| are you over your ex?
Posted: 4/30/2007 8:56:45 PM | yes i am over my ex and wanting to be with her, but i do miss at times the closeness we shared, but as i said before everything happens for a reason. | |
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Jemue
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Joined: 1/26/2005
Msg: 127 | |
| are you over your ex?
Posted: 4/30/2007 9:06:20 PM | | Indeed I am, I wouldn't be putting myself in the position where I might meet someone to have another relationship with unless I was in a fit state to do so. | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 4/30/2007 9:24:34 PM | I wish that i could answer this one !!! LOL I was totally over my ex for quite a bit, hell we have a divorce for goodnesssakes but i had to move back in with him, with my daughter for a bit and now it's like we are living together but we are not. He even wants me to sleep in the bed with him, hell no i said!!!!
I can't wait to get the hell away from this man!!!!
So ya i guess i am over him.
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Jemue
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Joined: 1/26/2005
Msg: 129 | |
| are you over your ex?
Posted: 4/30/2007 11:20:18 PM |
hell yes i am over her, she slept with my best friend, i hate her for that,
Probably one of the better oxymoron's I've seen in a while ....... | |
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Posted: 4/30/2007 11:42:31 PM | | hi like your pic just wanted to know if you wanted to talk that is all and then maybe coffee if that is ok with you | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 5/1/2007 8:36:44 AM | I am definatly not over my ex Andrew, even though through all the stuff we put eachother through and been through, I feel like i just dont want to through all that away. We were together for 2 years and one day he just decided to go to Vancouver B.C, he said he was coming back but then 2 weeks after he was there he decided to tell me if i dont move out there we will never be together. We still talk on the phone as of now and he says he going to surprize me and come here but i duno i think hes just trying to make sure i dont forget him but he dosent understand that i never will and im having the worst time trying to get over him, i feel like i never will. I will definatly always love that boy. Ive dateing a few guys and actually one guy did spark my interest just as much as he did but it didnt work out because one week later he told me he decided he was going to be gay. lol well i guess im not having very good luck. but anyways i hope my ex dose come back and for now i will continue dateing guys and hopefully someone dose come along if not all do just fine by myself :) andrew<3  | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 5/1/2007 9:04:08 AM | Shevanti: Very nice...I never thought about it that way before...thank you for sharing it with us....I think my ex fiance was my "Reason" -- I thought at the time he was my "Lifetime" relationship but as it turns out he was not. He was there when I needed him....I didn't know I needed him at the time..but in reflection....he was there for me at a time in my life when I needed someone...Although he broke my heart.... I can honestly say today that I am completely over him...yes I miss the closeness we had...all of the love, the cuddling, the very essence of being with him....but I no longer miss "HIM"... he cheated..he lied...he broke my trust....it would, and could never "be" again with him. Although my heart is healing, I am not ready for anything more than friendship at this time.....
I think a gentleman I am very good friends with at this time is my "Season" -- he makes me laugh...I make him laugh...we are happy when we are together (that is until he tries to get too serious).... we have such a blast dancing together....riding on his harley together...just doing things together....he has shown me it is ok to smile, laugh, and live again....and that my broken heart is healing.
As for my "Lifetime" relationship, I am not sure that will ever happen to me but, if it does...if I am wise enough to open my heart ,and keep it open long enough to experience it, I will be a very lucky individual. | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 5/1/2007 9:04:53 AM | | me and my true love finnished 20 years ago although i was a school girl at the age of 15 years old and he who was a little bit older 17 years we was together for 4 years yes he broke my heart and finnished with me and yes i have moved on with my life now i have got a bf of 18 years and 3 lovely children but i still think of my ex some times were is he now, whats he up to, his he married, and has he any children, i dont think you ever forget your true love no matter what wet wrong they is one thing i would say to him thank you for learning me how to love i mean real love | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 6/16/2007 2:08:49 AM | | No, far from it, its been 9 months since left & everyday i think about her, she calls me all the time, i guess to lie n hurt me. Its hard 2 get over someone that u love, but I cant trust her, but i`m single which makes it even harder, it`d b easier if i found someone much better than her, so unless she changes its basically impossible 4 us 2 get back together | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 6/16/2007 3:12:05 AM | Lets get one thing clear here people. You are for want of a better way of saying it , what's in your memory. I can still remember a little girlfriend at junior school and while there was nothing sexual we were very attached. I sat next to her, I carried her books home from school, she would read me Rumple Stilt Skin, and her mum gave me milk and biscuits. The rest of the boys in the class were rightly jealous as she was very pretty and very bright. Long story short. It all ended with the teacher knocking our heads together because we were chatting too much. Really folks unless you are unfortunate enough to get Altziemers you will truly never forget or completely get over a loved one. I remember every girl I ever went out with and still harbour deep love and affection for most of them. Dam, it's only fair since they put up with me.
