| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/30/2007 11:33:09 AM | When I was about... 17 or so I dated this wonderful young woman. She was a virgin. She was willing to do ANYTHING once we'd been together awhile.
One time I asked her why she always swallowed.
Her reply:
"It seems awfully rude NOT to swallow. You're sharing this gift with me, what else COULD I do?"
Needless to say, that girl spoiled it for all the girls who won't swallow.
I won't kick your ass to the curb, but I will be disappointed.
When a woman swallows it sends a few signals:
#1 She accepts me.
#2 She cares about pleasing me.
#3 She's "dirty" or "kinky" or some other word for fun in bed.
#4 I don't have to immediately run for a towel.
For all those women reading this that are completely grossed out by swallowing, here's an option to consider:
Instead of saying "Ewww.. NO WAY!", say something like, "You know, it really gets me hot when you shoot it on my _________." Replace _________ with breasts, face, back, butt, belly, etc.
That way, instead of feeling REJECTED and DISAPPOINTED, he'll be happy, because he'll believe he's doing something that turns YOU on. (Any man worth a damn DESPERATELY wants to do the things that turn YOU on.) | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/30/2007 11:54:34 AM | RMOA
This is a little known secret of D/s games. The submissive is the one who wields the power.
Not so unknown to those within the lifestyle. *wink* | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/30/2007 12:02:46 PM | thats disgusting questions like that shoul;d be kept in the bedroom what a filthy monster are you wanking of to the replies? | |
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Jemue
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Joined: 1/26/2005
Msg: 54 | |
| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/30/2007 12:21:48 PM | #1 Why does a guy always want a woman on her knees or prone in some way? #2 Whats with swallowing?
Power, view and sensation, as for swallowing it can be many many reasons.
This is a little known secret of D/s games. The submissive is the one who wields the power.
Though a well know misnomer when taken to the extreme. There is a diffrence between setting the ultimate limits and having all the power, if your doing that to abuse it then you are topping from the bottom and perverting it all. It's more about the actual submission of the power, not being passive aggressive for your own means which is a sick lack of respect. | |
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Kazot
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Joined: 12/7/2006
Msg: 56 | |
| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/30/2007 2:50:06 PM | 1) Lots of reasons, visual, it is comfortable, it is traditionaly a position of submission even if she is holding all the cards in her mouth so to speak.
2) Again lots of reasons. It feels good, it is an act of acceptance, no wet cold spot and it keeps my c@ck from getting cold.
ATM for the win!  | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/30/2007 3:09:07 PM | personally I don't care if she swallows - I encourage the girl to spit it wherever. However, if she keeps sucking while I cum oh man that's twice the orgasm for me. If she does that she can spit it on me if she wants I don't care cuz I'm in heaven.  | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/30/2007 3:28:33 PM | | Cliffhanger says "just swallow it...it wont kill you." Youre right, but obviously you've never had the sensation of hot, sour, egg yolk consistency SPERM wriggling around in your mouth. Swallowing it feels like swallowing a goldfish. Nasty. LOL but I do it anyway. Whatever... | |
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pink66
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Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 59 | |
| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/30/2007 4:30:07 PM | | Well, have you ever tasted it??? Tastes like crap.........would you eat crap?? Guys who have been snipped ....well thats different, its not so bad.....but guys who havent.......think Pepto bismol x 10....... | |
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Kazot
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Joined: 12/7/2006
Msg: 60 | |
| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/30/2007 4:45:06 PM |
Well, have you ever tasted it???
I have kissed her and went down on her after so Yea, I would say I pretty much have.
It is all mind over matter. If you don't mind, it don't matter.
would you eat crap??
Did you know that one of the most expensive most sought after coffee comes from coffee beans that had been digested and crapped out?
I guess it is all a matter of where the crap comes from?
Ever try anallingus?
ATM for the win! | |
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pink66
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Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 61 | |
| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/30/2007 5:31:16 PM | | Well I never expected a nice well brought up boy from Dumbarton to come out with that...(if you pardon the pun lol). Bellsmyre!! | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 6/30/2007 10:51:54 PM | no_1_bby wrote :
>> This is a little known secret of D/s games. The submissive is the one who wields the power.
> Not so unknown to those within the lifestyle. *wink*
Oh..??
Oh.. topping from below.. well, if you can get away with, and if it's really what you crave.. :-) | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 7/1/2007 12:25:05 AM |
Well, have you ever tasted it??? Tastes like crap.........
Are you kidding me?
C'mon now, it's already in your mouth, just swallow it and get over with it.
To walk t the bathroom to spit it out takes longer,lol.
