| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/4/2008 1:04:59 PM | you did the right thing you were the date, never leave her if you see a friend introduce
not drool. sometimes they are trying to point out they have a number of girlfriends
it's like a lie , or see I am popular, or its called faking, its a con job
out with him, don't ned the games
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/4/2008 1:05:53 PM | | could have been a aquaintance, your're are all jumping to conclusions, get off your high horse and relax sheesh! | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/4/2008 1:06:51 PM | | well i wouldnt bother u didnt like him that much anyway but beware worse things can happen and hav | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/4/2008 1:15:22 PM | | How long were you left a lone, 5 mins,10 mins or longer, me myself would have given it 7 mins if that and would depending on how much i liked the guy gone up to them, He seems like he really wanst that into you or he wouldnt have done that | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/4/2008 1:26:48 PM | | how long??/ That is a good question. If it was just 5 minutes, or even 10, so what?? You two were just there ,to share time with each other. You can'share time with each other, if you get indignant with him, and dissappear. Could he have known this woman, before you??? Maybe she was his ex- wife, mother of his kids. Could the woman been someone that he works with??? Maybe she was just a friend of his, so what????? You might have disappeared too soon... move on, with your dating life, and don't be sooooo judgemental. | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/4/2008 2:38:06 PM | | So he paws all over his female friends? He wouldn't be my friend for long. I have only given hugs to my male friends, just like my female friends. It goes no further than that. And I would not rush off from a date to touch and flirt it up with a male friend. I can nod from afar to my friend or introduce my date to him. Talk about rude. | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/4/2008 6:23:55 PM | | You did the right thing. I don;t care if they are best friends he didn't respect you while you were out with him. Keep the address blocked. | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/5/2008 6:26:12 AM | | Very ungentlemanly(manly) of him,your better off,you did the right thing. | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/5/2008 6:49:26 AM | | You did the right thing, honey! If a man is on a date with you, he should ONLY be with you. His attention & eyes should be on who he is with! Not on other women, his blackberry/phone, or ESPN on the tv behind the bar!!! | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/5/2008 7:01:57 AM | | Ahhh, the problem with nice guys, they do not know when to stop drooling for anything that moves and concentrate on their dates at hand. So girl, you did the right thing. | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/5/2008 7:03:51 AM | Im sorry you had such a bad date but what you did was right. Even if this woman was just a friend that he was saying hi to, he should have atleast taken you with him and made introductions or had her come to your table, but to just leave you sitting there as he talks with her for (Im assuming) a length of time was just plain rude. I have noticed that most guys that whine about being the nice guy that no one gives a chance to are the ones that usually have the worst manners or have such a chip on the shoulder that they are just plain mean. I guess they have been hurt in the past but everyone has to one degree or another. Lovelyviolet I hope that you find someone worthy of a second date next time.  | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/5/2008 7:22:26 AM | | pls girl u did exactly the right thing and if it embarrassed him then good as he was embarrassing himself.I to was on a date with someone similiar and if I could have walked away at the time I certainly would have.This guy claimed to be such a nice guy,bull----,u know everyones friend.When we arrived at the restaruant,oops spelling,his friend worked there and so did her b/f but this guy sits across from me and calls out to this woman which he claimed was the most beautiful woman in the world,not,and compared to her all other women were mere mud.ok Ray Charles could tell he had the hots for her but here's the thing she didn't feel the same about him.He wasn't ready to date anyone because all he wanted was friends and he defiantly doesn't know how to make a woman feel special and as soon as he said that about her I knew he and I were going nowhere together ever again.Good luck | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/5/2008 2:01:19 PM | | I think you did the right thing! A good date never would of let you set there! His loss! | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/5/2008 2:16:30 PM | Look on the bright side.
he could have met her months down the line and dumped you ! | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/5/2008 2:48:06 PM | I hate to state the obvious, but the OP is no longer here. The original post is OLD. Why are we commenting on something that happened last March?????
Just curious if anyone noticed ~ | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/5/2008 4:45:06 PM |
Should I give him another chance, or did I do the right thing
Always move forwards, never look back  | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/5/2008 4:48:26 PM | Too late now to go back!.
He left to go see a 'friend'... You reacted.... and I think now that door is closed.
Sounds like he wanted to explain and talk...but well...I think you better just kiss this one off and consider it over. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2008 8:02:33 PM | | well ty for letting us know angel and apparently the curator of the forums has decided to run this thread around again .Even though it is old in its original nature,things like this still happen.The circle of life just keeps going and going | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/16/2008 9:45:07 AM | Grief if that was me.Before leaving I would have walked up to the two of them and given him a few choice words..And taken a bottle of expensive champers on the way out lol
hope you have long since moved on.. | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/16/2008 10:15:21 AM | I don't know if I told this story already because the thread is a year old, but I was once on a first date meeting over dinner and the woman answered her cell phone. I could tell from the conversation it was neither a bail out call or a true emergency, as she was laughing it up talking about shopping. I excused myself to go to the bathroom, gave the waitress 20 bucks to cover the appetizer and drinks that we had, and left. I have more to do than watch someone else talk on the phone.
I have dated a few women from here and if they are still on here and care to respond, they will tell you that when I sit down, I make a point to take out my phone and say "Let me turn this off. I am here to meet you, not get phone calls." Most get the hint. If she answers the phone during a date I am 100% turned off.
And before you all post your hysterical replies about kids and emergencies and all that nonsense, I understand those things. I have kids too. Grandkids, in fact. However, I find it rude to waste other people's time talking on the phone. Nothing won't wait one hour in my eyes. How long does it take to eat a frickin' plate of pasta anyway? If you are THAT tied in to the paranoia that at THAT minute your kid will be hit by an engine falling from a jet flying over, stay home and don't date until they leave the nest.
But as far as the original post, and she is long gone so I am speaking to nobody here, meet at a place where YOU are the familiar face and he isn't likely to run into people he knows. | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/16/2008 10:28:16 AM | Are you kidding?I would have left too!I would NOT give him another chance to insult you again.You did the right thing.He made a lousy 1st impression | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/16/2008 10:57:25 AM | "I hate to state the obvious, but the OP is no longer here. The original post is OLD. Why are we commenting on something that happened last March?????"
Confused.... If we don't do a thread search, and post a comment that would relate to this subject. Then we are accused of not doing a thread search. If we post on an old thread that is so old that it is pointless to answer the OP then this is commented on. .... Damned if you do. Dammed if you don't.
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/16/2008 11:35:12 AM | a friend hu?
thats some friend if he ditched you half way through the date cause you embarrassed him..lol
what a lame excuse to ditch someone then he expects you to respect him after??? hummm
it sounds more like the "friend" is the one he truly wants and used you to make her jealous...good for you hun on ditching his sorry as*
if he was a nice guy he would never have acted like that...gees even my friends who are dogs towards women have more respect than that | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/16/2008 11:48:45 AM | | yeah i agree alarm bells should ring when you hear trust me im a nice guy! as a nice person wouldnt have to say it but prove it by his actions which he clearly did not so take this as experience and i hope i would have been as collected as you were but somehow i dont think i would have held myself as you did so well done! | |
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| Dumped mid date!!
Posted: 3/16/2008 11:48:53 AM | Dont bother what a knob head WHATS his name so i can block him ! X  | |
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