| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/5/2008 11:28:37 PM | Self Esteem.
Girls check out guys that know they are good looking, and have a good bit of self esteem. Same thing goes for guys. Honestly, the sexes arent that different. If it holds true to a guy, there is something equal to it for a girl.
And for the record, I didn't check out my currents or my exs crotch until after we slept together. LOL | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/8/2008 1:10:49 PM | | Hahahahahha thats the craziest thing i ever heard - i dont know any girl that stares at a mans package first. i always look at a man's face (unless hes in a speedo!..grosss).but yeah,...a man's penis is just...something required for every male according 2 God...but not something observed off the bat by us women..Lol | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/8/2008 1:14:03 PM | | Well...I think if you're walking around thinking 'bahhh nobody likes me!' you're gonna be walking around, head down, shoudlers slumped, trying to take up as little space as possible. This will not attract looks. If you walk head up, shoulders back, chest puffed, big ass goofy grin on your face, and feeling 'im the %^$in' man!!!!' then you'll get some looks. Go try it, just go walk in a mall or somewhere and even if you don't feel confident, look confident. See what happens. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/8/2008 2:54:12 PM | WTF..."Great another study conducted by Dr.Seuss"...
To the OP, "Confidence in ones self"...I would not worry about the stupid crotch thing...
If your a wallowing wimp and your confidence is lacking , "Woman are going to pay any attention to ya"...
Where in the fu## did you research your crotch study?...You need a life...Good luck | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/10/2008 3:29:21 AM | | Is'nt true i look all the time at a mans crotch why u ask i do not know just do, and i have all of my life,any way u are nice looking to me and others do not sell urself short,love urself and others will follow. | |
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| I wonder why women offline JUST AREN'T ATTRACTED??
Posted: 7/10/2008 9:48:55 PM | The reason women off line aren't attracted to you is because maybe you are online TOO MUCH!!! Get out and DO something . Go to the zoo, Walk around the library! here's an idea, walk into a mechanics shop thats preferrably busy, everyone in there is without a car. they happen to be waiting for their own to be fixed, sit down glance thru a magazine and scope the female situation. I can almost guaranee if you strike up a conversation with one of the young ladies she'd love to get the hell outta there for a while and grab a cofee or a bite to eat.  think outside the box and don't spend so much time wishin you were in it! | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/13/2008 8:12:30 AM | That reminds me of Stewie "oh nothing, just my package - God sent it, I signed for it, the world just keeps on turning'. 
I'll let you in on a little secret: while women may in fact look at a man's crotch, they're probably a little more discrete about it than you think.....at least I am.  | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/13/2008 8:02:41 PM | Now, OP, let's put this in perspective:
You BELIEVE a study that says women look at a guy's crotch when they are interested in him.
You walked down the street staring at women trying to see if they looked at your wang.
None of them looked at your skinflute, therefore you conclude that women don't find you attractive in real life.
Don't believe everything you read/hear, ESPECIALLY if it's on the internet. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/14/2008 9:58:01 PM | I have a different problem. Offline, women and me... piece of cake. For some reason offline i at the very least quickly gain their interest without even saying a word. I also have a certain charm, or so do my ex-gf's or female friends say. I myself don't know exactly what it is. Anyway, Online it's the complete opposite. I can't seem to get the time of day from these women. I'm only looking online, because there's more to choose from the type i look for, without having to go through the trials and errors. Not that there aren't any trials and errors online, but it does narrow it down a bit. I don't think i can do the online thing anymore. Someone told me not to give up, but my confidence is taking a huge beating. Any help from the ladies or guys that have success here, would be appreciated.  | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/19/2008 8:15:11 AM | I agree with racer. Confidence and how you carry yourself are the most important.
I have never looked at a mans crotch when I first met him. Thats just oogy.
Women may check out the head to toe package, but not one thing in particular. I personally look at their eyes, and then if they have enough brains in their head to keep me interested.
That is saying all women are shallow and only want a man with a big c_ck. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/19/2008 8:32:35 AM |  , I am not applauding, I raising my hands out of guilt. If I am attracted to a lady I will check her ass out right away, just won't be obvious about it.
To the OP. You are ugly. Do you want to know why. Not because I think so or any lady thinks so. It is simply because you think you are. Now I am here to help you, because I felt the same way about 3 months ago and didn't think I was all that great of a person no matter how many people told me different. What I did was on my calendar at work I have the message "you are a great person", and I have done some reading "Happiness Now" by Robert Holden, and 3 months later I am a different person. If a lady doesn't reply to an email or an instant message, or look at me at the grocery store, there are many different reasons for them not replying or looking at me. I bet their reason has nothing to do with me and in your case, nothing to do with you.
Keep that head up, tell yourself over and over you are a great person and that if somebody doesn't like you, it is their loss not yours. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/19/2008 8:55:43 AM | Too funny!
Did the studies also show that you will never catch them looking?
I for the life of me, don't know how they do it! Totally covert!
Since you're into experimentation, as I am, try walking around
with a large cucumber in your pants, preferably sticking forward,
and see if the response is any different! | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/19/2008 9:03:23 AM | | dear ross listen i dont think that they are all there because if i was to have seen you in public you would have plenty of remarks the ineer being is wat is sexy nice so on so forth the outside is just a shell to the real person ok i go through it all the time because i am a big boned person | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/19/2008 9:17:28 AM | Are you kidding? Maybe you wish we were all looking at your crotch. NO, you are right we dont' look at the crotch to get a thrill or see if we are interested. News flash. If we did that we could all be in for a surprise. Glancing down and you crotch as you walk by is not really what happens later. (smile) That could be very deceiving.
If you are sure they are not interested they will not be interested.
Laws of Attraction. Feel good, look good or your best you. If you project negativity that is what you will get back for sure. This is work. | |
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| I wonder why women offline just aren't attracted to me?
Posted: 7/19/2008 2:26:05 PM | You are cute, but look sad. That might be it.
Do you have a hard time smiling? I know that when a man initiates a conversation with me without a single smile, I can't help feeling vaguely threatened. | |
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