| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/26/2007 8:27:08 PM | | Would this woman actually have to BE pregnant, or can she just look pregnant? Because I have to tell you, I've dated a few that looked pregnant... well actually that last part was a lie. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 4/2/2007 3:48:07 PM | | well it all depends on how the guy's brain works mine i wudn't mind going out with a girl if she was pregnant or not it doesn't bother me sex doesn't bother i prefer to just cuddle up in front of the tv or something sex happends its a bonus to me its the relastionship that counts not sex although it can be great but still if u base something jsut on sex or even limit a pregnant girl to being single thats not rite they have every rite to feel save and sercure but hey only ignorent people think pregnant girls sudn't date why not its up to them not the people who think its wrong | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 5/5/2007 11:28:17 PM | | Yes I would date a pregnant woman. I want to find a "cool chick" with a good sence of humor. If that person happens to be pregnant, fine with me. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 5/5/2007 11:42:24 PM | If she was pretty, had a great personality. Yes I would.
If I wasn't interested in suffering thru the entire Child raising concept again, then I might say no. But to me it makes no difference.
I know I can deal with children. I actually see over 100 kids a day. No infants, but enough to know kids don't bother me at all.
If I was older the answer would also be no.
So it would be based on her personality and how attracted I am to her. Nothing else. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 5/5/2007 11:51:48 PM | well
1. im taken and i do love her so much
2. shes not preg
3. when i was preg i was into all types of women....even preg women...
4. to me it doesnt mean that single preg are bad etc its just a couple of thing i put into mind...
if a guy breaks up with a woman when she is preg than i dont think they r man enough to have a comitted relationship
i also think that single women can be more independant than men now a days | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 5/6/2007 12:44:42 AM | | Well as someone who had just been there done that, I figured I should post to this one. I had the baby 2 weeks 5 days ago. this is my second child by my EX husband. I got pregnant by him 2 months after the divorce. I won't go into details but I told him no and to leave me alone, he wouldn't and I got pregnant. So to the comments about guys knowing that pregnant women put out, not all pregnant women are out there sleeping around with everyone. Due to the circumstance of how this baby came about I didn't want him to be a part of this pregnancy. But I did feel so alone through it all. I had a profile on here during that and stated I was pregnant, and didn't get any responses, now here I am after I had the baby and stated I have a newborn and I have had 5 people contact me and I made it to two favorites list. So from my point of view pregnancy seems to scare alot of men. There was no worries about me going back to my ex during this pregnancy, I only deal with him because of the kids. I did really get through it alone I only went on one date during the pregnancy, nothing serious and I even had the baby on my own. The daddy didn't see his son till he was 12 days old, and not because he didn't know. I was a scheduled repeat cesection. I told him several weeks before and then 3 days before the day it was happening, he said he would be there after work and never showed. It was really his loss. Do I wish I had someone to share it with? Yes it was amazing to see and hold that little boy , but scary as well. But I did it without a man by my side. I am mothering a two year old and the newborn as well without a man by my side, it would probably be esier but it is being done jut fine without one. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 5/6/2007 6:18:20 AM | | Just had to add my two cents...While pregnancy was many years ago-I remember feeling incredibly sexy and had a very high sex drive. I also remember men being very attracted to me. Now the question is ...was it because of the actual pregnancy or was it because I felt sexy and that attracted others? And for inquiring minds-I didn't date-I was in love with a creep and thought loyalty would get me somewhere. In the end-I raised two great young men by myself and am so proud of who they are. There is a deep sadness with me forever that my pregnancies were alone and not shared with someone who marveled at the entire process, but that is another forum:):) | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 5/6/2007 7:21:53 AM | I am 7 months pregnant. Was married for 7 years and at around 4 months pregnant my husband decided he wanted a divorce.
I came here because I felt like I needed to know that I wasn't some social pariah because I was pregnant and suddenly single. Ironically enough - most replies to this post seem to say that society DOES think a single pregnant woman is a social pariah who should stay at home and just contemplate the impending birth. I have a 3 year old daughter - and I must say, knowing what I know about being a mother - the few months I have left will be the easiest for some time to come - so why would I sit around and think I am incapable of interacting with someone on whatever level entered the picture, when time permits?
I also am curious about the people who seem to think that if woman is pregnant and single (and prepared to go on a date) that she must be looking for a replacement father. This is absolutely ridiculous. While I am sure there are cases where some women would love to find someone to help them through this time, its also possible that the pregnant woman is strong, intelligent and just seeking someone to connect with on some level. My ex is my childrens father, and for some person to think they would walk in and replace that is presumptuous at best.
I am certainly not trying to say that everyone should be open to dating a pregnant woman, nor that all single pregnant women should date. However, to the women that said when they were pregnant they were too busy thinking about their unborn child - that is wonderful. But I sense that statement implies you feel someone who is willing to date is less of a mother, which I adamantly disagree with. My children are the focus of my life, but every human being needs to feel they have time for themselves. Without that time, people become incomplete. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 5/6/2007 9:37:05 AM | I think pregnant woman are sexy as hell. I just love touching them and running my hands over their entire body. I've never had a pregnant GF, but I have 4 kids, so I know what it feels and looks like. Nothing more beautiful, and can make ugly betty very attractive. I'd RUN home to give her a squeeze. God I miss that.
