| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 1/9/2009 11:58:34 AM | If some guy left me sitting alone and was flirting with another woman while he was supposed to be on a date with me I would leave too!! Just because you don't know the exact relationship he has/had with that woman doesn't mean he should leave you sitting alone like that.
I think that it shows you have pride in yourself. | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/30/2009 12:14:33 PM | | you did right, your heart told you what to do and you did it, onward and forward darlin, better days and better dates! | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 5/2/2009 7:04:35 PM | | Actually I have a friend that wasn't just dumped mid date, she was abandon! Dude said... I forgot my cell phone. I gotta go back and get it. So he left to get it and DROVE OFF! She had her own vehicle, but then when they got back online, she asked him about it, and he said he's too shy. Then apparently he got aroused and wanted cyber. | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 5/2/2009 8:06:07 PM | I would have felt dumped if he answered his phone.You were right.
He was supposed to want to get to know you,and have manners. He could have chatted her up at a later time. | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 5/3/2009 10:52:05 AM | lostintheshuffle
apparently he got aroused and wanted cyber?
There has to be more to this story than that. If not, your friend probably should have a wingman with him at all times to keep him in check. | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 5/3/2009 11:11:43 AM | | How long did he let you sit there? if it was a few minutes, that's fine, you're a big girl, you can occupy yourself until he came back from greeting his friend. If it was over 5 minutes, then I would have went over and introduced myself to his woman friend and made sure she knew he was on a date. If he continued to exclude you, then I would have said that I was leaving. As far as his ga ga behavior, well, that was a HUGE mistake on his part,and extremely rude, but you must remember, it was a first date, not an exclusive relationship, you both are free to do what you want. As far as giving him another chance, how much do you really like this guy? Go by your gut instinct, do you think he will repeat this behavior? If so, keep him blocked! | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 5/3/2009 11:14:17 AM | | You did the right thing. He totally disrespected you and deserved to be left at the table. Way to go, girl ! | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 5/3/2009 11:23:47 AM | Who gives a crap if you "embarrassed him" - he abandoned you to go ogle another girl on a FIRST date....
I've gone on dates that took us to restaurants where the women were scantily clad where my date did a little drooling (I even took his picture with the waitress for him) but he never left me at a table sitting alone to do it...I would personally trust a man who can look at the menu and appreciate it then a man who says he isn't looking at all so this isn't a jealous bitter b***h thing....it's a matter of respect thing, and if he couldn't be respectful of you on a first date then its probably a good thing you left when you did.
That is simply just rude on his part and I'd of walked too. | |
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