and Gothygeek and I have to say that I think Gothygeek sounds pretty angry about the idea of a man helping a woman with her sexual issues.
Perhaps Gothygeek still has a few issues that require some attention. It's all well and good that you think you've sorted yourself out and that you had to learn the hard way. It no cause for requiring that everyone should struggle alone and do it the hard way. There is no sin in asking for help and no sin in offering help whether it's been asked for or not.
I think Renaissance07 diplays an admiral amount of empathy and compassion (though for a purely speculative situation - as he has said) whereas Gothygeek comes across as quite judgemental and lacking in compassion.
Eh, if you want to completely miss my point about people (including women) being responsible for their own issues before they embark on relationships be my guess. Apparently to some "Disagrees with Opinion" = "Angry and has teh issues of DOOM!" If it makes ya happy to think that way instead of doing some critical thinking then knock yourself out!
Then again, some people are happy being professional victims and some have a severe case of Galahad Syndrome. Neither quite understand why they have such difficulty negotiating healthy relationships. :: shrugs ::
Thank you for this response to the debate. I had decided that it was pointless continuing the discussion as I have been in this situation many times before on internet forums. No matter what is put in response the other person takes it apart, and the cycle continues. Quite frankly it is boring for the viewer.
It is all speculative, and I think I have added all the comments that I want to make on the subject. I also think that gothygeek has some unresolved issues, I am sure that they will be resolved over time on her terms.
It's funny that when someone can't refute an argument they go for the personal attacks . Either that or they go for the old "Since I have no ability to debate I'll just ignore it". Then again, it is teh intrawebs and for some people it's SERIOUS BUSINESS.
For some of us; it's merely a mild diversion whilst bored.
Have fun, kiddos. | |
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| Bad Bed Partner!
Posted: 3/22/2007 10:42:16 PM | I'm a blanket hog.
And if she wants to talk about her problems after 3 a.m., I'm sorry but I'm pretending to be asleep. I guess that means it's ME who would be the bad bed partner (to her) in the latter case. Ha. | |
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Posted: 3/22/2007 10:51:50 PM | Naww as long as he stays off my couch it's all good...If I liked him well enough to climb in bed with him I guess we could work on the bad bed habits but someone said something about a bed wetter ya that might be a deal breaker 
I'm through with pissy guys...Ha!!! | |
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Posted: 3/23/2007 2:09:06 AM | Hello Gothygeek,
Ok, so you goaded me into a response. The issue about not responding has nothing to do with an inability to debate on a subject, it has more to do with the pointlessness of debating with a person whose social stimuli is, clearly, taken through argumentative behaviour. I hope you have addressed this within your relationship and your partner is happy to indulge as it could cause serious ramifications for the future.
You seem more intent on getting your term 'galahading' into the conversation, than in actually understanding the concept of what is being spoken about. You are ranting on about feminism and the big bad man, when this is not the discussion. Go back and read what was said again and, please, understand that this is a contextual based discussion with assumptions added. Change the protagonist and swap the sexes and my comments still stand on their own merit. When I was talking about the male-female differences, I was talking physiologically not sociologically, no amount of feminism is going to change that I am afraid.
I don't disagree with you that the person with a problem is the one that should deal with it. Again, you have missed the point of the initial post, it is not about the person playing a willing victim. It is about another human being compassionate and having some realisation that there may be a problem and helping a loved one address it. Unless you are saying that it is no longer acceptable to offer a supporting hand to another human being now?
By this point in the post your mind will already be thinking of ways in which to convert my post into 'galahading' which is why I explained that I didn't want to shoot back and forth covering the same ground. I agree that people should address their own issues before embarking on their journey, however, not everyone has that capability. You may be happy to switch off your compassion and understanding; I choose not to. | |
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Posted: 3/23/2007 2:18:16 AM | | I once had a girl that demanded she have at least 3 orgasms every single time. If she ever had less than that, she would literally push me off her and say go sleep on the couch. She would get really mad. definate turnoff if you always have a scale to measure up to. | |
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Posted: 3/23/2007 12:52:00 PM | in a hurry. Rush ~ dash doesn't work with this buzzing buzz. | |
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