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|True love is when you reach the end of your life you know you have been loved for you nothing else. I heard today it is when they hold and hug you with no selfish reasons in mind. Tissue please...|
Posted: 3/29/2007 9:51:55 PM
|beautifuuly put ! thanks ! Dena|
Posted: 3/30/2007 6:08:42 AM
|dena, you are indeed wise and wonderful...you understand that possessions come to own people rather than people owning them...you understand that status becomes just as much of a trap as poverty...and you also understand that nothing will screw up true love quicker than money/power/greed. I understand your words but also feel their meaning in my heart...peace, love and happiness to you...may we all find others who understand the beauty of eating simple meals beside a river and treasuring it's laughter more than what we carry in our pockets...|
Posted: 3/30/2007 6:29:06 AM
|I need to revise my earlier post, maybe it does exist but is kinda hard to see.|
Posted: 3/31/2007 9:38:34 AM
|summer it exist just dont give up hope..its sure easy to do though...I love to love but losing love is something that we must all consider too..does love last forever?,not sure havnt found that girl yet but Im sure looking hard. A crazy thing love...One day she will come and i have to promise myself as I always have when i find her she wont ever have to worry about being loved or feeling loved again. In my years of experience its the most awsome gift there is..so if you find it..guys and dolls, dont let go, hold it for all it is, it may not rear its head again|
Posted: 3/31/2007 9:43:51 AM
|Hello old friend Paladin,|
yes, true love does exist.Youre right if you are lucky enough to find it hold on.It will come again I believe that.The joy is in the process of it finding you.It takes two to tango and it is sooooooooooooooooo much fun.Looking forward to it again.
Posted: 3/31/2007 10:35:14 AM
|If your a parent then you know this is true. I believe true love means the willingness to give your life for that person. I didn't realize this till my son was born. Once he came into this world my perspective on life changed. My sole purpose was now to protect and raise my son. It wasn't a question I would ever have to ask. I knew if the need ever arose I would, without a moment's hesitation, give my life for him. That, to me, is true love.|
Posted: 3/31/2007 5:11:23 PM
|I can certainly understand the love of a child but it is in no comparison to the love of a mte especially if there is a step person invoved..it not the same..no way, I love my children but cannot compare the two loves of mates..|
Posted: 3/31/2007 5:17:11 PM
|So right Paladin,|
I love my son but Its a different kind of love than with a man,TOTALLY different.
Posted: 4/6/2007 1:44:40 AM
|When I saw her across the room, my body shook.|
When she walked toward me, my knees became weak.
I trembled as she touched my face.
Felt a fire in my blood racing with a raging beat of my heart.
My smile spoke clearly to everyone in the room.
One was even heard saying, He smiles more now that he's found her.
When I am gone I dream of being with her.
Yet when I am holding her, there is nothing within my mind.
The world around us stands still.
Many may ask how I know this is true love.
I smile and tell them of the years that has past.
She was my sunrise when I first woke.
She was my sunset each time we spoke.
She kept me warm when there was no fire.
Thru my years she has been my only desire.
Comfort we gave each other as loved around us died.
Upon my shoulder she has often cried.
The smile has lived for years upon my face.
You see in my heart is nothing but a happy place.
She has always held my tender heart.
She will be with me until death do us part.
Then with aged hands I took hers in mine.
And asked her to dance with me one more time.
Posted: 4/10/2007 11:31:15 AM
|well i read your idea of true love ,do not mean to be mean but just practice what you preach you will always be on my mind heart jim always|
Posted: 4/17/2007 1:06:01 PM
|hey guys be carefull of this one really screwed up in the head word is mightern than sword cannot practice what she preaches lures you in breaks your then tells you see ya|
Posted: 4/17/2007 4:07:17 PM
|maybe Im a romantic but I still believe in true love.Its out there.you just have to keep on trying and never give up|
Posted: 4/17/2007 4:10:00 PM
|its good to hear that there is still believers out there... what are we if we dont have love.. i think love is a charactric trait an only the ones that truly believe will be the ones that will actually get to expierence that wonderful feeling!! i think there is only a select few men that are believers an when you find one of them hold on to them for dear life.. or you will find nothing but the emotionless ones |
Posted: 4/17/2007 6:23:57 PM
|Exactly. If you believe in true love you can find it. If you don't you will not see it when it is standing right in front of you.|
You will be more occupied with appearance, how can you use them/what they can do for you, and other shallow things.
True Love is two people realizing this may be their last chance and not messing up a chance at a little happiness as my Korean friend said.
