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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 4/7/2007 11:21:14 AM | | So many people say I love you or I'm falling in love with you but do not mean it!!!! I think a lot of pp say it becaue they think that is something the other person wants to hear or they want something and think if they say that then they can get it. And lets be honest a lot of you chicks fall for it! But I think if someone truely loves you you know it. You feel it and they dont have to say nothing. Of course it is nice to hear but only when you know it is sincere. Dont tell me you love me then not call for 4 days. Thats not love...thats trying to get some. LOL | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 4/11/2007 10:12:15 AM | | I agree words don't mean anything without actions...being a romantic type I like a blend of both even my ex-husband said everyday he loved me...I never felt it..sometimes the word is over used....its the little things one does for another that show love..(being thoughtful) | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/3/2007 6:50:12 AM | | i have realised that love is more than just the words....its the hugs in the morning...its when he puts toothpaste on your toothbrush...its the flowers he brings home from work and its the way he looks at you like you are the hottest thing on the planet even if u are wearin ya nanna knickers and an oversized t-shirt.... | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/3/2007 7:50:46 AM | d*mn... What's that Red Hot Chili Peppers' song? "....you would'nt have to say 'i love you, cuz i'd Already Know..." (it IS important to 'hear' it, but ACTIONS back up the words....   | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/3/2007 8:11:07 AM | | You do it by running your hands all over their body. You demonstrate it by your attention towards them in a romantic way and to no one else. You make caring gestures towards them - things that make their life easier. You share your thoughts and feelings and encourage them to connect with you. You make them feel like they are part of your life and that you belong together. That's how. | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/3/2007 9:22:33 AM | I think the actions do speak volumes. BUT! They show the caring and consideration not necessarily the romantic love. The words are empty without the caring gestures and attitude that backs them up, but someone can be a genuinely nice person and care about you and do all those nice things for you and make you feel wonderful. You still don't know for sure if they LOVE you, unless they tell you in words.
Caring about someone and loving them are not the same thing. You can care deeply about someone without actually feeling romantic love for them. I care deeply about my best friend and would take care of her if she were sick, would buy her special things to show her I'm thinking of her, would do whatever is necessary to show her my support if she's going through a rough time, and thoroughly enjoy spending time with her. I care about her. I love her in a friend way, but that's not romantic love.
Somewhere along the way, the feeling between a couple crosses over into romantic love, and that's when it's nice to know that this has occurred. I need to hear the words, or I will never know where he is on the caring/friend love/romantic love continuum.
I used to have a sort of personal sign language with my kids that I could tell them I loved them and their friends wouldn't notice so they were never embarrassed. I would point to my eye, make a fist and place it on my chest, and then point to them. (eye, heart, you) and if they were so inclined they would repeat the gesture back to me, and then hold up two fingers. (eye, heart, you, two). Our little secret code that told them I was there for them, wherever they were.
I would so love to hear the words right now, from the man I'm involved with, but I have no clue if that's where he's at or not, because I don't read between the lines. Nice gestures are wonderful and welcome, but they do not provide the clarity needed to know where the relationship is at. I need clarity. | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/3/2007 12:56:12 PM | A Scientific Etymology: [Old English lufu=love, Old High German luba=love, Sanskrit lubh=desire, Latin libet, lubet=it is pleasing, Greek liptesthai=be eager, Icelandic lypta=lift, raise , Latin levis=light, Icelandic lopt=air, Old English lyft=the air, Latin levare=lighten, lift, raise] All these words have in common to uplift as with one’s load, including the words for air, which may originally have been abbreviated from a phrase like “raised (elevated) area”. “To uplift”, then is surely where love comes from, and so, what it’s getting at.
An Objective Definition: “For this is the love of the Potentate {i}, that we keep his commandments: and his commandments are not grievous.” 1 Iaun{ii} 5:3
A More Brief And General Explanation of These Commandments, Which ARE What Love Is: “Therefore all things whatsoever you {iii} would that men should do unto you, do you even so unto them. For this is the law and the prophets.” Mat. 7:12 This equation I refer to as the recipe of love. When naming as the two greatest commandments, love of the creator, and of your neighbor as yourself, our master says, “On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets. {iv}” Mat. 22: 40 And Paul says, “All the law is fulfilled in one word,…You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Gal.5:14
A Logical Conclusion: To know what will uplift someone, simply consider what would make you feel uplifted {v}, and then turn it around on ‘em, and pull it on them.
A Solemn Warning: “Whosoever hates his brother is a murderer: …” 1 Iaun 3:15 Therefore hate seems to be as serious an offense as murder. Now there is evidence to suggest that hate is the opposite of love, such as, “…he that is not against us is on our part.” Mr. 9:40 Behavior therefore, which is inconsistent with the aforementioned recipe of love, would qualify as hateful and therefore qualifies to be considered murderous as well.
