| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 4/2/2007 2:08:20 PM | | Oh yeah! I think I saw that show, wasn't the hosts name Alan Funk. It was a great show and very scientific. Come to think of it, maybe you should try bulk up down there and see if more girls pay attention. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/2/2008 12:28:00 PM |
Women offline are not attracted to you because you wonder why women offline are not attracted to you. Sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy.
No, I wonder why women aren't attracted to me BECAUSE of women not being attracted to me. I never used to wonder many years ago when I was much younger, yet girls still weren't interested in me. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/2/2008 12:38:56 PM | Ummmm Lost PassWord (aka fupped up) Msg #31 ,,,,the OP said LOOKED at the males crotch,,,,,,,,,,not STOOP over,,,,,,,, | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/3/2008 1:52:52 PM | MSG # 52.
Attraction has many components. I like men who are of average height with a full head of hair and are somewhat stocky. A mans package is not on the list. That is the visual. I am attracted to intelligence, humor, kindness, self awareness, spirituality and self confidence. Those are his qualities. I love someone who dances, is romantic, likes to garden , reads, loves music, live theater and works out for his health. Those are his activities. Other women are attracted to other visuals, qualities and activities. Having said all that I have dated men who do not dance, hate gardening and are bald with a paunch. For me who you are and how you conduct yourself is more important than anything else. The "package" is the least of my interests because that part of a man's anatomy will only be interesting to me when and if I am in love with him. Then I would only be interested if I wanted a long term relationship with him and even then only two or three times a week.
I do not know why women are not attracted to you but I suspect that focusing on wondering about it does not bring them running to you. I agree with lots of the people who have already responded to you ( especially Ron 9) Self confidence is not just holding your head up when you are walking down the street. It means believing in who you are and what you have to offer the world. Not just women. Self confidence comes from doing it and doing it and doing it- and I do not mean sex. My suggestion is you go out and do some personal growth work or see a therapist to help you discover yourself. There is nothing more attractive than a man who knows, accepts and loves himself. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:06:28 PM | First of all what studies? show the url so we know what you are talking about.
I think just the fact that you are asking this ignorant question shows the real problem why women aren't into you. You need to read more than maxim and playboy. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:12:25 PM | Aw, OP. I only look there if we have reached that level in a relationship...that's not something I do to every man I find attractive.
You're not a bad looking guy, which suggests that it's more your presence or approach. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:38:32 PM |
You know, there's been studies. When a woman finds a man attractive she looks at his crotch.
Studies have also shown that when a woman finds a man unattractive, she looks at his crotch, because she can't bear to look at his face. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/3/2008 6:02:35 PM | Are we to believe that there is some scientist out there with an enormous package getting paid to do studies of how women love to look at his enormous package? T.V programmes on science often follow in the footsteps of more academic stuff, so by the time the programme got onto your widescreen I'd bet someone will have already released a study that found the exact opposite. For every expert there is an equal and opposite expert willing to contradict them, and that goes double when it comes to studies of human behaviour.
I suppose the truth is that women have miryad ways of showing that they are attracted to someone, trying to catch them all will require your full attention and a way bigger window of oppertunity than you get when walking past them on the street. Such is the nature of, er... human nature.
However in my experience the only time a woman stares into my lap is when she's about to throw up into it. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/3/2008 7:14:06 PM | | Studies are frikin stupid...When they do studies, its of 100 people usually..thats it...Its like the Movie reviews....They may give a movie 2 thumbs up, but it doesnt do crap at the theaters..and the ones they give 2 thumbs down to, it destroys box office records..Just dont pay attention to them | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/4/2008 5:46:40 AM | Why do people go around believing studies, there are just people playing with numbers and a good at it.
Hell I could do a study that says 100% of women asked said I am the most eligible bloke on the planet, all I have to do is ask me mum and she would say yes, 100% thumbs up and not tell any body who I asked.
Point is a number of these "studies " are done to sell papers, and little tit bit for those that buy lads mags that can be bothered to keep reading skills up to date.
Glad to see your asking some real people, and getting answers from those in the know i.e. women themselves
By the way not all women are crotch watchers, some like a nice arse, going by some chats at various meets, half the women you walked past could have turned around a stared at your arse , but because you were so busy watching the ones coming towards you, you missed the interest coming from behind. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/5/2008 8:48:08 AM | I would be more inclined to look at his crotch if he was unattractive...just to clarify if he had anything going in his favour
  .....I guess your right...There might be a party in his pants and he may want you to "come" over | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/5/2008 8:54:56 AM | I always knew it was impossible for a woman offline to be interested in me.
Well, besides the fact that you are disappointed because women's eyes aren't going straight for your d!ck (I think you've been watching too much porn)...
I think your MAIN problem is attitude. You're already beat. You've already resigned yourself to not having someone. 99% of finding someone is about attitude and self-image. Confidence without being arrogant.
