Your utopian ideal that everyone should embrace their issues and problems then talk them through is brilliant. Never gonna happen though, and just because you have come to terms with it and are able to embrace it that doesn't mean that we should disregard others that have not.
Odd.
Well, if they aren't going to communicate about their sexual needs/issues, then one has to wonder what else they won't communicate about.
Probably lots.
Cutting one's losses isn't really all that selfish. One half of the relationship can only do so much.. the other half has to pitch in too.
And you have no way of knowing if they discussed it. You have no way of knowing if he asked if there were issues. You have no idea of anything that he might or might have done because he didn't say and you just jumped to conclusions.
Not only that, but labeled him selfish, when for all you know, he could've spent oodles of time trying to find out what the deal was.
I like how we use phrases like, "typically male" to describe bad male behavior.
Personally, I think 'typical males' are the one's who are decent ans caring. It's the creeps who are the aberration.. not the 'typical males'.
if you love someone it won't matter if they are a bad bed partner, because those kind of skills can be taught with patience.
Always possible, but not always effective.
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