I could never bring myself to ask but, I wouldn't hesitate to date a pregnant woman one second. I know I said it was sexy, but it's not a sicko fetish thing, and has nothing to do with sex (but I sure wouldn't turn her down). Just love 'em ALL. Can't explane it.
The women at work knew this (lot of women there), and played with me until it was over, then they'd say something like.. "Don't worry, I'll try to get knocked up for you". I'd even get invited to lunch time baby showers. I always brought a great gift (a day at a good spa or something).
Love it. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 5/7/2007 6:20:27 PM | | I knew a girl who met her current fiance when she was 6 months pregnant with her ex boyfriend. They even had a sexual relationship and everything. Recently, she just had another child | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 5/8/2007 2:03:56 AM | "I wonder why they are looking to date still?"
The reason they still want to date is for sex and since they can't get pregnant because they already are, they don't use protection either. I have known women like this and to me they are well the s word. Any guy that would date a pregnant woman that is not with his child is exactly for that reason, sex without worry of pregnancy. they are also the s word. I can't respect a woman like that and told 1 to her face that if she can't go 8 months without sex it is pretty pathetic. The selfishness of people is what got her pregnant in the first place you would think that a woman would care more for the life growing inside of her.
Now if it was my hypothetical woman who was pregnant then yes twice a day. | |
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| if the woman was genuine and got on well why not
Posted: 5/8/2007 2:45:21 AM | | there is no harm for a pregnant woman who is genuinely single to date ,guys there are reasons why an honest woman wants to look for love and what if a guy gets on well with a pregnant woman ,also i think it may not be as stress ful if alot of thought respect ,help and trust was there and i, m sure listening well and discretion could work between them. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 5/8/2007 3:41:39 AM | part #1.
many years ago, i got a call from a friend, who i had no inclination of forming a relationship with, recently moved over east, to melb.
on the phone,sobbing, she said that she was pregnant and didnt know who the father was, she had no family, no friends, and if i could fly 3000kms to help her for the next 6months! 
being the empathetic person i am, ( or pathetic), i said yes.
to cut a lonnnng story short, i held her hand, mentally/physically and monetarily,so to speak, for almost 6months...birth and all!!!
two weeks after the birth, she came to me and said, " you'd better go now, ive got some friends coming down from sydney and they might get the wrong idea if youre still here"...
mind blowing... | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 5/8/2007 5:52:36 AM | | Just a little side note on this topic while its being discussed . If you actually do start to date a woman that is preegnant and happen to live with her for 6 months or so depending on what the laws are where you live you can be financially held responsible for child support even if it is not yours . Once you accept the responsibility of being the man in her life it can include child support later on . This I can attest to , I paid for a child that wasnt mine biologically . Im not saying I didnt want to , but not all men can love anothers child unconditionally , as well you may want to consider that the actual father may end up back in the picture . | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/25/2008 5:45:21 PM | | Well, I am a newly single and expecting mom. I dont think the situation should matter. If there is guy out there who can see you for you and not just that you are pregnant and wants a real relationship then great and there are probably ones out there. But I do understand that guys are scared of pregnancy and thats probably why they dont want to bother. But I still want to date, well not really date but have an adult relationship with an adult male. And for all singles no matter pregnant or not, if they dont see you and respect you for who you are then they are not the ones for you | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/25/2008 6:09:16 PM | well most men who are normal so to speak, wouldn't consider dating a woman who is pregnant with another mans child? what does that say about the woman? depending on her situation of course , but she got pregnant, the guys gone, and she wants to date someone else? yeah ok
And with the laws being what they are, if the poor prick stays with the woman for years and they break up he could be liable for child support?
Depending on the age of the woman, she will be a target for freaks with pregnant fetishes. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 3/25/2008 6:16:29 PM | YUCK! No way!
Shes gonna have to chase down the daddy cause i'm not getting stuck with the bill$ for a woman that i never got pregnant.
My standards are way too high for that. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 4/11/2008 10:20:45 AM | | I definitely would date a pregnant woman. Pregnancy is when a woman is most attractive as she only gets more beautiful as the pregnancy progresses and those curves get rounder. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 4/11/2008 11:05:36 AM | LovePreg, you just made your profile up just to say this.
ewww who'd wanna date a bloated preggo blimp? If you knocked her up, I guess you're obliged to stay but to choose one out of the billions of women out there? I don't think so. | |
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| Would you date a woman that is pregnant?
Posted: 4/11/2008 1:43:21 PM | | No,too many complications can arise,perhaps invest time in the relationship only to have her go back with the baby's father.And besides,I do like babies,but I also like to give them back to their parents,lol! | |
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