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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/26/2007 8:58:08 PM | That gut instinct is your brain piecing tiny little clues together. They may not always be accurate, but rarely wrong.
I'm pretty good at figuring something's not right with an SO or a close friend. The impressions get less accurate the less I know the person. I'm also the type to give people the benefit of the doubt, so I'm guilty of ignoring the red flags in order to be the good guy.
Shame on me, I know. | |
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/26/2007 9:30:00 PM | | I had the feeling once and I wish I would have listened......now I know when I get that gut feeling....go with it. I am a stronger person now because of the fact that I didn't listen to it, but damn it was a harsh lesson to be learned. | |
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/26/2007 9:49:11 PM | instincts, guts feeling, six sense, visions, perception...etc... They are always right....!!!
Our own feelings are normally 100% right.. we might not have all of the details but we know the truth. Some may be a little more gifted in that area then others but never the less we all have the ability, sometimes it just takes a second to listen to it.
Have people become so self absorbed that truth and trust are gone? Have we all have become mini detectives for the real truth . How sad is that.. What happened to being responsible for your own actions and letting people that have wronged you, failed you or so some how manipulated you, Making them respnosible, holding them responsible for their actions.. These people do not hold the power.. Only your truths do..
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/26/2007 11:10:17 PM | | Yes, my intuition is impeccable. I always believed in my intuition bc I am a naturally logical, smart, methodical and rational woman. So, when something like " uncertainty " or " nervousness " comes into the picture for " apparent " no reason, I take heed of it. I was right the BOTH times that I was lied to. | |
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/26/2007 11:37:39 PM | | Yes i have, i havn't always listened to it and i have learned my lesson. Its just that feeling that someone is just not telling you everything its so easy to just play it down and think it is just a minor white lie. | |
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/27/2007 10:36:52 PM | Hey SinnamonTears please don’t follow the given idea that all eye movement proves a person is lying.
Visually Constructed Images is when looking up to the left, Blahh blahh blahh,
Yes this methodology has its' merits, yet there are many exceptions to not follow the norm. Culture has much to do with it as well, as ya said, like me living on a rez, I know my bro's act different to the norm, but ya know they are full of crap half the time anyways!
Best to do is look for thoes red flags and have the courage to follow your heart and gut.
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/28/2007 5:06:35 AM | yes i did feel that way, when one girl I was dating does not think any thing of spending the night with her ex husband for the children's sake while it was supposed to be his time with the children. I dont think she is over her ex husband. I had given her the benifit of the doubt and then could not remember the little things and lied about not having done something that she had done previously like playing with those icon things we have on msn, everyone by now for the most part uses them, and she could not remember using the most common ones. I know that this is not an important issue, the principle is there.
Saying that she is a blonde is an excuse, I think drugs or alcohol is a big part of it. | |
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/28/2007 5:47:51 AM | Yes - as a matter of fact -
I just called him on it and it was all true- what I suspected-
He was - lets see - November he was divorced -
December he was seperated-
March - he was married - that pretty much sums it up- | |
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/28/2007 6:02:55 AM | I was out of town and had a feeling one night something just wasn't right so I phoned my girlfriend and all the replys were yes and no answers ,it was not a normal conversation,,,I then told her I loved her and she would not answer back,,,I could then tell she was walking up her steps from her recroom,,,and after proding her again she finally said I love you too,,I was right there was someone with her that night!!!! yup go with your feelings... Msg 59 ,,you are right,,you have to be a trained professional. | |
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/28/2007 6:47:12 AM | Yep and I caught him lying.....
He would only come over to visit me for two hours, in at 6 out by 8. He would never bring his cell phone into the house, claims that he would not get good reception. Fair enough as at the time I lived in a basement apt. He did however check his messages to see who did call which made no sense to me if I am the one that he came to see. I just found it a little too suspicious and something was telling me that he was talking to and see another women. He would always say that he had to work in the morning early and that is why he had to leave. Well the last time he checked his messages on my phone, I hit the redial button which went right into his vm, low and behold I heard this women's voice telling him how much she missed him and that she can't wait to see him at 9 that night and that she had a "surprise" waiting for him. WTF??
so I confronted him the next time I saw him and of course he denied it, until I repeated the whole message.. he then just said she is just a "friend" and that he has known her for a long time... WHATEVER!!. Hmmmm interesting considering I have never heard of this friend. ( turns out she was a stripper who had the same first name as me - that made it really easy for him not to mess up our names)
Well I told him meet my "friend" my foot and kicked his a$$ the curb!!
Yep always listen to what your instincts are telling you..... | |
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/28/2007 7:17:11 AM | Always listen to that little person in your head. 9 times out of 10 if you feel that there is something that is not right or being lied too, that little person is usually right!
This is from my own experience... The usual I think he lying to me about not running around with another chick!! Gee low and behold I was right!! I went too a party that we were both invited too, and I found him makin out with this chick! Needless to say I got rid of him really quick!!!! | |
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/28/2007 7:32:43 AM | | Yup and yup. I guess the big warning bells shoulda sounded when, just after moving in together, he said............."I don't know who you want me to be?" I may be wrong but I was under the impression at the age 27 ish that should of already been established! It ended up a disaster and nothing but 3 years of lies, secrets, mental abuse, violence and his total self centered mentality. It was and still is everyone elses problem! Now jumped right into a relationship with someone he denied seeing all along. He worked with her and was sleeping with her all along. Just 3 weeks ago he asked me to move in with him again and now they are in a "RELATIONSHIP." My advice run now! It will never be good and it only gets worse! Years of giving too much and heartbreak! | |
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/28/2007 7:48:47 AM | I took a fun class in college once that was on reading body language. And one of the main sessions was on telling if someone was lying by their body language. It is so effective that many police officers also take the course. You would be surprised what unconsciously you do or react with body signals when you are lying. The main one is, you will not look someone in the face when you lie to them. Because your eyes give you away.  | |
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/28/2007 8:55:56 AM | I don’t question what people tell me; I assume what I’m being told is the truth and don’t usually look for lies…..it just ruins your day.
If it’s in a new relationship, I’m trusting and if something comes out…..well, then I make decisions accordingly. I guess I like to coast through life with rose coloured glasses and think all is peachy, and that most people are being honest with me. | |
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/28/2007 9:09:13 AM | | Yes. I was always right in the end. It's just that by the time I found out I was right I compounded any wrong far worse myself by various means. There's a saying that "I'd rather be happy than right" which I could do well to live more by. | |
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| Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right?
Posted: 3/28/2007 10:47:03 AM | | Always follow your gut feeling, it always right , especially when it comes to love and relationships. Your heart tells you or wants it to be wrong, your head will justify what your heart is saying, but the gut feeling is always right. | |
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