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 Rettam
Joined: 1/30/2005
Msg: 26
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lmao!!!!!
 Miss Thang
Joined: 4/20/2005
Msg: 27
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/22/2005 4:59:49 PM
I really does work..givin' away trade secrets shame shame
most women just can't maintain it long enuff they cave and call
 Rettam
Joined: 1/30/2005
Msg: 28
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Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/22/2005 5:03:37 PM
hehe -really? - you look like you can afford to wait till the guy breaks first

I know I'd be callng by now
 Demander Vanheart
Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 29
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/22/2005 5:05:20 PM
C'mon Miss Thang, you KNOW that the guy always caves in first. Wait a minute.., is this a game?
 Rettam
Joined: 1/30/2005
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Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/22/2005 6:13:07 PM
Yeppers... lets see how many other guys cave
 Hoshijiro
Joined: 4/2/2005
Msg: 31
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 2:29:36 AM
But really, we're talking about two ways of ignoring people here. Sometimes women would ignore men because they have no interest, and sometimes because they're playing hard to get while at the same time trying to look as hot as possible. Sometimes they do that because they're interested, sometimes they just want to f*ck with your head (the two are not exclusive).
 Vandelai
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 32
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 5:25:32 AM
Everytime I was ignored by a woman I took it at face value...and stopped pursuit, because, believe it or not, I was "asked to leave" by a store manager for flirting with a woman
 arets
Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 33
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 11:23:33 AM
For me, no. If someone thinks that hiding what they're thinking, or that another beer can possibly coerce them into something that they aren't already thinking, i'm outta there. Especially at a bar that we have here, the Palomino Club. It's usually about 2 women to every guy. If you're a woman and can afford to be extraneously picky at the Pal, I don't know what you're doing there in the first place. Seriously, i'm not usually the one doing the picking, but there, it's definetely the guys doing the picking, which is weird, 'cause that's not usually the case.

All hail the Pal!
 flames06
Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 34
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 1:21:40 PM
I think it's childish if you like a guy whatever you do don't ignore him. Thats stupid.

At a certain age ( and we all have our limits,)guys will stop playing the game of cat and mouse.
In the end if you like a guy, step up. Don't bs. If a girl i was interested in ignored me I would move on.Because as this website can testify there are plenty of fish out there.
 DamnGoodWoman
Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 35
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 1:30:52 PM
well don't hyperfocus on him... and dont ignore him,...
 mr.classicchevy
Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 36
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 1:37:49 PM
I do not cave in.If a woman wants to play games.Well i am not into that..i dealt with that all in my 20s.It gave me a nervous breakdown and lost my pride.I am 39 now and will never travel that road again. I rather be alone on the sidelines than play the head games.At least i have my pride.
 jimi77
Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 37
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 1:40:43 PM
If a woman ignores me I would take it that she is not interested and look else where.

I have had women do this and come back after a long time and say I use to have such a crush on you.. I was like.. Why didn’t you say anything? I thought you were cute but not interested in me.
 salamander000
Joined: 10/26/2004
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Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 1:42:20 PM
are we at question 21 yet?
 hotbush
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 39
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 1:43:44 PM
I have no idea salamander!!!!
Wonder who's winning the game?


Don't know if ignoring works, but am willing to find out! lmao
 Vandelai
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 40
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Posted: 4/23/2005 1:45:54 PM
Actually, this "game" thing women pull by "Ignoring" a man to get his attention, is actually basically she gets off on the "Control" she has over a man basically. She loves it, the games....everything.
She holds the cards, and by dangling the carrot in front of him, is just part of the control she is attempting to make over a man.
 taurus516
Joined: 11/3/2004
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Posted: 4/23/2005 1:47:33 PM
r is that the best way to insure that he NEVER pays any attention to you?

Well I don't about other guys but it's the best way to make sure you never hear from me again.Women are always saying,"Learn to take hints".OK hint taken.
 Frrosty
Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 42
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 1:47:40 PM
get his attention, sure.

Positive attention?

I highly doubt this.

will I chase? (sort of maybe as a secondary or tertiary thingb tom chase, but you've dropped on my "list" of prospects, so to speak)

If I DO end up bein with you at all; I will remember how you have treated me, and maybe, not worry so much about bein a lil rude to you.

*shrugs*
 hotbush
Joined: 12/28/2004
Msg: 43
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 1:55:55 PM
it only works on the ones you don't want to hear from again....
sad but true.
if I ignore you it is indeed time for you to move on.....
 mr.classicchevy
Joined: 2/27/2005
Msg: 44
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 2:38:30 PM
^^^ thanks for being straight up.
 b0unc3
Joined: 2/13/2005
Msg: 45
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 2:56:50 PM
There are soo many people in this world, that I don't know who to pity more; the people who ignore someone and expect them to react or the people who actually do.
 lonertx63
Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 46
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 3:46:48 PM
I never chased any woman. I didn't play those games. Ignoring me made me completely forget you within a minute.
 Rocky444
Joined: 3/29/2005
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Posted: 4/23/2005 3:52:42 PM
No, Its just a head game on your part and the relationship won't last
 Vandelai
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 48
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 4:21:42 PM
"When I ignore him then suddenly he is around all the time. When he gets too much attention from me..then bam he disapears..lol..."

Just do the same thing at work, as you do in that photo...and you'll have his attention
 Vandelai
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 49
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/23/2005 4:35:41 PM
"lol yeah wont have my job...but hey..."

Well, you could always be a topless dancer if that doesn't work out for ya.
 Pamness
Joined: 4/10/2004
Msg: 50
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 4/24/2005 10:06:59 PM
HELL NO!!! Only works with weird guys !! lol
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