| | MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?Page 7 of 12 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12) | | I couldn't believe how many other people are interested in this. And their views are a lot like my gf and I. It made me feel way better about it reading what other people had to say. Personally i agree that it does make the relationship stronger and holy crap is it hard to make that leap but i'm committed to making it happen for her and hope the best will come of it. We had a chance last night but i was all too hesitant... takes a lot of strength and will power to be comfortable doing that with your woman. But when it all boils down to it i want to make her sex life the best it can be. I want to rock her world even if that means bringing someone else into the bedroom. I've almost lost this relationship because of the lack of interest in the sex but now that were exploring we've grown even stronger with ourselves and in the relationship. And OMG is it fun checking people out together. Jealousy is always there but its something we work on slowly together. I love my woman and wouldn't have it any other way! | |
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Posted: 6/30/2008 8:23:39 PM | I think lots of guys (who are secure with their relationship) fantasize about this. It is a real test of trust to actually do it.
I fantasize about it ALL the time. When I was married, I would have loved to see her enjoy herself--knowing that she was coming home with me. That being said, I am divorced now, so the thought is kinda funny.
But if I was in a very secure relationship, and felt I could handle jealousy, then I would really get off on the idea--if she did, of course. | |
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 7/14/2008 5:55:25 PM | | My threesome took an unusual turn. My wife started it on-line and pulled all the details together; the hotel, bar, etc... she met him first and spent some time with him while I sat in the room. Finally they came up and we really started chatting nervously for a while until my wife started to get things started. It all started well enough but, at what point I don't recall, while I was 'taking my turn I felt a warm, unexpected but not un-welome surprise and just went with it. he ended up providing services to both of us! I am HOOKED! | |
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Posted: 10/31/2008 6:17:34 AM | Holay... is it warm in here?
My ex used to talk about watching me with another guy --- not necessarily f*cking but maybe giving him a bj or a hand job. I always thought, if you really love me why would you want to share me. But after reading through these posts I can see that there are a lot of like-minded people out there. But, really, would you not be worried that she would like it too much with the other guy? | |
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Posted: 10/31/2008 6:29:01 AM |
I read through your post and think you may have been looking to post on Penthouse forums.
LOL - ya think?
Nothing hotter than reading some married guy's graphic description of his being a cheating pig. Funny, his oh-so-hot story doesn't include his wheelchair, which is mentioned in his profile. Sounds kind of Walter Mitty-ish if you ask me. Lots of wishful thinking.
In either event, where's the puke icon when you need one? | |
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Posted: 10/31/2008 10:59:11 AM | Everything I would have said about this post has already been said in one form or fashion so I can't add too much more...but I will say this: My husband and I are very open about stuff like this and it DOES make our relationship stronger. We have not yet done a 3some together but that will change when I find that special girl/lady. We are going to try the FMF first and take it from there. I am glad to know that there are other couples out there like us that are secure enough to try this kind of thing.
Talk about keeping the flame lit in the bedroom..........WOWZER!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 10/31/2008 11:13:43 AM | | If my boyfriend or husband will share me sexually with other men to filled hisvoid soul I will think that he does not know what is right and what is wrong in a loving relationship between a man and woman. What makes a human being a person is his morals, and his /her curiosity on matters that is against the grain of humanities. That man who shared his wife with other men I don't think that when his daughter the apple of his eyes grow up to be a woman will want to repeat the history of him and his wife having sex with other people . | |
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Posted: 10/31/2008 12:00:36 PM |
I am glad to know that there are other couples out there like us that are secure enough to try this kind of thing.
There are also a lot of people who were once part of couples who thought they were secure enough to try this kind of thing... | |
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Posted: 10/31/2008 12:19:41 PM | I would never want to have a 3some.
I don't want to share and I don't want to be shared.
It seems a bit disgusting.
Just my opinion. To each their own. | |
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Posted: 10/31/2008 12:37:10 PM | WOW!