Here's an example about confidence that doesn't have anything to do with dating, but I think I should mention this anyway: With the last girl I was with, her self-image was very low, and she would CONSTANTLY put herself down. She spilled some water in her car once, and reacted with "I am SO f*cking stupid". That absolutely aggravated me to death, and that was so unattractive. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:29:03 AM | Who told you this nonsense? Are you demented? It's obvious to me that you know nothing about women.
A man is very likely to admire a woman's physical attributes while a woman will pay very close attention to the features of a man's face, his general appearance especially his clothes and how he wears them, and details like do his shoes have a shine. There are numerous other things like how he smells (BO is bad but a nice cologne is good), his finger nails (clipped?), his breath, teeth (does he have any), and so on.
I think your post betrays a terrible attitude towards women totally devoid of respect.
BTW, using your theory about what women like, you should post a picture of your genitals rather than your face (or did you already do that?).
The Eagle | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:38:30 AM | "Ok Ross ...... old buddy.
I am about to give you step by step instructions on how to get over that bullchit “women are just not attracted to me” crappola
Step 1. Think you are attractive - and have things to offer
Step 2. Forget step one > KNOW YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE - and have cool azz things to offer
Before anyone else can become convinced - YOU have to become convinced.
Did you smile at any of those gals you saw today? - or did you walk around dragging your self-esteem along the ground by a little string tied to your belt loop?"...............................
Hey Ron9????? you are absolutely right!
Listen buddy, woman are attracted to a man who is confident, SERIOUSLY!!!! Confidence is SEXY... Pouty, "poor me" types make me want to run , and FAST.......Go to he gym! try to get yourself confidence up! SMILE and say hello to women...."think positive"!!!! It will make you FEEL possitive and you will see the difference! GOOD LUCK!   | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:51:06 AM | Ross, women will say lots of things on boards that simply aren't so...the same as men. Needless to say, the majority of women don't look at men's crotches. They're usually too busy looking at their eyes or their bootie. ;) hehe No, seriously, most women would be too embarrassed to look at a man's genitals until they're in the bedroom, or have been seeing them for awhile. A few might do that, but most, who do...won't do it in a way that the man would notice it. Most would die if they got caught at it, that's for sure!
Women aren't men (although some act like they are). Men have a sexual thought just about every six seconds, according to physical studies done on the brain. Women, on the other hand, well...let's just say that women don't have that affliction. 
Of course, if you woo women with affection, smiles and romance...many more might be looking at your package. ;)  | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:52:16 AM | aren't thier studies that dispute that study?
LOL
naw..if a women is interested in you...she will look in your FACE
emoutions are way more important that crotches to women
the crotch emoution..is kinda ...narrow minded ! | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/5/2008 11:03:26 AM | Y'all should leave OPie to his hobby. He's very happy being the ugly duckling; it's a goldmine of attention for him. And so easy! All he has to do is push off every sensible thing anyone says in their innocent attempts to help him out. Then they push back, and etc., and he's got himself a relationship!
It isn't much, compared to what the rest of us would consider a relationship, but it is exactly what he wants. More to the point, it is all he wants. Every one of these mopey, poor-me threads he starts is about the same thing: Girls are not chasing him down the street, and it isn't worth the effort to make an effort.
So be it! The mommy he wants to come and take care of him isn't dropping from the sky to love his shiftless, sorry ass unconditionally, and he's not about to do the ordinary things that make anyone appealing. That would be taking responsibility for his own life, and he won't take responsibility. He likes posing as helpless and abused in here while he sits lumpish in meatspace, begrudging all those happy people the happiness they took it on themselves to go and find.
Studies have shown that those who do nothing, get nothing. Or, as I'm sure he has already heard, "Nothing ventured, nothing gained." He knows he's doing this to himself - he's choosing it. Why he prefers our exasperation with him to even an ordinary life, I don't know. Or care. It is his choice, after all. Fvck him.
Cheeese!
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/5/2008 11:05:29 AM | | All it takes is confidence...Women can smell if a man is confident or not a mile away...Its like thier 6th sence......My buddy Tommy once said to me..."Nino, you know that Im not gay, but seriously, you are just an average looking guy, yet women flock to you. Its your damn confidence and its annoying me so stop!!"..And we both laughed, but its the honest truth. Have confidence in yourself. Women will notice it. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/5/2008 10:38:43 PM | oh maaaaaaaaaaan this has had me rolled up
wtf??? i would NEVER look at mans package when out and about ! christ almighty its hard enough making eye contact these days when we are all so rushed!
and anyway if you were walking around looking at women to see if they viewed your crotch i think you may have come accross as looking a bit like a weirdo! (did you put socks down your jocks too?)
seriously mate you are an attractive young man and like alot of others have said need to pick up your self esteme and SMILE ... give a lovely smile and you will almost certainly get one back! even unattractive guys that have smiled at me and looked me in the eye have got me blushing and sent me home feeling on top of the world! | |
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