| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 4/1/2007 9:00:19 AM | When I stated that it had to do with submission, I was stating as such on a subconcious level. When someone is on their knees before you, it is an act of submission, however unconcious they may be of that act, the other's subconcious picks up on that and that person on the recieving end feels empowered.
Porno and fantasy aside, a person on their knees is in a submissive position, ie as in kneeling before ones GOD to pray, sublicating oneself before one's Diety.
And no, I am not saying that women that get on their knees to blow a guy feel he is god or that the guy thinks he is one.
Animals roll onto their backs as a submissive position, humans get on their knees.
A man lying on his back allowing a woman to straddle his penis or sit on his face is also an act of submission on the man's part, again, an unconcious act, but that act empowers the woman.
So long as both parties enjoy what is happening, who cares what the position is? | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 4/1/2007 8:08:54 PM | | Its evolutionary and pagan in its orgin. Oral sex on a guy is good ole fashioned c**k worship plain and simple. Its can not impregnate you and therefore is an auxillary means of copulation with the majority of pleasure going to the person with the c**k . And to swallow is the completion of the act of worship. The reason why guys like it is because it simulates for the male mind an illusion that is extremely pleasurable. What is the illusion?....you ask, the illusion of control. The actual reality of the fact is that the man is at his most vulnerable with his c**k in your mouth and far from in control. And to follow through, swallowing further hightens the illusion as it gives more mental details to the mirage of actually being in control however false those details are. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 4/1/2007 10:01:09 PM | | I have never swallowed nor allowed a man to finish in my mouth. I have had them beg. But never. It's nasty like boogers. I am also a feminist so that may be my problem. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 4/2/2007 6:43:51 AM | I can't stand during oral sex. If a woman is really good I get too weak in the knees. I'd rather be laying on the bed or have my back against the headboard so I can watch the proceedings.
When a woman swallows it's a completely different sensation than if I'm just coming into the air. At least that's what I find. For me though it doesn't matter if she wants to spit it out afterward,because it's just the sensation of coming in her mouth. For me it's not about submission. I'd rather feel that she is enjoying going down on me rather than have her feel she is being forced to do it. If she's into being submissive than I'll hold her head and move her the way I like it. I wouldn't normally do that,but some women enjoy it. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 4/6/2007 8:36:27 PM | | its more of a domanance thing it makes the guy feel good to see a woman get on her knees for him. and the swallowing thing for most is just a turn on (me). | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 4/30/2007 9:14:35 PM | Very true,,who cares about the position.
Its like pizza. We all have our favorite toppings, but asides from anchovies, ever have a 'bad' pizza? | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 4/30/2007 9:58:58 PM | unless you are VERY short, if your not on your knees or prone, your not bobbing.
How would you suggest this be done.. if i stood on a chair, i might fall off ! :)
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 5/24/2007 12:18:10 AM |
Think about it, who is actually in control in that scenario? The man who is receiving oral, or the woman giving oral? Is this not the time that you, as the woman, have absolute control over him? He'll do anything to continue, say anything as long as you don't stop. You even have control over when he orgasms.
Control is an illusion.
I couldn't have said it better myself. It goes back the strong woman behind every strong man. Well deep down we know who really has the power, so what if we want you on your knees at that moment to give us the Illusion of power. For you to swallow demonstrates complete submission to our illusion. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 5/24/2007 2:59:53 AM | | Men like to feel powerful and have their women be submissive. Those who prefer the kneeling. Some men like to be submissive themselves, maybe they like it a different way? | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 5/24/2007 7:47:57 AM | | Position isn't important. I don't care if she is on her knees or sitting next to me. Swallowing isn't important for me either. As long as she gives good head. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 5/24/2007 8:18:53 AM | | If the woman was any good at this, I'd have to take it lying down ...while, hopefully, she'd allow me to reciprocate simultaneously. Not into dominance-submission, but mutually agreeable exploration and taking turns letting each other know how to possibly improve the situation. Call it taking and giving some direction for both 'striking gold in the moment'. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 5/25/2007 3:40:09 AM | HI
I read an article in a doctors waiting area and the things you can catch from having any  in your mouth especially fromt the jet spray it was about 4 pages long the thought of living/swimming/sperm inside me makes me cringe. Anyway why are you doing all the work. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/29/2007 6:40:23 AM | I'm at work and pretend the sandwich you made.. is you.
I laugh as a juicy tomato dribbles down my chin..
I'm at the grocery.. and sample a sweet green grape..
and think of your sweetness..
