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Except for the clitoris, whose only purpose is sexual gratification. Also, it has twice the nerve endings of the penis. :D
we.....llll aaaaactuuuuuaaaallleeeeeeee, there are three other functions of the clitoris less well known :-
1. to test male Intelligence.
2. to test female patience of males looking for it.
3. give sealed section of womens magazines something to write about.
coincidentally OP, has anyone come up with the $4000.00 +$2000.00 ? is there any premium discount? does one have to 'TIP' ?
including VAT?
warranty/guaranty arrangements?
any guild fees?
(para-Legal fees?)
at least for that price supply a range of condoms..... :smile: a cup of tea and a biscuit even?
[for the north americans biscuit = cookie ...well kinda anyways] | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 6/20/2011 10:06:02 AM | I've recently become fascinated with the idea of an MFM threesome. I'm straight so for me it's really more about how turned-on the woman can get.
I used to think that maybe this would degrading for a woman, but then I heard a "tell all" audio book by Sloane Fox called "Empowerment of a Threesome" where she details what an MFM threesome is like from a woman's perspective. It's interesting that she finds it the opposite of degrading.
Can't wait to try it now! | |
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Posted: 6/20/2011 12:02:52 PM |
I used to think that maybe this would degrading for a woman, but then I heard a "tell all" audio book by Sloane Fox called "Empowerment of a Threesome" where she details what an MFM threesome is like from a woman's perspective. It's interesting that she finds it the opposite of degrading.
Yeah, there's nothing quite so reliable as a source of info as a woman who makes money from sex... Basically, she's selling sex... so of course she's going to say it's not degrading...
Unless she's doing this out of her own personal enjoyment and not to make money, then you have to realise she is to real women what porn actrsses are to real women...
In other words, fantasy not reality... | |
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Posted: 6/20/2011 4:01:47 PM | Hi M,
I think this actually can be some women's reality, and it's up to her guy to learn how to peel away all the societal programming that makes her feel like she needs to keep her sexuality locked away.
And... I can't disparage anyone who makes a living doing what they love to do, especially if it it's helping others and sharing the knowledge that they've learned.
I say "bring it on!". | |
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Posted: 6/20/2011 5:46:07 PM | | m_church, don't assume that you speak for all women on this topic (nor any other). I have not done the MFM threesome myself but I can understand the empowering nature of the act. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2011 6:22:04 PM |
I have not done the MFM threesome myself but I can understand the empowering nature of the act.
How can you speak of what you understand without the experience of having done it? You only 'understand' based on how you perceive it would go. In any act, sexual or not, the way it plays out will determine how you'll feel about it...
Playing baseball but striking out, is far less empowering than playing basball and getting a game winning homerun... Yet, the 'act' of playing baseball is still the same...
Getting paid to play, is even more empowering... | |
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Posted: 6/20/2011 6:45:52 PM | | Because I know many people who have done it, and understand the psychology of it. If YOU don't, that's fine, but please don't project your assumptions on me. | |
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Posted: 6/20/2011 8:12:28 PM |
Because I know many people who have done it, and understand the psychology of it. If YOU don't, that's fine, but please don't project your assumptions on me.
I know people who have done it too... They had far different feelings about it... none of which could be described as 'empowering'....
As for 'projecting assumptions'.... I didn't realise that you would take it that way... I guess I didn't expect your reaction, even though I know people who have done it and understand the psychology of it... | |
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Posted: 6/20/2011 8:34:52 PM | I know women who have done it....and I was involved with some of them....they ALL reported feeling very empowered!
I also know a woman who insists that any male she be in a relationship with accept FFM threesomes! You'd think every guy would jump at that possibility. The reality is most are actually intimidated by it and when it comes down to brass tacks....chicken out!
I have been involved in MFM and FFM/FMF and can say that all were very rewarding for all participants.
As with anything else your own motivations and views will shape the experience.
I'll give you an anecdotal analogy.
Two initially equally successful salespeople hit the sales floor.
One views his customers as marks and himself there to take advantage of them.
The second views his customers as friends whom he is to help and guide in making the best choice for THEM.
The first thinks of themselves as slick and smooth talking, the second as humble and helpful.
Multiple sales cycles down the road....which one do you think feels good about their job? Which one gets the most repeat clients?
You see, if you participated in ANY activity with ill intent, you will likely view that activity in an ill manner as you seem to with most sexual topics discussed on here. On the other hand if you had good will, good intentions and the other participants best interest at heart, your experience might have been more pleasant!
Same goes for those who continue to feel used by sex...they tried to USE sex in exchange for something and didn't get it so they feel used. If they had simply had whatever flavor of sex out of an actual desire to feel pleasure and give pleasure to the other, then they would not feel used no matter what happened to the relationship after....they have the experience and memory!
VVVVVV I'm In sales too!VVVVVVV | |
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Posted: 6/20/2011 8:47:36 PM | Excellent points, jco!
