| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 7:06:38 AM | Those are my only moments of weakness.
I have committed myself to NC (no contact) with my ex boyfriend. But when I think of cuddling and spooning... *sigh* Then I have to force myself not to pickup the phone and beg him to sleep over. Just for a hug. I haven't called yet. But last night was a tough moment.
And then I think back to the last couple of bf's and decide, no, I could never call them up just for a hug. They would think it was a booty call. And I have no interest in opening up past relationships.
So then I am left with my poor cat. And cats will only take so much mauling. And they certainly don't quite fit against my 5' 10 frame. *sigh* After a while, with much disgust, my cat extricates herself from my clutches, and takes a flying leap off the bed. Away from the madwoman who just wants a hug. Gawd, I miss it! | |
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 7:14:12 AM | Forgot to mention. I used to be a real Cuddler.
I was a "volunteer baby cuddler" all through my late highschool and university years. I worked at a hospital with premature babies, or babies whose parents lived too far away to come every day. All I had to do was hold and cuddle and talk to babies.
That certainly gave me an "affection fix" when I was lonely. *laugh* | |
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 7:55:11 AM | Dragons love cuddlin, and has had far too little of it of late... Volunteers are always welcome
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 7:58:46 AM | I am a big cuddler, and I miss it so much!! Well I have my 8 year old daughter who loves to snuggle, but for as much as I love her, it's just not the same as having a mans arms around me cuddling!! (I completely miss it!) | |
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 8:01:25 AM | I am from the volunteer state... Applications open?
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 8:04:25 AM | I'm moving out of the way, cuz I know I'm gonna get trampled by all the females, as they rush to cuddle a dragon
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 8:24:30 AM | Yeah right... now if that were only true... I wouldn't even be sitting here reading this...
Join in the rush... you might be the only one hon...
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 9:28:46 AM | Cuddling
Cuddling is part of any relationship and it shows true emotions/feelings for one another as well. Just relaxing on the couch watching a program/movie and able to cuddle is natural for a couple who are in love. Even sitting beside your mate and putting your fingers through her/his hair is so intimate and natural. Even having your legs over one another is like togetherness and a warm feeling. It shows your feelings/emotions toward each other and able to express them without saying a word.
For those who say get away or I’m not in the mode is like a slap in the face or wake up call saying they are not really into you like you are to them.
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 9:50:59 AM | @ Rebecca101 ...
Being a baby cuddler would probably do it for me too. When my youngest was in the NICU, I used to stay at the hospital from 6am until at least 11pm. I was there for every feeding during that time, and I'd call during the night to see how her feedings went. I'm sure there's one nurse who will never forget the way I flew off the handle when she told me to put my baby back in her cot as soon as she was done her bottle. She had spent some time in an incubator, and had been tube fed, so when she was able to sleep in a cot, and I was able to cuddle her with less tubes in the way, that's all I wanted to do. I told the nurse that if she would just look at the charts she would see that my baby was progressing better than any other baby in there, and that I was the only parent who spent that much time in the NICU and holding my baby. Nobody ever told me to put my baby down again.
mmmmmm .... cuddles ... I could cuddle my children all day and cuddle a man all night ... can get enough cuddling.
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 10:58:03 AM | Finally,a thread I can cuddle too,so many negative threads in here,sure is nice to get away and come here and cuddle!!!
O.K.,it's not the same as cuddle to a real person,but for now,it's all I got!!!  | |
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 11:29:52 AM | | oops... that was supposed to say can't get enough lol | |
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 12:06:50 PM | | love cuddling. A chair and a blanket can sometimes to the trick. | |
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 12:46:32 PM | i absolutley LOVE to cuddle.. its one of the best feelings in the world snuggling up in a pair of nice strong arms while watching a movie or falling asleep.. it also allows me to feel protected ;)
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RitzNB
| Joined: 3/16/2005 Msg: 89 | |
| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 12:54:04 PM | | I miss it like crazy. I love to cuddle. It's one of life's free pleasures. | |
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 1:42:27 PM | Dragon Rider....
can't be there so here ya go honey!!!
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 1:48:31 PM | Thanks miss Bush... not exactly what I had in mind... but it always helps...
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 1:53:42 PM | I know darlin'
hang in there and all will be well
want a laugh go to the profile cleansing thread.........
odd there, very odd
embrace the cyber-cuddle sweetie... it's the best I can do | |
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 1:57:42 PM | | To many girls are cuddeling phenes though.... they will cuddle anyone just to pretend they are getting affection from someone who cares, well at least girls I know.... haha of males who go sleep around with the sluts then just want to cuddle the girls they have as friends to make up for the emptyness.. thats actualy kinda cute | |
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 1:59:22 PM | | I love a good cuddle too. Especially after you know. Even talking during and after. Does anyone ever do that? | |
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 2:01:04 PM | Um been there... I am there...
As for girls being fiends on cuddling... guide them here...
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 2:01:42 PM | @singingirly.... I DO I DO I DO.... repeat as needed...
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 2:09:54 PM | | Like the pic dragon rider? A most current one (Easter 2005). But the coat makes me LOOK fat. I hate looking that way. But what can one do. | |
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 2:15:40 PM | Yeah, the pic is very nice, and congratualtions on your upcoming marriage...
Dragon Rider (and no, it doesn't make you look fat) | |
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| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 2:23:13 PM | | Cuddling: one of the best things about romance! | |
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TPross
| Joined: 4/16/2005 Msg: 100 | |
| Cuddling Posted: 4/23/2005 2:26:53 PM | Cuddling is the thing I miss the most. It makes you feel warm all over. Sometimes, it can be better than sex. If its with the right person. | |
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