| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 8/13/2008 7:13:43 PM | | You were loyal in your 20s and 30s b/c you didn't know better. Says a lot about you. I, like everyone else on here, also know what we want. Cosmo is a piece of trash. Wanna know about women...try reading some science/biology books. If you read the right material, you will find that some of your theories here, while they apply to men, do not apply to the biological brain chemistry of a female. We are not just built different, we don't just cut our hair different. We are biologically wired differently. Sleepless in Seattle? What profound statement did that movie make that I completely missed? Musta been one, at least you seemed to find one. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 8/13/2008 7:35:27 PM | ok... here is my theory.. and all that know me.. will understand.. men are visual.. women are emotion.. thus the reason a man can look at a National Geographical mag or the lingerie section of a sales catalog and take care of business... women need the emotional connection.. IF it is going to be worthwhile.. yes some women use sex to get a man.. but that gets old and empty and the relationship - if there ever was one- dies.
The prob I see in men... and yes Bill.. this is a generalization... men think with the little head .. and it has NO brain. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 8/13/2008 7:43:09 PM | | This is Mike...not Bill. Ha!! You make some good points. But...razorback man...let me give you a hint about one big biological difference b/t men and women that you seem to not recognize...female bonding. Okay...there's your homework assignment...go to it, next time you write in this thread we'll see if you learned anything!! I'm gonna want you to site your references though. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 8/13/2008 7:50:22 PM | ok.. some more food for thought.. Know when you marry.. and you become ONE.. when man and woman have sex.. the two bodies literally become ONE... it is united.. and it is suppose to be meaningful.. but now.. it is a sport to many..
and I was referring to billfishings generalization statements. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 8/13/2008 8:08:13 PM | she caught her hubby cheating.. and when he came home drunk.. when he woke up.. his hands were stuck to his privates. She called the ambulance and told them she had no idea where he had been.. she was asleep when he got home.. LOL
Did you get that email I sent you about the wife in Australia? Now that was good!!!!
A scorned Australia woman is airing her husband's dirty laundry on a global scale by auctioning a picture of his mistress' underwear on eBay.
In the spiteful listing, the jilted woman is auctioning off a picture of a pair of lacy black underpants "size humongous" and an empty condom wrapper "size small" found in her bed after her husband allegedly engaged in an extramarital affair with a woman named Kylie.
Originally, the seller, "Anna," had tried to sell the actual underpants and said of the item: "They are so huge I thought they may make someone a nice shawl or, even better, something for Halloween, perhaps."
The eBay listing, which does not name the husband, almost did not make the site, as it was first taken down due to eBay's policy against selling secondhand underwear, spokeswoman Inessa Jackson said. "We let her know about the policy and instead she's now selling a photograph of the offending knickers," she said.
In the room she found the empty condom wrapper under his pillow and "the Tart's knickers ... at the foot of the bed." Anna also promises that this listing will not be the last in the matter, stating that her husband's Harley Hog is "the next item that will probably be sold on eBay."
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 8/14/2008 5:32:23 AM | Sarcastic Humor once again strikes a nerve. I was playing on the "chick flicks" and the "chick mags" in a tongue in cheek manner and for that I apologize.
Seriously, I by no means am an expert or claim to be in the female psych. Nobody can be because it always changes. ( )
The ways to a man's heart or psych is through his stomach, penis, and fun activites (sports, woodworking, tv, music, whatever)
In all honesty Tag, I hope I have learned through past mistakes and by communicating with the person I am interested finding out what she likes....food, activities, hobbies, etc and what she is looking for in a dating partner or even in a long time relationship...what she is looking for and what she wants.
Men are all different and women are all different. You mention female bonding. That is fine, but what one female wants can be quite different from what another female wants. I am not going to cite references or sources on that statement because all men are not just interested in sex and not all women are interested in having sex.