Funny you used that anecdote...I'm a salesperson, type # 2. I love what I do and while I may not get as many initial sales as type # 1, my customers are very loyal and referrals & repeat sales are great. I can't stand slick salespeople so I try not to do that to folks.
Intent, and attitude, are what make or break pretty much everything, right?  | |
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Posted: 7/28/2011 4:22:49 PM | | I was hoping to read some more revealing discussions of mfm threesomes here, instead of all these discussions by people who never have done it. | |
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Posted: 7/28/2011 4:44:27 PM | | Ok personal I can say that sexually I am attracted to the idea. But on a higher level I feel really sick about it cus its in a degrading way. So I can say if its my wife man I could not look at her the same. If it’s just a girlfriend then its like hellyeah (cus I am not going to marry her for sure after that). Plus I know the difference between love and well lust and sex. But at the same time I get a little possessive. I wouldn’t care if my wife showed her body(as in like nudity stuff) but its one of those look but don’t touch things. Its like if it’s my wife you might as well break in to my house and steel from me. cus that is how I’m going to see it and that’s how I will react. In a vary Texas manner. You know they say guys from the south are more prone to fight cus of our sense of respect, pride, and honor. Witch is sad but true. Plus after words she would always be known as the women me and my homeboys either ran a train on or gangbanged. But some guys like that so if you’re a women and that’s your thing then hey to each his own you know. | |
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Posted: 7/28/2011 7:30:01 PM |
I was hoping to read some more revealing discussions of mfm threesomes here, instead of all these discussions by people who never have done it.
That's because these topics get over run by the morality police and the STD patrol... | |
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Posted: 7/28/2011 7:45:56 PM |
That's because these topics get over run by the morality police and the STD patrol...
Yep, the Moral Police and the POF Disease Posse are active groups, no doubt. 
~OT~ To each their own, I'm not built for threesomes that involve me ~ but I'd not tell my SO he's not welcome to participate if he has a need to do so. JMO  | |
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Posted: 7/29/2011 5:48:05 PM | | why would a woman want to be shared? especially a married woman. it sounds overwhelming. especially the whole "tag-teaming" thing. | |
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Posted: 7/29/2011 9:57:09 PM |
why would a woman want to be shared? especially a married woman. it sounds overwhelming. especially the whole "tag-teaming" thing.
I agree it doesnt sound like good sex to me. It just sounds like she will do anything to please the man she is with. And a really good open marriage will not care where they are as long as they come home. AND they end up with a lot of rule. Just as many as monogamous couples just different rules. STILL rules. | |
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Posted: 8/20/2011 9:36:12 AM | We've done it and will do it again. Actually it's not really a threesome, after we get to know the guy, we invite him over him and the wife have their fun. Of course there are limits and it is always safe. As for the husband he watches and love it and also when the guy leaves he loves and truly enjoys being second. He's very manly, nicely built and does everything just right for me, however I enjoy experiencing new things and he enjoys sharing that gift with me.
Our experiences don't involve two guys attacking, it's just basically one on one thing. Always looking for new experiences and the right people, we've had some that has failed the attempt but mostly everyone we've met wants to come back and we never see the same guy more then three times. | |
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Posted: 8/20/2011 5:33:41 PM | I think it takes "confidence" your a goood lover and your wife is happy.....another guy is fun but also like a living vibrator...lol...sorry ! but lets be honest ....he is there for the soul purpose to make her cum !
Weather you join in or they do it 1 to 1 it's all about her and her sexual satisfaction, thats how I know you are a great lover....you love to please a woman .
She will never leave you as she could not get this sex from many men.It is hard to find a man who is secure with his wife being pleasured by another man or woman.Ironically, the pleasure she gets from that also pleasures you and no doubt when she comes home or when the "other " leaves you are all over each other.
Am I right ?
I bet with every thrust of her lover you feel it...the look in her eye when she orgasms.It's normal dude and a lot of men love it.What we don't love is when she takes off with the guy...lol or gets an std,
As a couple it's great to have fun.....but be carefull.get to know the person before the 3-some or whatever........honestly if you can get a disease from an ice cube down south imagine what you can get get from intercourse.
Love you both
take care !! | |
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Posted: 8/20/2011 5:42:31 PM | Men and women think differently so remember there version of a mmf and ours are 2 totaly different things..
MEN = DP....one in mouth one you know where.............women too busy and total turn off.
WOMEN : 1 man kissing feet and massaging her gently....other man kissing feet and masssaging her gently.Don't put that thing in my mouth or in my butt....sit wait and watch and when it's your turn I'll txt you...lol
Cheers ! | |
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Posted: 8/20/2011 7:15:42 PM | | From a f perspective, I don't think I could share my sig other if in a committed relationship..... not having such at this point-I'm thinking of playing out such fantasies now. I have participated in FMF threesomes before, but never MFM.... which might change in the near future! :) | |
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Posted: 11/15/2011 11:25:48 AM | I for one find the idea very erotic,and very hot, I do not think I would ever get the chance to do it
sometimes fantasies are far better then reality | |
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