| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/15/2009 9:32:48 PM | | A great kiss leaves me weak...makes my knees wobble, my whole body quiver...a great kiss leaves me wanting more. | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/15/2009 10:22:19 PM | I admit that in high school I too lost interest in a boy I was wild about after he kissed me. Too much slobber. His kissing style changed the way I viewed him.
I think a good kiss usually has potential to become a great kiss if there is chemistry there. When my current love interest kissed me the first time it was on our first date. I thought immediately, that was nice. It was soft, gentle, a little tongue, and not aggressive. I responded to that kiss, and he kissed me several times at the end of that first date. Each subsequent date, we spent more time kissing than the week before. Those good kisses from that first night became great kisses. We are tuned in to one anothers kissing styles. One leads and the other follows and we take turns directing the dance. Sometimes there is little tongue, sometimes there is more. Sometimes deep but always gentle.
I have read that the amount of time a couple spends kissing is a barometer of how well the relationship is going. If that is true, this relationship is quite healthy. We both happen to love kissing, more importantly we love kissing each other. Our styles are well suited to each other. His kisses are the best kisses I have ever received. I have logged more hours kissing him in the past four months than I logged kissing my husband in 18 years of marriage. There may be some science behind this. Perhaps we have compatable pheromones.
Science finds the secret of a hot kiss A meeting of lips can spark a chain of chemical changes that really turn your head Jonathan Leake IF you always thought you had a special chemistry with your loved one, you may finally have been proved right.
Researchers have found that a passionate kiss unleashes a complex chemical surge into the brain which makes a lover feel excited, happy or relaxed.
There is also speculation that this hormone release may be triggered directly by an exchange of sexually stimulating pheromones in the saliva.
“This study shows kissing is much more complex and causes hormonal changes and things we never thought occurred,” said Wendy Hill, professor of psychology at Lafayette College, Pennsylvania, in an interview. One puzzle is just how kissing might induce hormonal changes of the kind found by Hill. There are clearly psychological factors involved but some researchers suspect saliva contains pheromones, chemical messengers known to be important in other mammals. In humans the role of pheromones is controversial because we lack organs to detect them. However, Sarah Woodley, an assistant professor at Duquesne University, Pittsburgh, who will speak at the same meeting, believes that people can still detect them via the nose. | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/15/2009 11:43:04 PM | I think it's all a matter of preference really. But I can say this. I had this one experience and it left such a bad taste in my mouth ( pun intended)
Over all he was a nice guy. But when he kissed me it was too wet. One time in particular we kissed and and and.. he drooled into my mouth :( it was like this warm gush of liquid...
I think I just threw up a little in my mouth... | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/16/2009 12:36:09 AM | a good kiss is endless and makes your tingle all over. it is attached to a mouth and tongue of someone who is sensuous and clearly is attracted to you and somewhat cherishes you as well. it has good orchestration with other body parts! it dances to music and alters it's rythmns. sigh, i wish he'd get home from his trip already! 
ps well, i must be psychic, he just called and he is home. pucker up! | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/16/2009 2:37:49 PM | Good kiss ignites whole body ...
Bad kiss never switches reality off ...  | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/16/2009 11:02:38 PM | When a guy covers your mouth and slobbers all over you, that is bad
but am a sensitive....so I personally like the little lip caresses, toungue flicks, a little sucking on the upper and lower lip, and on the tongue.
Not into someone trying to swallow my face or suck my toes through my mouth. | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/17/2009 7:42:16 AM | A good kiss just is. It can last for a second or go for an hour. It can be enough to leave the sex behind and just linger in the effect of the kiss. Kissing to me is VITAL. If you can't and don't kiss enough, then to me, that is a sign of pending disaster.
Bad kiss.... well... I described one I had as having a puffer fish show up in my mouth. | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/17/2009 8:07:08 AM | Kissing is different for everyone. I, for instance, absolutely cannot stand slobber, while my friend thinks 'hot, wet, sloppy kisses' are the tops in romance. We read about blowing in someone's ear, or sticking one's tongue in there, and to me that's just noisy and like getting a wet willie; nasty.
Anyway, good kissing: gently exploratory, passionate and forceful at times, not too delicate or fluttery, sucking pulse points, cupping of face or neck is good, as are direction changes. 
Bad Kissing: drooling, dry mouth, pointy-tongued stabbing, tooth licking, extreme pressure, bloodletting (cuts or bites), bad breath, blowing, sucking hard, hair-yanking, starting with biting w/o warmup. | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/17/2009 8:33:55 AM | A person has to be good at kissing or it won't lead to other things. It's def a very erotic and sensual skill to have | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/17/2009 9:09:28 AM | Bad Kiss - People who smell bad, not just their breath. Ugh there's nothing like a guy wearing that awful smelling cologne and him forcing his toungue down your throat. Teeth kissers, yick!
Good Kiss - the one that makes you weak all over. Soft, just enough toungue, stroking of the neck, stopping to kiss the part of your neck right below the ear. OMG! I'm getting so worked up thinking about this! Good subject! | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/17/2009 7:38:57 PM | | A good kiss will make you melt... a bad kiss will make you want to stop kissing NOW! | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/17/2009 8:59:29 PM | Let me preface this with....it's only my opinion
Good kisser: soft, sensual, playful w/ the lips (sucking bottom lip and lightly touching lips w/ tongue), moderate w/ tongue, combo between open mouth and just regular kissing, creativity .....GOOD BREATH/NICE TASTE
Bad kisser: fast, too much tongue, trying to swallow your face, monotony, slobbering and the opposite of anything I mentioned above.