Posted: 4/19/2007 7:31:23 AM
|I ll try not to get philosophical about the most profound and misunderstood word in the hemispere. |
It is ready made ? Love can be messured only by the place from which you start, Love is a virtue, that we seem to sabotage and for what reasons... I would go so far as to say that it is very hard to feel love if your full of shame, guilt or bad experiences of the past. We can feel love for someone else only when we have gained respect for ourselves- It is why we have this endless obsession with the emotion and the need to love, as well as being loved. We try so hard sometimes it becomes a burden even upon our own self-intrest. It is a innate feeling we continue to deny ourselves for reasons that are to many to list. No matter what excuse, you can always dream up a reason not to have that love.., but if two people find that love even for a moment, dont let it slip away..that was the love you have all been looking for..It is a gift. embrace it, grow with it, share it..It is yours to make and take where you have always wanted to go..
Posted: 4/19/2007 7:37:56 AM
|Okay...at one time I would have agreed with a lot which has been said...at this point in my life I am saying FU(K LOVE! I'll take a good friend any day over someone who wants to play with my heart! I can do without those added endorphines that are there when you think you're in love...where are those cognitice chemicals going to be when you get screwed over? Nowhere...and then you're left with a serious addiction that can only be resupplied by letting someone take away your personal power. Screw it!|
Posted: 4/19/2007 7:47:08 AM
|Well Nomad your the case in point, I think we have all been hurt to the point of wanting to reject the ideologies of love but even as friends as you say, given enough time..that will turn to love and if you lose it... also..it hurts too. there are varying levels of love..the sparks..the friendship..admirations...familiars....the comfort levels..It is the compounded aspect of love....That is a growing love..all of those things must exists in a healthy relationship...friends... thats just another word for not being able to express the real word..why are people so affraid of it, denial...|
Posted: 4/19/2007 8:22:11 AM
|All I know right now is I have this huge heart and the most important thing for me right now is to find a way to protect it...gaurd it closely...deny it even, yes...close it off and not open myself up to being played by someone less disciplined or who just doesn't give a crap as long as they get their rocks off...building some serious walls here...and if someone uses the "L" word with me I'll run like a rabbit!|
Posted: 4/19/2007 9:37:29 AM
|Oh Damon you will not run from it and you know it . Ahh Love ... what is love ... does it exist? Is it possibly just a figment of our immaginations. Whatever it is and wherever it is I hope to find it again one day. Being guarded with your heart does not mean you are closed off. It just means you will not be so willing to give it up.|
Posted: 4/19/2007 9:55:01 AM
|kisses1022, you know me pretty well...~huggers~|
I'm still standing up on my hind legs and putting one foot in front of the other...and walking away from a lot....
Posted: 4/19/2007 12:11:21 PM
|Nomad, I am sorry about your loss, really am, but somewhere she is out there waiting on you to find her while she is looking for you, please don't give up.|
Like they say, "it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all", I agree with this but it does hurt for I've hurt really bad before but was brave enough or either stupid enough to try again, that's part of life, good luck, yu will find the right one yet......
My idea on true love is:
When you meet them you just know they are the one, your heart is so full of love for them, you feel it will just burst, you can't wait to know them better and meet them, you think you will go crazy just missing them till next time, you long to be held and kissed by them, and if it is true love, then they will feel the same way, your heart goes flip-flop everytime you see them or think of them, when you are together, life seems worth living again, you will do anything you can for each other, you care for the other ones's wants and needs, and try to fill them, there's more i could say but won't as it is getting too private, so fishes, don't give up, they are there waiting on you, best of luck to all.....
Posted: 4/19/2007 6:27:27 PM
|Nomad I can not express enough, if you love or have loved and thought you lost it you gave up too easily..It is a fight to love, a struggle of wants and needs of each other..who knows, the other may have impromt attitudes towards it because they have never had that much care and love for them..as you do they fight aginst it, instead of for it..You have to give love all it has to offer even if it fails..it is a battle witth those you love..they have lost, and do not want to hurt either ,and as you say, they put this barrier between yousrelves.. A SUDDEN CHANGE IN CHARACTER IS MOST OFTEN AN INSTICTIVE CALCULATION FOR SURVIVAL" They know no better..they have hurt too and love scares the hell out of them..they dont want to be hurt. they want a love that is true and lasting. something that is forever. After all it is of their whole being they would have to give up..love is hard ,love is easy, love hurts, love is blind, love exist,..as a man if you tell someone you love them ,make it about them, not you...I must admit the same holds true for the ladies..Be true to yourself and you can be true to your man and everthing will be as it is suppose to be ,happy not sad..Its not what you make it, its what you are willing to put into it. Its sacrifice and honor in each other.|
Posted: 4/19/2007 7:13:26 PM
|Les, are you still looking for God, love, and a meaning to the world on these forums? no worries brother Read is back.... Sorry, I got bored without all you poor desperate and lonely people! j/k|