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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 10/30/2008 7:00:08 AM | I just got out of a relationship and when I broke it off with her, she accused me of just wanting her for sex.
We were together for about 4 months. In the beginning, she was everything I wanted.sweet but fun, intelligent, independant and willing to take things slowly. I was pretty clear at the beginning that those were the reasons why I started dating her. I don't like long distance relationships and she lived over 500 miles away. So it took a lot for me to consider it.
I put everything I had into it but like so often happens on both sides of relationships, I realized that what I'd seen at the beginning was a facade to draw me in. Now, I have 2 jobs that keep me away from home 5-7 days a week. I don't have time for fake people, especially when it's hard enough because of the distance. (there were literally times I'd get in on a Saturday morning at 3 am, be on plane at 6am to her, fly back in Sunday night at 9, and leave back out Monday at 5 am.)
I was as nice as I could possibly be when I broke it off with her, and instead of hitting her with the truth (at first) I told her I just didn't think we were clicking. She went off on me and in the end I told her the truth. Which just pissed her off even more. So she told me that I was just like every other guy and just used her for sex.
I know it can be hard, but if I was just using her for sex I think I'd have picked someone closer, or hell I coulda just paid prostitutes. It certainly woulda been cheaper then me flying back and forth all the time.
Moral of the story, just because in the end it seems like that's all we wanted, doesn't mean that's the truth.
Call me crazy, I just want a woman I'm attracted to, that can make me laugh, and NOT be yet another stressor in my life. I have enough stress in my life as it is (50% of it will get better or worse November 4th) and I want someone that won't get pissy if I can't call or text every few hours or sometimes the entire day. I don't want to have to listen to a 20 minute berating because my friends want to get together, with all our wives and/or girlfriends ) | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 11/19/2008 4:12:58 PM | | When you meet the right one.....it is just heaven!!......everything works out!.....you get along great!!......you just have not met the right one yet!....but Glock.....you do sound nice!......just dont give up.....dont settle!!.......and just shake the dust off your shoes and keep on going!.... | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 11/20/2008 1:18:33 PM | | no im speaking for myeslf ,im more gettin to know who im talken to,whats your intrest in life,what things turn you on or what motivates you.your like dislikes.well if you ever want to talk and wanna know where my mind is like then you can hollaat your boy | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 12/13/2008 8:39:21 AM | Seems like from my personal experience is that sex is a test and determines if they want to be with you. If the sex isn't good they move on and if it is good then thats all they want.
All this talk about faults in men. Women have faults too. I look for the good in women and don't sweat the small stuff. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 1/8/2009 7:40:59 PM | | Although sex isn't the MAIN thing, it certainly is important. It's a biological urge that we have no more control over than say, hunger. This debate is as old as time itself, or at least as old as Adam & Eve. what is the proper way to handle it? Obviously a man should not ONLY be interested in a woman for carnal reasons, but in time you can expect it to cross our minds, and in the right context the topic will arise...If you're finding that the approach is crude or disrespectful, then you should address it and inform your suitor that it makes you uncomfortable. But, please no broad brushstrokes about ALL men being horndogs...We're human, and that's all. If you don't like sex, perhaps there's a wimple in your future. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 1/13/2009 12:52:23 PM | Some men (well the honest ones) will flat out tell you all they are interested in is sex. Others lie. The best even believe their own BS. This causes them to be congruent which makes them more believable.
The reason it's mostly the older guys is they have realized they are not immortal and don't have forever to play games.
I use it as a filter. If a woman is offended or is one of those that "oh I can endure it if I must". Then I don't need to waste any more of my limited time. I have my pride. Ok, I don't have a lot of my pride. But I have more than to want something like that.
Guys especially the old ones want someone who is just as big a horndog as they are. Mostly we figure if the sex is really good everything else is negotiable. | |
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| I wanna know are ALL of you guys out there just interested in SEX
Posted: 5/25/2009 3:01:28 AM | NO SEX IS GEST SEX . WHAT IS TRUE IS LOVE . IT IS HARD TO FIND PEOPLE THAT TAKE THE TIME TO FIND LOVE .YOU HAVE TO FIND A FREND FIRST THEN IF IT MAKES YOU HAPPY THEN IT CAN GO FROM THERE . I DONT WONT A LADY THAT WILL GAVE UP ON THE FIRST DATE . THE LADY THAT WILL BE FRENDS FIRST IS HARD TO FIND . IAM A OLD MAN BUT THIS IS WHAT I THANK . HOPE YOU ALL HAVE A GREAT DAY  | |
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