| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 2:24:10 PM | Honestly,.. I like sex,.. I want sex,.. if you DON'T want sex,.. we, are incompatible.. it's simple. MY biological clock is ticking,.. just like yours. Like that stupid mail blocker "must NOT be looking for an intimate encounter" I'm ALWAYS looking for an intimate encounter. I don't need Viagra, Levetra,etc., etc... YET.. and I'd like to get all I can before I do! In my opinion,. when your sex drive dries up.. You are the salmon that swam upstream, beat the bears at the waterfall,.. deposited your mess, and are changing color, waiting to die. NOT ME! I'm hangin' out upstream waiting for the "late-comers" (pun intended) If you guys want to sit together, watch TV, play spades, checkers, read the latest best-seller on the couch together.. FINE!.. DO it. I'll find the pool of late-swimmers, or catch the young ones before they hit the open sea!    | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 2:32:45 PM | | Some do some don't. Its just that some women don't care about it at all. I agree it is a bonus. But I have only been in one relationship where the female didn't use sex as a weapon, to get her way, to get stuff..etc. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 2:41:40 PM | | I think that you are implying that all of us are alike...............I like motorcycles and fishing also!!!! | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 2:46:33 PM | Actually I was going to ask you the same thing about women!
I think that I have been used.............I feel cheap............but then again my attitude has always been to get back right on and ride the motorcycle that threw me. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 2:49:41 PM | Why do men Only care about sex???...Depends on how good it is...Must be pretty good if a man only thinks about sex..Right...Or is sex all that you can offer up...
Sex is a plus, "If the relationship is whole with two stable people meaning (balanced emotionally) sex isnt the only thing men want...
Some woman have the personalities of rattlesnakes, "Girls offer up the goody"...Some guys are going to partake...Jus the way it is...
Again, "Sex is not the only thing men want if there are two healthy people in a relationship"..
Guys can be animals jus jumping for the boody call, as do woman..Woman tell everyone theyve been used sexually...We guys dont, "Why should we"...Whose going to feel so for a guy that get used sexually...Not me .. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 2:52:54 PM | | Just as we as people enjoy food we also enjoy sex. Its as natural as pooping or eating. People make a big deal out of it sometimes ebcuase they are prudes or saving themself for marriage due to religious reasons. Most guys don;t just want sex. They want a realtionship with lots of highly enjoyable sex! Just because a guy talks about sex and enjoys it does not mean he won;t take you out to dinner and treat you right. Or buy you flowers. Prince Charming is not a unich he has needs! Some men do use women for sex and they give the rest of us a bad name. Some women likewise tease men or even use them for sex as well. I;ve been used before its not always fun. Life is short have fun with it. go out to dinner or a movie, have sex then cudlle or get ice cream then cuddle. That sounds like a good time to me. Saving yourself for marriage si for religious freaks who pose a false modesty. We are all animals! Enjoy your youth while you have it. And where protection! | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 2:55:27 PM | | sex is a part of it... but id much rather hug ya and hold ya during a bad day, than to force ya to gimme some... its give and take, and maybe looking in the wrong places.... just my thought | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 2:58:30 PM | | when you say you are tired of being used for sex does that mean you put out and then you complain? maybe you are doing something wrong.... | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 3:14:07 PM |
It is getting to be more and more that there is nothing else women have to offer men, and I am stating this as a well thought out opinion, not as an insult to the female gender.
In that same spirit, let me flip that over...except men have nothing else but LOVE to offer women. Most of us support ourselves,take out our own trash, kill our own snakes. If we don't have a loving man in our lives at the moment, we have bob for our jollies.
And too many women think that giving sex quickly will create love. That's going at the whole thing bassackwards. I'm not saying that women should be "keeping their legs crossed until there's a ring on their finger". There's no TIMETABLE, and sex should not be used as a "bargaining chip". But a woman who participates in sex that she may not really WANT, thinking it's the road to a full fledged "relationship", is delusional. You have to take each situation on it's own merits( or lack of them!) and be prepared for the possibility that sex was in fact all he cared about.