I was married for 35yrs and looking back on the last period I'd say that I had as much to do with her dumping me as she did with all the lies and deceipt. My ex says she wants to be friends also but amongst other things I said to her was "surely that won't be fair on your new guy." Which finaly seemed to do the trick and stop her from wanting to visit. In truth it was hurting me more and more and I hope she see's that too. The lord only knows I said it often enough. There is one bit of advice which I think works. Keep talking and be honest. That's where we went wrong. Love to all of you and the best of luck with your new partners. | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 6/23/2007 2:09:12 AM | | Five years and counting. And just when you think that the hurting is done and that you have found something to ease the pain you find out that you've fooled yourself and you've lost it all again. | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 6/23/2007 9:23:53 AM | They say that it takes half the time of knowing that person to get over them.
for example, dating for 1 year it would take 6 months to get over them and so on.
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 6/23/2007 10:27:43 AM | Which ones? So many to choose from! 
No I am not over then I talk to them alot and we are every good friends,in fact, one is a fish and we are going to the Wild Animal Park this month. I am over the fact that we are not together as a couple. I have the profound good fortune of never having been such a d*ick that anyone hates me.
Everyone who truely knows me loves me. No brag, just the facts mam!  | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 6/30/2007 9:18:03 AM | | I am no longer "in love" with my ex. I do still think about him too much, but I definitely would not ever want him back under any circumstances. But because some happy memory of him still enters my mind occasionally, I wonder if am over him ABSOLUTELY. If you have loved someone romantically and deeply for many, many years, I think it's okay if they still have a small part with no desire in your heart forever. BUT, even though I am over him completely, the "moving on" part of falling in love with another man hasn't happened. I've had great sex and friendships with men, but I haven't yet LOVED another man. So I wonder if I'm not really over my ex, or if I just haven't met the right man. | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 6/30/2007 9:29:45 AM | | I'm over all of my ex's. I no longer pine over what I don't have even when I do think of the good times we've had. They are all ex's for a reason even if I didn't see it at that moment. Knowing that doesn't minimize how I felt about them in the least, now I just know it was for the best and take comfort in the good times and the lessons I have learned from those experiences. | |
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| Nope! Never!
Posted: 6/30/2007 9:37:43 AM | | i just thought id post tghis because a man i will always love who we just decide to take a liottle break from are rel;ationship even though we texted each other daily but still lived are seperate lives waz in a terrible accident and passed away thursday evening!the last text i received from him waz that he missed me.im just so emotionally crazy right now because i waznt ready to let him go and i never got to say goodbye!i just need some help here on how to live my life now without him in it physicallyplz help?? | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 6/30/2007 10:01:56 AM | | I no longer miss my ex, but my memories are still there and I will always have feelings for him. | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 6/30/2007 2:19:59 PM | I have only experienced love once. I put everything I had in it. We we're together for 5 years. We've been separated for 3. Everything about it was a lie down to the realization that he wasn't even using his real name. I don't feel as though I will ever be able to give as much as I gave to that first go at Love. It was however one of the hardest things I have experienced thus far and also one of the biggest learning experiences.
Glad it happened, is over and that I'm ok! | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 6/30/2007 7:31:50 PM | I think I M OVER MY EX
wouldnt want him back after finding out who he truly is
but i do wish he was who i thought he was
and thats who i love
the guy he was pretending to be
but that man doesnt really exist
its kinda wierd right? | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 6/30/2007 7:53:42 PM | | In a romantic sense very much so, but the good things we shared are easily forgotten when all the pain and suffering from caring too much on my part comes back to mind. Vows were made in front of God, family and friends. Her being unfaithful and the hypocritical, lame excuse for it, to me is unforgivable. Especially when you learn it from your 4 yr old child. So yes, I am over her and doing well and happy.....the kids are with me and she hasnt been heard from since. I guess it depends on the circumstances of the break up. Some get meloncholy while others get pissed. I am not a hater, but it seems easier to get over someone while you fuming pissed at them. | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 6/30/2007 7:58:16 PM | | As strange as it sounds... I think about each and every one of my ex's. | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 6/30/2007 8:09:20 PM | | I wish mine could of been an ex.......instead of a late......because I'd rather be divorced from him knowing that he's still alive out there.....rather then face another moment knowing that he was killed and that he really is dead. | |
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 10/26/2007 8:20:35 AM | y trust god u trusted ya partner and it did not work lol
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| are you over your ex?
Posted: 10/26/2007 9:12:02 AM | its been 2 yrs since i split with my ex
i would say im over him now, was a time i didnt think that would be possible
yep its taken me all this time but have realised it just wasent meant to be
he will always have a special place in my heart ( regardless of how he has treated me)
we have a beautiful daughter, so there is know chance of me ever forgetting him | |
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