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Posted: 5/7/2007 3:12:07 AM | 3 Weeks and you give her 10 grand?
All i can say is that she must be one hot babe to sucker you in like that !
Don't be a doormat m8, she playing ya like a fool !
Only you know what ya ganna do, but i hope you listen to what most of the people will tell you on here !
JAZZY J | |
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Posted: 5/7/2007 3:59:17 AM | You're beng taken advantage of - period. This "counselor" took advantage of you, a "client" on her caseload. In most states, esp. if she is a licensed professional of any sort, if her licensening board catches wind of any of this, she will lose her right to practice, and rightfully so! You didn't say why she was fired. Did her employer catch wind of this "relationship" ? When you're in a crisis, it's very easy to lose your judgement and insight & probably would have seen this coming under different circumstances. Keep your feet firmly on the ground, get some support and tell her to not contact you again or you may be contacting the authorities! Good luck to you!  | |
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Posted: 5/7/2007 4:53:26 AM | As a very cautious lady!
I would say she is only coming back because she is desperate for money
and you are bailing her out every time,
quite an attractive package for someone that could really be cheeky enuff to
use someone that way,
but believe me there are plenty of women like that.
It seems like the relationship is going to be rocky anyway, with her mixed emotions,
and when she is back on her feet, she will prob change her mind yet again and
you will be nursing a broken heart.
Id say get out before you get to fall even harder than you had,
and you know what they say about having something u cant have!!!!
you want it even more its psycological.
good luck and use your head not ur heart. | |
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Posted: 5/7/2007 5:48:20 AM | Your actual question is; how would you handle this?
Whether or not you have foolish is irrelevant now. I Would not have anything more to do with her. You may love her (careful of what love is, you were vunerable and probably still are due to what you went through). However, i have to say she obviously doesn't feel the same way about you as much as she changes her mind about that. She bled you dry and threw you out. What is there to love about her (she may have positives in her personality, but crikey that's one major negative)
You feeling guilty about her job, it's not your fault. She was the professional and knew the consequences!
Regarding the money, rent, bills etc is just a lesson learnt. The loan is a different matter. You can either cut your losses and learn from it or take her to court. Think about this, if she was a good person she will give this money back to you without being asked!
I could never lend money with no intention to give it back.
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Posted: 5/11/2007 9:49:02 AM | Awe poor sucker. NOPE! You guys are the ones being duped. I happen to know this guy personally. He's a habitual liar and attention seeker . I know for a fact very little of this story actually happened. ( If any at all.) It's a work of fiction ppl , don't buy it for a second.   | |
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Posted: 5/5/2008 12:40:23 PM | Words of wisdom from other people I know...
"If it looks like a duck, acts like a duck, chances are, you got a duck" right?
"Giving up doesnt always mean youre weak, sometimes it just means you were strong enough to let go"
By all other indications this woman has all the earmarks of an everyday crackhead.
Worth nothing, good for nothing and looking forward to LEAVE you with NOTHING...
Hope you cancelled your card and walked away.
Soon as shes broke again she'll be suckering you in one more time.
and youre a dumbass if youre letting her.... no offense. | |
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Posted: 5/5/2008 12:46:24 PM | | You have just got to be kidding me. You gave a woman you have only known for 3 weeks 10 thousand dollars? that is the most absurd thing i have ever heard. could u have not just paid the montly car note for her. take her to court, get ur money back and dont be so gullable next time. lose her. she used you then kicked you out. wisen up | |
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Posted: 5/5/2008 9:20:28 PM | | Sounds like she's using you for your money. I would take her to court, get all your money back and move on... | |
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Posted: 5/16/2008 10:49:58 AM | I am only wondering if the lawyer will help...I spent 12 yrs with a man
that soaked me and my parents for close to $40,000 and part of that
was a personal loan he had when we met and he was paying 18% interest
on it so my dad wrote out a cheque for $20,000 to pay his loan and
apparently my lawyer said even with the cheque and the papers, it
does not prove it was a loan and could have been a gift and we can't
get it back ...to top it all off...my x filed bankruptcy. I can also tell
you that if she had the nerve to ask for $10,000 early in the relationship
that is not love and never will be...take it from someone that learnt the
hard way. | |
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