You made him cum, enjoy your work | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 7/1/2007 8:37:52 AM | i'd love to meet someone who loves to give head ;)
anyway, the position has nothing to do with it... trust me, its like all the sensation is focused on one point in your body and totally amazing...
i think re spitting and swallowing, for men its probably the practical reason of it being a bit cleaner and if you're into it then so much for the better. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 7/1/2007 10:29:59 AM |
Well, have you ever tasted it???
Yes. I've tasted my own. It tastes just about the way women taste. Except, with women, you get that taste *THE ENTIRE TIME* not just all concentrated at the end.
Get over it? | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 7/18/2007 4:43:57 AM |
crooked clown wrote:
thats disgusting questions like that shoul;d be kept in the bedroom what a filthy monster are you wanking of to the replies?
I agree. I came here to get away from the "adult" dating sites, which offer no real dating at all, only sex. No one even wants to meet and say "hello" before jumping in the sack. Can't we, as mature adults, refrain from constantly referring to sex, making lewd remarks and asking redundant questions, and instead make aquaintances, build them into friendships and get to know each other in other ways besides what our favorite sexual positions are? Who could build a relationship on merely that? Sex is a wonderful thing, don't get me wrong - but why not leave something to the imagination and something to much look forward to? That's just my opinion... | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 7/18/2007 1:07:26 PM |
I have never swallowed nor allowed a man to finish in my mouth. I have had them beg. But never. It's nasty like boogers. I am also a feminist so that may be my problem.
Oh, is that what that movement was all about? Here's me thinking it was about women wanting to vote and drink in the public bar. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 7/18/2007 1:27:12 PM | | Unless I'm mistaken, isn't the "submissive" the one in power? Sure seems like it to me. I think if you ask a woman who loves that she would instantly agree that it feels wonderful to wield that power. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 7/22/2007 7:15:45 PM | | well as for me i do like the doggie style the best, but when it comes to sex i am there for her as long as she is completely satified then i am happy to serve her, not really into sex for me. but do know what women on here have had sex and the guys gets done and she is left there hanging most all women has felt like that that is why some women perfer 2 guys so she can still keep going after the first guy is done. now as for her swollowing, never got a chance to have that pleasure because i have never had a woman to either do it right or do it fast enough to keep me hard and if she is slow or not doing it right i just lose the stiftness. so that is my feeling on the whole thing but really it is her choice if she does then fine if not then that is ok as well. thanks, Johnny | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 7/22/2007 11:55:26 PM |
I came here to get away from the "adult" dating sites, which offer no real dating at all, only sex. No one even wants to meet and say "hello" before jumping in the sack. Can't we, as mature adults, refrain from constantly referring to sex, making lewd remarks and asking redundant questions, and instead make aquaintances, build them into friendships and get to know each other in other ways besides what our favorite sexual positions are?
If you don't like the thread honey, don't read it...Easy!!!! | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 7/23/2007 8:46:39 AM | Try doing a sideways 69 on a bed. That's give and take right there. You'll notice after awhile that you'll be rhythmic with eachother.
As for the knees thing? I have no idea...I've never had my gf's do it. I think it's a lil disrespectful and uncomfortable. Some kind of power play. That or he just figures how you do it in porn is how it's REALLY supposed to be done.
For swallowing, I don't ask them to, if they go ahead I won't complain. Really depends on how things are going. I'd prefer it, but it's their body. | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 7/6/2008 8:00:40 AM | | just want you in the best position for us to watch you, swallowing is not that big of a deal...makes a great skin moisturizer | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 7/6/2008 9:03:22 AM | | It doesn't matter to me what position she's in while she's doing it, but the whole swollowing thing, to me, is a matter of acceptence. It's as if she's saying 'I like all of you' without saying a word... | |
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| What's with position and swallowing?
Posted: 7/6/2008 10:15:56 AM | I've never heard it described like swallowing a goldfish before. Interesting how there are many men who enjoy the taste of a woman's fluids, but I've never heard a woman say they enjoy the taste of a man's. It's more that a woman will swallow to please the man. I guess it makes sense from an evolutionary point of view because a woman going down on a man until he orgasms and swallows it does not make more babies, but a man exciting a woman til she orgasms and then finishes off with intercourse can still make more babies. Anyway, for men who think women love the taste - imagine someone has a really bad cold and then their body starts to get over it and starts producing that really thick, bright green snot (which is just dead bacteria that your immune system has killed). Then imagine putting your mouth on the person's nose, and sucking up all that salty, warm, sticky, slimy snot into your mouth and swallowing. That's pretty much it. Oh, except that it comes out the same hole that you urinate out of.  | |
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