| What is the big deal about sex? Is there any people out there that have the take or leave it...
Posted: 4/19/2007 5:43:45 AM | | This is all part of finding the right man for you. I have met many females that have a very high sex drive and some that could take it or leave it such has yourself. I also have guy friends with the same range of attitudes and views on sex. When you find the right person a very important part of that is the level of intamcy and sex you both desire/need/want... | |
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| What is the big deal about sex? Is there any people out there that have the take or leave it...
Posted: 5/31/2007 8:32:40 AM | my sex during my married life was almost nonexistent so when we fist divorced, i went sort of nuts. I'm still living down some of the fallout of that wonderful couple of months. but after a while i realized that while a lot of fun while doing it, sex isn't really a goal. in the last 8 months, i've had sex once and that was fairly recent. i'm not saying that if the situation comes up, i'm going to say no. if i hit it off with a girl and she invites me over to her place, i'll be hoping i'm wearing clean socks. but it's not a big deal... my normal night out involves drinking, hanging out with friends, playing darts, flirting shamelessly, and going home alone. i'd rather have a relationship with someone i click with then lots of meaningless sex with girls whose names i don't remember. though if the first option isn't there, the second isn't THAT bad of an alternative | |
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| What is the big deal about sex? Is there any people out there that have the take or leave it...
Posted: 5/31/2007 12:35:18 PM | It's just a matter of degrees of appetite for a lot of people, just like their capacity for both giving and receiving love.
Now so saying, to me sex is one of many ways to express your feelings, your love and caring, your desire for that person (and damn fun besides). I know, it's an old fashioned/corny viewpoint but there it is. However, while yes I think it's important to have in a healthy relationship, the amount isn't nearly as important as the quality and depth (both on the hot meter and otherwise). If someone can't accept you in ALL ways, they shouldn't be there, nor should you with them.
-C. | |
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