Almost 2 years later and this post comes back to life who would have thunk it :) It seems one person was wondering about what my wheelchair did during the experience...well it just sat next to the bed *shrug*. I'm not sure what they were looking for answer wise :)
I wrote this posting not for attention as in looking for it to happen again and no it hasn't. I was so fascinated and surprised at the time that it happened and wanted to hear the opinions of others preferably positive or at least constructive in some way and for the most part found that to be the case. I also think part of my fascination came from me being in a wheelchair and this experience showed that not only myself but others with disabilities are sexual beings and others do see that.
Was it too graphic of a post? Looking at it now I would say yes. Looking at it back then no.
Reading some of the responses now I will say I think it was worth posting.
Peace and out! | |
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Posted: 11/3/2008 8:44:21 PM | | I love the MFM experience. It tends to work best when she picks the other man. I just love to watch the expression on her face when she is being pleased! | |
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Jon!
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 11/4/2008 7:28:49 AM | | I did the mfm thing about four times. It was so hot! I'd love to do it again anyday. I'm totally not gay. But it's such a turn on. I'd love to meet another open female or a couple for this. I've done ffm and that was fun too. But there's nothing like fmm. I'd could go into detail about it, but i'd rather not. | |
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st9090
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| MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 1/24/2009 10:52:49 PM | | I think im a normal person not into much kink maybe the ocational porn during sex or some dirty talk, maybe after a night on the town, with my girl watching a little porn and having sex take it to the next step asking if she would do that or that on the screen, "after a few drinks" and to my surprise she was into doing a ffm and mmf threesome and i found setting up the mmf was way way way easier, i had a good friend that i really don't see much come out with us and later that night we pulled it off "i let him know before hand what she loves in bed" and we did that. we have done that several times and have even set up the mmf, we really have so much fun in whatever we do and are horny as hell for weeks after. we have been doing this for 3 years now all ways with the same 4 people and all ways safe including changing condoms between women, we don't seem to look at this in any way other than maybe they are sex toys or this is just hanging out with friends every few months. i say if you both are into it it may be nerve racking the first time or two but if she says ok and you are really ok what it go for it, be safe and it is only f**king sex she has done it so have you :) | |
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Posted: 1/25/2009 12:30:37 AM | | I've had 3 sums and 4 sums, but just me and all women. Im no homophobe or anything but a man being excited about me ****ing his wife with him-turns me off.I couldnt bang a broad knowing anothers dudes balls just was slappin up againt that.Im sry-call me selfish or whatever-but if a female wants to be dp'ed with me there.The only way its going down is if we buy a toy. It dont matter how big it is. I just know that i would have a hard time keeping an erection with another man participating. I can have sex with another couple in the room-just couldnt run a train on any broad. I know alot of guys that could and get excited about doing so but claim to be hetero--just weird in my book. Normal for a woman to want it-but a lil weird of guys like doing it-no offense to anyone | |
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Posted: 1/25/2009 12:39:34 AM | | Oh and i love porn-as much as sports, but when watching a couple go at it-i kinda block the guy outta the picture and imagine myself. LoL i thought all guys did this-i know i have since i started watching porn as a kid. I never really got off watching the dude put in work-i always invisioned myself | |
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Posted: 1/25/2009 12:45:51 AM | | My last post on this thread-lmao. I also never had 3 sums with men-because i know how nasty we can be.I also know condoms dont protect us from everything.I think about sex maybe 20-30 times a day, do i act on em-no. I see myself as a normal guy, how do i know if the guy im about to run a train with just dosent stick his****in anything. Females can be just as nasty but are a lil more cautious because of pregnancy-so theres limits to most women. ALot of the guys i know will stick their****in anything-and im sry i really just cant pipe nothing they just finished stroking-thats like sharing drawers or something. Again not knocking anyone that does it-but 4 me the thought of two sets of balls slappin against the kitty isnt arousing-seein two sets of boobs are. | |
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Posted: 1/25/2009 2:30:31 AM | Seriously, I get the whole MFM in a "couples" scenario, but when I hit CL Casual, and throw on my ad, I ALWAYS get COUPLES hitting me up to join, even when I say, "NO COUPLES!".