As I drive home, I wonder.. when I'm away..
do you think of me..?
and I sometimes wonder.. what do I mean to you..?
and.. how someone like you picked me..
there is something.. noble.. about you..
That night.. you come over and slide onto the floor,
resting your head on my thigh.. I stroke your hair..
I tell you to get that dress.. and the goddam shoes
though I will *never* understand why those other ones..
oh.. never mind.. get the shoes too.
I can live without carbide routers for a couple months..
and I think they'll be on sale then anyway..
You look up at me with the strangest look..
Holding my eyes with yours, you move between my legs..
My robe is brushed aside, and you kneel before me..
You take me in your warm soft mouth
your eyes still holding mine..
Then you close them.. your arms encircling me..
and you hold me tightly, pushing..
as if trying to push all of me inside you..
At the climax, you hold me in your mouth..
Then finally open your eyes.. and we part.
You close your eyes again, tasting me.. then swallow.
You open your eyes again.. and say "Thank you.."
Puzzled, I ask.. "Thank *me* .. for what..??"
You shake your head and smile that soft smile of yours
"nothing.. just.. thank you.."
I sometimes wonder.. what do I mean to you..?
and.. how someone like you picked me.. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/29/2007 7:38:10 AM | Lots of good points here. I think most people like to alternate being in dominant and submissive positions. And more often than not, we don't think of it in these terms - it's just an urge to pleasure or be pleasured. The man standing over the kneeling woman is dominant position, but that does not mean the man is exploting the woman in any way. The man on his back with the woman over him is a submissive position for him. That doesn't mean he always wants to be submissive. It's a give and take.
Anyway, my point is this: I think we all like to dominate and we all like to submit, even if we don't consciously think in those terms.
Oh, and if you're offering to blow me, I'm not likely to quibble about position beyond saying, "D'you mind doing it this way?" Pressing the issue is a quick way to find yourself unblown. =) | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/29/2007 12:59:41 PM | Swallowing is the only way to go ! It feels the Best, it doesn't get cold when she takes it out of her mouth. It isn't submission for 99% of the guys out there it just feels the best!She doesn't have stop and her mouth feels alot better then a hand finishing you off. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/29/2007 1:09:40 PM | | I think its supposed to be a total power thing. The part that excites me is that he may think he has the power but in truth, he is totally vulnerable and I am in a much more influential position! | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/29/2007 10:10:14 PM | I think for me personally it is about submission. I like the idea of a woman kneeling before me sucking my ****. There is also the visual aesthetic, her looking up at you with big wide eyes. This is a common scenario in porn films, although I don't watch much porn simply because doing the real thing is far more enjoyable.
I agree with a previous poster who said that swallowing is a rejection/acceptance issue. While the woman may not perceive it this way, the guy can subconsciously see spitting as a sign of rejecting part of him; swallowing means accepting what is part of him. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/29/2007 10:57:28 PM | I just finished reading this thread and while I agree with the majority, just thought i'd add my two bits.
position
If I'm on my knees infront of a man it's because I've pinned him against the wall. My preference would be to have him prone, knees open and me between them. Him sitting changes the angle of his body enough that not all things are accessible should I feel like exploring.
submission/dominance
There is nothing submissive about a woman who is willingly on her knees in front of a man. The illusion of submission might be there, but we all know who has the power and control in that given moment. He is far from dominant, she is far from submissive. I personally love knowing that I have the power. I love making his body vibrate. I love turning big strong men into puddles of quivering goo. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/29/2007 11:04:22 PM |
Is it a submission issue? Just curious.
Bingo! prone or on knees is a submissive pose and the swallowing thing is also an act of submission. So, if you are feeling submissive to your man then go with it. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/29/2007 11:07:33 PM |
There is nothing submissive about a woman who is willingly on her knees in front of a man. The illusion of submission might be there, but we all know who has the power and control in that given moment. He is far from dominant, she is far from submissive.
This is a little known secret of D/s games. The submissive is the one who wields the power. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/30/2007 12:55:08 AM | No prone positions here. I only get that if someone surprises me, while I'm standing. On the phone springs to mind one memorable occassion. But I'm just happy to recieve it. And giving while recieving is total bliss. Where it goes? doesn't matter. Though swallowing is memorable as well. But I can understand if they let it slide out the side. Spitting however? Never had that as such. Seems like some kind of crude old medical procedure or something, like a snake bite...lol
Must say though, I think a lot of women feel some kind of power over a man when giving him head. I can't say I really understand this, but that's fine. But I will say, nothing makes me feel more like a king for 2 1/2 minutes then having my penis orally massaged by a beautiful lady's mouth.  | |
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