| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 7:25:28 AM | Dominate It,
Your name suits you. Why do you feel compelled to push your narrow-minded morality on others? You sound pretty ignorant. I have had MFM threesomes with my girlfriend on numerous occasions, and I can assure you that I am not gay, impotent, or a pedophile. Your comment to Melody was a foolish red herring. We are not talking about sex with children.
Let me ask you a question. Are you the type of person who also threatens to beat people up when they don't agree with your distorted POV? I often wonder if guys like you have any clue how foolish you look to others. | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 7:47:09 AM | | I'm not threatening other people. I'm expressing my point of view. If you have a problem with that then ignore it. I think it's pretty funny, though, to get you all emotional about it. I'm just some dude on the net and you are all flipping out about it! How foolish is that? I'm not pushing anything on others, you're pushing it on me. | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 7:53:43 AM | | sex is best one on one IMHO, been there and done that with MFM and FMF. I don't think either of those two situations is healthy. Just my .02 here though. | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 8:26:45 AM | This is such a common fantasy between with both man and women... women like the attention of it, the knowledge the are being a sexual goddess to two men...most woment if not all have a bit of an expansionist craving… guys like the dominating taboo bad girlness of it.. and the new kind of visual stimulus
I have found that with most women I have been in a relationship with .. talking, and telling explicit stories about MFM while we’re are getting our freak on is a very intense experience...
I have not had a MFM with someone I love .. but my last love and I both shared the fantasy.. unfortunately the world was kind of stacked against us.. so it never came to pass..
I think I will say no more.. except this
I have never cheated on a person.. not even a kiss.. I'm passionate about trust. there is not a gay bone in my body ..hehe.. lol.. I pun you
I personally think just because people explore their sexuality dose not in any way morally bankrupt or homosexual make.
I have had this conversation with people that don’t approve.. Ironically while this type of behavior is often demonized…. I find that many of the people (not all) that demonize it have cheated.. or have engage in behavior that is much more vicious .. dating several people and because their “Just dating” the think they have license to do very deceitful hurtful things. ..… how we all like to throw stones in our glass houses ..
Its not what you do in life.. its the "integrity" with which you accomplish it | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 10:21:45 AM | | THIS right here is my ultimate fantasy....and just havent found the right two men and my ex was never down for it!! I think if you have a stong sexual relationship with your partner this would be fine..but I knew if I forced him it would have been a bad move on my part. Oh well..one day!!! | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 10:39:09 AM | wether or not you feel a MFM is gay is really rather a personal interpretation...
some will feel that it is...some wont...whatever...its really your choice...though i find it kinda funny that those who dont feel its gay...well they sure are defensive about it..
In the world of sex...well its really up to you to determine what is okay or not...gay or not...whatever...some think having a finger in your bum makes you gay?meh...
Personally ...im not into sharing my partner...but then like i say...thats me...!
As long as everyone is all good with it! well more power to you!
Sex should be an open adventure where committed partners should feel free to explore all aspects of thier sexual fantasies..without fear or judgement...wether that includes other people, fruit or cheese .. | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 11:49:06 AM |
This is such a common fantasy between with both man and women... women like the attention of it, the knowledge the are being a sexual goddess to two men...most woment if not all have a bit of an expansionist craving… guys like the dominating taboo bad girlness of it.. and the new kind of visual stimulus
Depending on the situation, relatioship and circumstances; Some things are better left as fantasies. If you are in a committed relationship, you can lose alot, thinking ok this would be fun and all good think it through thoroughly prior to doing it and make sure that you are secure in your relationship cause once it happens, it will usually happen again and again. best of luck to all though | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 1:27:48 PM | | the issue here with men shareing their wife or gf is they feel owenership. that is just wrong. i do not own my wife. therefore I want to please her anyway I can. This is not about love It is just raw sex. Also how many of you guys would be willing to be the third as long as it was not your partner? what is good for one should be good for the other. | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 2:25:23 PM | | So true justforumsplease...the last sentence. People can look and look, have sex and more sex, but that isn't love...and some people crave that love so much they're willing to go through person after person trying to find it | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 2:36:58 PM | i agree too, forums only74. but any sensitive and highly charged facet of a relationship can derail it unless you're incredibly open-minded and love your partner very much. maybe that's why the divorce rate and the inability to find a lasting mate is such a problem. sorry if it sounded like a sermon from the mount. i'm as clueless how to do it as the next person.