As far as I'm concerned, if the kiss is awful, that's as far as it's gonna go. Basically, kissing is an art so be artistic  | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/27/2009 4:44:31 PM | me chelle72 - I agree 100%!
[Good kisser: soft, sensual, playful w/ the lips (sucking bottom lip and lightly touching lips w/ tongue), moderate w/ tongue, combo between open mouth and just regular kissing, creativity .....GOOD BREATH/NICE TASTE
Bad kisser: fast, too much tongue, trying to swallow your face, monotony, slobbering and the opposite of anything I mentioned above. ]
If you aren't sure what she thinks of your kiss, here's a shortcut - After we've kissed: If I touch my finger to my lips to hold onto the kiss = good! If I have to use my fingers to wipe the slobber off my lips = bad!
A friend once told me that "Good kissing is like drinking salted water. You take a drink and your thirst increases." | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/28/2009 10:16:23 AM | Well to me a bad kisser is like - clanks teeth (chipped or sore) - bad timing - bad breath - wiggling the teeth too much ... eww here fishy fishy!!
Good kisser is like - great timing - great use of tongue (not too much) - minty freshness of his breath
It depends on how you like it and how to recieve and give | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 6/28/2009 8:08:27 PM | | Last night, I was gonna have a threesome with two women, but one of the girl's roommate, the person who owns the house, was coming home instead of going where she originally said she was going to, so I had to leave. However, I was able to have a great make out session with a girl who I felt was/is an amazing kisser. We sensually kissed eachothers lips and used just enough tounge to add to the experience and we ran our fingers through eachothers hair and kissing/nibbling eachother's neck. What she did that was so hot was that when my tounge was in her mouth she was sucking on my tounge. It took me by surprise when she did it at first, but it felt so good. So that's my example of a good kiss. Hope that helps. | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Timing Is EVERYTHING Posted: 7/5/2009 7:56:54 AM | Big problem... kissing like you're eating an apple.... No Problem...savor it like your eating a delicate strawberry
The first kiss should make the woman gasp/her heart flutter and start to pull back because it fueled an unknown warmth in the middle of her stomach...or lower...but she doesn't.
Sllllllooooowwwwly and gently is the key!! There will be plenty of time for acrobatics later if you've taken the necessary time to start the embers and stoke the fire properly.
I didn't win a kissing contest using haste.
DonQuixote
Quote for the day: "Love is an irresistible desire to be Irresistibly Desired" - Robert Frost
Ain’t it the truth??? | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Timing Is EVERYTHING Posted: 8/3/2009 8:20:47 PM | Big problem... kissing like you're eating an apple.... No Problem...savor it like your eating a delicate strawberry
The first kiss should make the woman gasp/her heart flutter and start to pull back because it fueled an unknown warmth in the middle of her stomach...or lower...but she doesn't.
Sllllllooooowwwwly and gently is the key!! There will be plenty of time for acrobatics later if you've taken the necessary time to start the embers and stoke the fire properly.
I didn't win a kissing contest using haste.
DonQuixote
Quote for the day: "Love is an irresistible desire to be Irresistibly Desired" - Robert Frost
Ain’t it the truth??? | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 8/3/2009 8:26:15 PM | | To be honest i think a gd kisser is based on intensity. What makes a person gd at kissing is technique and timing. Not all kisses have to be complete open mouth kisses to be gd ones. You can kiss ur partner cuz ur happy to see em , a kiss to remind them ur happy with them, also the make out kissing. The make out kisses and greet kiss speaks in volume how much the person ur with is in tune with u. | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 8/3/2009 8:33:31 PM | good kiss = like two carp going after the same piece of corn.
bad kiss = no corn even if tuna | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 8/3/2009 8:43:09 PM | a good kiss is one that you feel like you have become part of that person, that nothing in the world could tear you away, nothing around you matters, like you are lost, enveloped, drawn, and when you open your eyes, (still touching lips) you are ecstatic to be with that person....and wouldn't want another... thats a good kiss, anything else, is not worth doing | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 8/8/2009 1:43:17 PM | Good kissing usually happens with closed eyes as to feel its impact all over the body while bad kissing keeps you wondering what's going on. | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 8/8/2009 2:34:51 PM | Great words can unlock the mind
A Great kiss can unlock the soul... | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 8/8/2009 4:09:30 PM | I don`t think there`s a bad /good kisser.It takes two to kiss and if the two don`t have the kissing connection it just won`t be good. So someone that totally sucks at kissing with you could be totally awesome with someone else. | |
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| good kiss / bad kiss Posted: 8/11/2009 6:58:01 AM | | What is a good kiss? I cup your face in my hands, and never break the gaze in to your eyes. Slowly, I will your lips to mine. We explore the texture of our lips, the softness, the sensual pleasure, the electricity. We continue to explore, and allow the passion to build, to the point your knees get weak and your toes curl. My hands slip to the back of your neck, and the fire of desire overwhelms our lips. We lose track of time, space, dimension, and all we can feel, know, is this moment, this kiss...and a bad one does none of the above...I'm just sayin | |
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