When it comes to dating and having sex the word that pops into my mind is chemistry. If there is no chemistry it is just sex. If there is chemistry and a sense of real enjoyment and pleasure it moves from sex to making love. That is where my emphasis resides. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 8/14/2008 3:51:58 PM | Well, I have chatted with a few guys on this site and a couple of others. Yes, I have a few of them want to just talk about sex but I have to say that for the most part I have talked with some really nice guys on the sites.
Have a great day. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 8/14/2008 4:22:03 PM | men can want it all they want as far as I am concerned. it is up to me whether or not he gets it... that seems to be some of the prob.. women are really more free with sex now than ever before.. I still want repect and love.. crazy men.. I must be old!!! With all the diseases out there.. no thanks... And alot do not tell you they have it.. some lie about it.. some even try to convince you that you can cure it.. with meds or even surgery.. you may get rid of the cancer from HPV..but the virus is still there..
What happened to courting and dating and getting to know one another... | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 8/14/2008 7:00:55 PM | Suzzanne,
Courting and dating died in the 1960s with the Season of Love, long hair rockers, and bra-burning, etc. The days of men making more then women are dead, and so is just one guy paying for everything on dates. If you want friendship before lust, then alternate who pays or split costs each night.
According to what I heard about a year or more ago, .... the young ladies in their Twenties go clubbing just to HOOK UP for the night of fun and sex. But you know I'm not the clubbing type.. just go for our parties and music. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 8/15/2008 1:53:13 PM | Going to add one more thing to this post....I believe on a date sex is always an underlying issue. But that is not a bad thing, other underlying issues include kissing, holding hands, manners, picking up the tab...both parties trying to discover what the other wants to do and if the date is going good or not.
I know there are women that will tell me about the guys they find attractive...the Tom Sellecks, Brad Pitts, and the average Joes at a restaurant and wonder who will be a good kisser or a good lay. So, women can do that but if men say that they only have a one track mind. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 8/15/2008 3:53:01 PM | | Yeah, well, I hate to burst your bubble here...but we don't sit around looking for the Tom Selleck or Brad Pitts and wondering if they are good kissers or good lays. I've been a woman my entire life and never once did a ? like that come up. Let me clue you in here's what we would ask each other. Do you know that guy? Whaddya know about him? Yeah...that's pretty much it. Brad Pitt is hot though, you're right about that. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 8/16/2008 4:45:05 AM | Geesh, I did not say that all women set around all day wondering about the Tom Sellecks or the Brad Pitts but the subject does come up occasionally just as it does with some men looking and comparing women occassionally.
There are other parts of conversations and thinking that goes on with men and I am sure it is the same way with the female persuasion. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 10/2/2008 4:10:32 AM | | I can only speak for myself but have taken a vow of celibacy since my last relationship. There have been times in the past where though I had hopes of more than sex I did let sex "cloud" my vision. A mistake that I hopefully have learned from. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 10/2/2008 7:13:19 AM | | Yeah, fit2share, dating does make you want to become celibate...stop drinking...and all those other things that tend to cloud ones field of vision. Basically, it's not a good idea to base a relationship on any ONE thing. People are a package deal and you need to look at the entire package. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 10/2/2008 11:49:03 AM | quoted above: "ok... here is my theory.. .. men are visual.. women are emotion.. "
A lot of publications agree with this theory too, but in my experience almost everybody is visual to a degree. Forget Cosmo, the self-help/relationship books and the biology books, You ladies should check out the female profiles on this or any dating site: the mail restrictions female members set up and look at the type of men the women say they want to meet hint visual stimulation is required. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 10/2/2008 6:44:56 PM | | Yeah, well, lucky for me...I'm one of those with adult hyperactivity disorder people...so I can't pay attention long enough to compare profiles on THIS site, and looking at profiles from other sites and compiling data and trying to make comparisons and draw conclusions...that's just too much effort for me. I'm just looking for a date!! Sorry, but...that's the truth!! | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 10/13/2008 2:17:22 AM | | i know what you mean i dont like it to i love to talk about any thing but sex if you want to talk let me know but not sex ok yhere is lot of other things to talk about like what is your favorite music book food do you like sports racing loove to here from you | |
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