regarding the thread topic, i find the idea incredibly erotic - you know when everything's perfect and every element is a huge turn-on. frankly speaking, i don't know how or if i could handle the reality of the flesh and blood version. it would be a challenge to say the least. | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 3:30:31 PM | slideforlife...yes, it IS very erotic...I would write more about it and what I know but my picture is on here and people around here would know what I have to say LOL
I WILL say that I would absolutely love to see the man I'm with, getting it on with another woman though, which would be fmf...but mfm isn't far from my fantasy list. | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 4:34:38 PM | | I GUESS FOR SOME OF US, THIS BECOMES A BIT DIFFICULT TO COMPREHEND. HAVING BEEN MARRIED FOR 17 YEARS, SIMPLY CANT IMAGINE SHARING SOMETHING AS PRIVATE OR IMTIMATE AS MY BODY WITH ANYONE OUTSIDE THE UNION WE COMMITTED TO. OF COURSE HE'S A #%^&*$#@!!! BECAUSE HE BROKE THAT CIRCLE....SO ROCK ON !!!!! KIDDING, IT'S NOT FOR ME, DIFFERENT STROKES (NO POINT INTENDED) FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/29/2007 6:24:55 PM | Hmmmm.....recognize "pony" we both got banned from another dating site for arguing....see things still haven't changed,either has his picture.
I have to say that the couple has to be very very secure in their relationships....my ex and I used to comtemplate a threesome with another man plenty of times....but it was only to please her sexual gratifications,not mine. At the end of our marriage,infidelity had set in fom her living with different guys and it was the only thing that used to get us off during sex,was to talk about it. I don't miss that though because it separates you from your partner except in a "sexual" sense. There is no way on earth you can have a sound relationship and a threesome at the same time unless you were just only friends. If it can be done,I would like to know the formula,we aren't made that way and it just isn't natural. | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/30/2007 5:19:21 AM | The last serious relationship I had before my failed second marriage, was with a woman who engaged in threesomes on occasion. And while I had done this more than a few times in my past, it was always with a bed buddy or someone I was not strongly attached to. It was the first time I had done it with someone I was seriously involved with. Was I reluctant to do it? Good Lord, yes! I told her so, and what I feared would happen. She took me aside and told me this.
"I love you. When this is all over, I'll be sleeping with you. I will wake up with you, and when you wake up, I will tell you again that I love you... as many times as I can before you tell me to be quiet."
She allayed my fears by telling me this. She also told me that love and sex, intertwined as they may be sometimes, can indeed be separated. She wanted me to do it to fulfill her fantasy. She wanted me to be involved because she loved me, and wanted me there.
Over the course of our 18 months together, we had several trysts with a few guys, quite a few more women, and one time... both. Our relationship ended over other reasons, but while we were together, she was right about a few things. We never went to bed angry, and she always told me she loved me when I woke up in the morning.
It is possible to have a sound relationship while doing this, but you have to want it badly. | |
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ponie
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Joined: 1/25/2006
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/30/2007 6:51:36 AM | The stats show that Most swinger relationships are stronger and last longer then the so called "normal" one's.
This is due to the trust and maturity of the relationship and the people involved.
Most people, I said most. Never even scratch the surface of their partners true inner thoughts and soul. In the swinging community People understand the differance between Sex and Love.
A lot of the 3 somes I have heard about that went bad were just childish fantasies that were approached for gratification and not pleasure.
I myself understand how people can do it, but it's not for me.
And lameone39, pffffffffffff... | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/30/2007 7:05:33 AM | Yes, it did... You need to remember that in whatever type of threesome you have, the other person serves as an object in a way.
If you have a woman with 2 men, then she is the focal point. With 2 women, then he would be the focal point. My g/f and I just viewed them as "sex toys that moved, drank a beer when they were done, thanked you and left". It was the same when we had a FFM threesome.
We saw each encounter as variations on a theme, in most ways, but we always kept eye contact. We always talked to each other. and when we were done for the night, we always told each other what turned us on the most about the night's activities.
Yes... I viewed it as intimacy, from my point of view. Others may think differently...
But if we were all the same, it would be a very boring life, yes? | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/30/2007 7:22:00 AM | Just: yes, uniformity would make life very boring indeed, I agree.
one more question: I sometimes think some people get into threesomes when they are bored with each other . I know this was not the case for you and your g/f, but do you think that this may be a reason for some couples ? just wondering what you might think. | |
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lohki
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 3/31/2007 4:31:50 PM |
whatever happened to intimacy ? can you truly be intimate with your spouse if there are 3 people there in bed ?
I don't really think this is strictly about intimacy. This is about shaking the pants of your sex life. I view this as a tremendous fantasy... dunno if I would actually participate- gets me pretty hot thinking or talking about it.
The entire idea of having another person other than your committed partner would be the vision of them together- while you watch/participate
When I imagine the person I love kissing someone other than myself- while I watch- ((and I do)) is exciting and scary at the exact same time.
I think you can "share".. I also think a very solid, communicative kind of relationship is necessary to flourish under these kind of circumstances. Not for everyone. | |
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