A Simple Self-Assurance Test (as it is written, “Examine yourselves, whether you be in the faith; prove your own selves.” 2Cor.13:5 ): “By this we know that we love the children of the potentate, when we love the potentate, and keep his commandments.”, 1Iaun 5:2 (see first four paragraphs above, i.e. ¶s 1-4)
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i King Iames (which name was revised in 1680 to read James) uses the word God, an inadvisable choice, here. (see page 4, footnote 10, and Ex.23:13)
ii King Iacob version was revised in 1680 (hereafter referred to as 1680 RKJV) to the spelling, John, along with the rest of the words spelled with a J, but the names of Hebrews are herein retained from the original King Iacob.
iii KJV uses ye.
iv Ion unites these first and second of all commandments, saying, “And this commandment we have from him, that he who loves the Potentate love his brother also…” 1 Ion 4:21
v If it be considered misleading, this idea that we are always to make others feel uplifted consider this example: While sprinting down a forest path, Steve is tackled by his mute uncle, and several fingers and teeth are broken in the fall, which causes Steve to become so enraged, that he clobbers his uncle over the head, knocking him unconscious, and walks back to the path, weeping for pain and holding his newly deformed teeth, but he doesn’t get two steps farther down his path, before encountering a huge bluff, which he would certainly have fallen off of, had it not been for the interruption of his loving uncle. He never realized so well, before this moment, how that sometimes, love can be crippling, defacing, and horribly painful. He had been uplifted, you see, by however many hundred feet above the rocky canyon below, he was standing, all the while thinking that he had been hatefully cast down. Such is the uplifting of one who converts a sinner from the error of his ways, at times…Now go back to the prophet, that treated you like that mute uncle of Steve’s, and pick him up, and dust him off, and clear yourself. | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/3/2007 2:52:53 PM | | You know, that's funny. I never much thought of what people say, I mean other people. Now me, I tell her I'm moderately fond of you! No actually. Sometimes when I feeling especially affectionate, I tell her I'm growing even more than moderately fond of you. Well, anyone can say I love you. People do it all the time and often don't even mean it. But to tell someone you are moderately fond of them, well that's pretty special teehee! | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/3/2007 3:52:01 PM | Making the effort to suprise her . .
Anticipate her needs . . and get them done . . without being prompted to . .
Doing things that you Know she likes . . Spontaniously . . !! | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/3/2007 6:01:59 PM | | Want to be original or unsure of how they will react the first time it's shared? Try making direct eye contact, then point with one finger to the corner of an eye and pull it back (The finger,not the eye). Next put a hand over your chest as in the pledge of allegiance start and take it off there, then point a finger out to the person. Should get the message or at least a grin then. OR learn sign language of how to express that without words? Why not just say it if you feel it? | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/3/2007 9:04:16 PM |
If you can't say "I love you", then you don't feel it.
Not necesarily true... My guy knew i loved him before i felt i could tell him, and maybe even before i knew myself. One evening we went out to dinner and during the conversation he stopped talking and just stared at me & said, "You do you know" I was like "Huh?", he repeated himself, then said, "i can feel it". I knew what he meant straight away, he was right too.. I just wasn't ready to say the words. Sometimes it doesn't need to be said to be felt, its in the looks, the actions, the touching, the barely there kiss that brushes across your lips... | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/3/2007 9:15:29 PM | I had an SO once who always went out while I was sleeping and got me coffee and doughnuts on the weekends. He never ate anything in a restaurant that he didn't offer me a bite of. He always asked if I wanted anything when he got up to go to the kitchen. He always asked if I would like anything when he was going to the store. He kissed me goodbye every morning even if I was asleep. He kissed me goodnight every night, even if I was asleep.
I thought all these things said he loved me....then he slept with my best friend. | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/3/2007 9:31:14 PM | you can silently mouth the words "elephant shoes" and it looks like 'I love you'
I read a book once titled "Isle of View" (say that aloud)
Cross your arms over your chest then point at the person (sign language)
or hey, you could just say it. Right now I'm holding out on saying it to my girlfriend until I screw up real bad and need out of the doghouse. I only have that ace card once and I'm gonna spend it wisely  | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/4/2007 7:03:34 AM | | ^^^ ^ could use that "elephant shoe" remark if there was an awkward silence when the actual expression was shared, IF that made any sense..LOL. It DOES seem to be as saying that when mouthed, but why would you say such? On the part of using it if you get in the dog house, try staying out of there to begin with..that line may work then but cheapens how you feel for her if that gets used only during such times, keep in mind. Might get you in bigger trouble later. | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/4/2007 7:29:08 AM |
If you can't say "I love you", then you don't feel it.
"My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth."1st ion 3:18
If we refuse to obey our apostles, we don't know love anyway. | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/18/2007 1:21:18 PM | Give him great head every day, and swallow.
codes may backfire
olive =black, brown = afro-american, sheep = ram
black afro american ram...you prefer sex with a black man. | |
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| how to say i love you without actually saying it
Posted: 9/18/2007 1:47:21 PM | | Actions that indicate you have heard what your partner has shared which represents who he/she is, what is important in his/her life ----- Evidenced in the way you behave and interact that says to your partner --- you are important to me and more valuable then my being autonomous (meaning free to do and be my selfish me who lives my life for me and onlyme) | |
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