I don't get it (well, let's say my size 13's ain't the only big thing on me).
So, I dig why they would want ME, but the unequatable thing is why then don't understand why I do NOT WANT to do that. It seemed 90% of the ones that asked me to join, etc., were always wanting to use me as a plastic Gumby or Pokey action figure, and I guess in the psychological sense, I was simply filling a role in their "fantasy", but with the added pleasure of them trying to treat me like.............a plastic action figure.
In other words: I don't get married couples, and 3-somes. Now, FFM (all single) or MMF (all single) I know and enjoy (straight thank you). But to date, have NEVER taken an offer up of MFM married/attached couples.
Makes me wonder (but not really). | |
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Posted: 1/25/2009 2:44:06 AM | | not a good idea .....at all. When I am comited to a woman I sure as hell don't want another guy having sex with her nor do I want any other woman. Maybe I'm old fasioned...jeezzz! | |
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Posted: 4/7/2009 2:11:16 PM | That is exactly it..."SHARING". If it's an experince that both in the couple enjoy and he enjoys watching her with other men without jealousy...than go for it. Just make sure everyone one is on the same page, set rules or guidelines for what's ok and what's not ok, and everyone knows their limits...because there are always limits. TRUST and RESPECT are a MUST HAVE by all, including the other guy. Any "other guy's" reading this...know your place and respect EVERYONE all the time and you'll be invited back again!!!
Unfortunately society has secretly set limits on what is "normal" for a sexual relationship...MFM, Threesomes, and Moresomes have been around since mankind has kept a written record. Just never do something you'll regret later, you both have to enjoy the experience, and never never take one for the team. | |
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Posted: 4/7/2009 3:00:28 PM | | Just remember, sometimes when you lend something out, you don't always get it back... or there's something broken or missing... and it's not quite right anymore... | |
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Posted: 4/7/2009 4:01:12 PM | Let's be honest here, most people are too repressed or simply chicken sh*t to admit they would want a threesome let alone admit to having one.
I think it's a great idea. Only when both people are totally open and ok with it. It can kill a relationship but just like the subject of 'kinky' sex. It's only kinky if you're doing something you don't want to do. If you both like it, you both get something out of it and no one gets hurt? Why do you care what anyone else would think? | |
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Posted: 4/7/2009 4:27:27 PM |
I think it's a great idea. Only when both people are totally open and ok with it. It can kill a relationship but just like the subject of 'kinky' sex. It's only kinky if you're doing something you don't want to do. If you both like it, you both get something out of it and no one gets hurt? Why do you care what anyone else would think?
In one paragraph you state that it can "kill a relationship" and "no one gets hurt"...
Kind of contradictory....
The thing is that it's fine if you are ok with it... but what happens later on if it doesn't work out...? You can't un-fcuk someone...
What if say, one person decides it was a mistake you can't undo...
And what seems like a good idea may a few years laters be one of the biggest regrets in life...
I personally, wouldn't want to risk my relationship to bang some other person, and for much the same reason I wouldn't share my partner either...
Besides, as much as 'open-minded' people may say differently... for the most part, some guy banging your wife is laughing at you and her while he's doing it.... I know I sure as hell would be...
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Posted: 4/7/2009 4:32:51 PM |
Let's be honest here, most people are too repressed or simply chicken sh*t to admit they would want a threesome let alone admit to having one.
No...
Let's be honest, most people are not interested... it's just the few vocal ones who think this....
I've never been repressed, nor chicken shit.... but then I actually have a decent opinion of who I sleep with... I chose who to sleep with and who not to...
Usually, I chose because they were worth sleeping with and interesting to seduce, not because they were offered on a platter like a free buffet... If people want to share that's fine... Hell, they can do anything they like.... it's just not for me... and I'd have no respect for anyone who does this... | |
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