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Posted: 4/3/2007 7:46:48 AM | | I'm surprised that this not only keeps going, but that people keep taking it seriously. I'm also surprised by the number of people that have verbally attacked the OP. People need to lighten up... this is online dating... don't take it so seriously. It's posting on a message board, not developing a cure for the common cold. | |
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| All she wants to do is watch porn,have sex ,watch sports and drink beer
Posted: 4/3/2007 9:02:51 AM | | op- I personally want to send you my wishes of luck in the future. I commend you for dealing with not just one but 2 Hooters girls naked at once. Like most of us guys we have never pictured any of them naked. I for one will always look up to you for enduring it and making it through..................... Call me if you need any help! | |
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Posted: 4/14/2007 10:37:44 PM | Well it seems the slide of moral decline is pandemic. So many broken men litter the gutters of our gratuitous culture. I have been similarly demeaned as a woman I took in a union that i thought would demand a commitment turned out to be using me for her sexual gratification. I looked for the soul tie and all the while it seems she was down the pub boasting to her mates about her sexual prowess. I accepted that her role as "raunchy girl", would have seen her slightly more liberal in her approach to intamacy, but I felt sure that if we connected in that intimate soulful way she would see that her wandering was soul destroying.
She still visits me much as TDH46 discribed and each time I engage the liason in the hope that she will recognise the connection that I know we share. You know when I describe my experience and express my pain from these encounters to my friends over a drink they can't see my problem. Indeed they grin and offer shallow rhetorical advicee not unlike some of the respondents in this thread.
Fortunately tho there are some in this forum that engage the issue more deeply and with the empathy it deserves. I read intently the advice of one respondent recommending TDH46 abandon his relationship as this woman is beyond redemption. I wrestle with the notion as whilst this may be true I need to believe that we are all Gods creatures and redemption is available to all. So I find myself sobing into my pillow, but dutyfully I maintain the union on her terms hoping that I might play some small role in her reform, that we may live happy and fullfilled lives together.
So maybe to get the support notion started from one side of the world to the other: TDH46, I ache with you mate (and all the other brothers subjected to the same abuse) I think we are duty bound to press forward and fight the good fight. Wear your white hat proud. I think our ladies should be able leave their hats on too. With a little faith I hope we'll just persuade them to trade black for white.
That said I think a support group for broken men is a great idea and I'd welcome a chapter in OZ. Otherwise I'll just close my eyes click my heals and end up in Kansas where I could seek the comfort of American fellow sufferers.
Just reachin for my kleenex and another bachi chocolate. Thanks for sharing and thankyou especially to TDH46 for bringing such a widely mainfest and alarming issue to the attention of so many people who would be otherwise unaware. Clearly it has sparked an array of response that can only be a constructive start in reform. | |
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Posted: 6/3/2007 10:54:03 AM | | First of all i think your whole story is a load of shit, but if it was true, whats the big ****ing deal. What are you complaining about? You cried your self to sleep? God, it sounds like you are the women and she is the man in the relationship. You hit the jackpot buddy, dont **** it up, just shut up and keep ****ing her and her friend. | |
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| All she wants to do is watch porn,have sex ,watch sports and drink beer
Posted: 6/4/2007 3:14:35 AM | tdh, I just read this thread for the first time.
And I feel your pain.
I had to break up with a girl because she wouldn't commit. All she wanted to do was show up at night with a plate of home cooked food, a Playboy to read, have sex, then either fall right to sleep without so much as a cuddle, or she'd get right up and go home. She said her bed was more comfortable. So there I am tossed aside like so much trash. Sometimes she would show up while I was sleeping, take my truck in to get serviced, pay for it herself, then drop it off and leave without disturbing my sleep. Then there would be a card in my truck with lots of kisses and hugs on it. Why couldn't she come in and talk? It just felt so cold and distant. She would wait until I was at work to come over and clean my apartment, even scrub the tub. She would leave a dirty picture on my nightstand, a picture of her pleasing herself on my bed. God forbid she would ever stay and have a long meaningful conversation with me. No, it was just sex sex and more sex, mixed in with doing me lots of favors and spending money on me. I've never felt so worthless, so much like just an object. I too, spent many nights in tears wondering what went wrong.
It hurt deeply. But I was strong. I only let it go on for a couple years before I put a stop to it, I mean enough was enough.
This other girl I was seeing for a while, had this thing about me playing with her breasts. She was always trying to bribe me with them. One time she was in bed already, and wanted me to bring her a glass of water. I was being playful and said 'I'm not your slave, get your own water' Then she says 'if you get me a glass of water, I'll take my shirt off'. I was so disgusted. I was so upset I *almost* told her to keep her shirt on, I'll just get the damned water! But I was so shocked, well I just went along with it. I didn't know what else to do. After making me put my penis between her breasts and making me shoot it all over her, I felt so dirty and ashamed. I only let her do that a couple dozen more times before I had enough, dammit!
And this last experience is perhaps the most shocking of all. I felt so degraded. Everything was going so well. We were all spooned up, cuddling like lovers should, and we began making love. It was so wonderful. When suddenly she reached behind, grabbed my member, placed it against her backdoor and said 'I want to try it like this tonight. It may be a little tight, just keep trying until it's in.' I was horrified! Horrified I tell you! She didn't even notice how upset I was. Two hours later I told her I couldn't do it anymore. I was crying, but she thought it was tears of joy. She was so blind to my needs, all she cared about was giving me lots of powerful orgasms. Like that's enough to satisfy a man. She just didn't understand.
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Sound like the woman could run teamsters union.