So when you have sex with someone new, have a riproarin' good time with it, for it's own sake. Don't have it because you think it'll help further a "relationship."
And keep in mind that there ARE still guys out there that hold sex to be very special/sacred,and guys who STILL operate under a double standard.
Cindy O | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 3:18:19 PM | sorry you think all men out there are looking for sex,i am not one of them.don,t get me wrong sex is great. i don,t want an easy women,i want one that has a brain.your not looking in the right place and all men are not like that you are generalizing. keep looking and you will find one | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 3:19:12 PM | | Ladies we must all accept men for who and what they are...not for what we want them to be. Men are "wired' differently from women...it's just the way it is. But they can and do exercise self-discipline and respect for women if they CHOOSE to. It has been my experience a man will only go where you take him, sexually speaking, if he is a real man and a gentleman...and he waits for you, the woman, to let him know you are receptive. Sometimes, and I am guilty of this, we might send mixed messages to men about what we want but then so do they...it happens because neither is sure what they want. Some men are not so good at reading our messages ...many have to be beat over the head to get it. I can only speak from my own experience... | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 3:22:16 PM | | Hey Demon Leather you made me laugh...for being refreshingly honest...but why do you limit yourself to "young ones" ? | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 3:29:01 PM | I heard a segment on the radio last night that women have a shopping thought as frequent as a man has a sex thought.
it was like every 60 seconds for men/sex and 52 seconds for women/shopping. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 3:39:16 PM | | I'm kind of getting tired of the ones that try to get it on the first date...honestly...I have more respect for myself than that and I would hope someone searching for a long term relationship like me would have the decency to wait until the time was right instead of trying to rush it all along. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 3:45:13 PM |
So when you have sex with someone new, have a riproarin' good time with it, for it's own sake. Don't have it because you think it'll help further a "relationship."
And keep in mind that there ARE still guys out there that hold sex to be very special/sacred, and guys who STILL operate under a double standard.
I think that Cindy O got it exactly right.
Trading sex for love, or for anything else for that matter, is an act of prostitution. If you do that, you create a certain level of mistrust and disdain--because even men, dense though we can be, know when we are being played.
You might be playing us for "love," or for money, but either way, you're using our urgent desire for sex against us. We sense it, and we resent it. If we like you well enough otherwise, we might put up with it. Or, we might come to the conclusion that y'all are like that and your manipulation in particular is the least onerous that we're likely to find. But, you'll also find us reluctant to talk to you about things that are truly precious to us--because if you'll use sex against us to get what you want--be it "love" or money--what will you do with inside information about our very souls?
Or, we might figure that we got what we came for and better beat feat before the hammer comes down or your "tender trap" snaps shut.
When you make love for its own sake, that is a beautiful thing. If you only feel comfortable doing that in a relationship that is already well established, you should not engage in sexual activity with someone until you are in an established relationship.
If you enjoy giving and receiving sexual pleasure, and don't feel you would be compromising yourself if you do that with someone on the basis of mutual attraction alone, you are an adult with the freedom to choose--so please play safely and make sure that you create some really good memories to see you through those times when you aren't with someone special. When giving oneself pleasure, perhaps the only thing better than BOB is BOB with some really sweet/spicy memories to go with it.
If you send signals that indicate you're available for sex for it's own sake, but that's not really true, you can't blame a guy for taking you at face value and then bolting when he figures out that he is being played. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 3:49:50 PM | But honestly now....................................all j0king aside.
If you have to ask others on this site about when you should put out or not.......................you need a lot more help than us pros at POF can help you with! | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 3:53:07 PM |
I'm kind of getting tired of the ones that try to get it on the first date...honestly...I have more respect for myself than that and I would hope someone searching for a long term relationship like me would have the decency to wait until the time was right instead of trying to rush it all along.
Honestly, this has never happened to me. But everyone that emails me talks about my puppy... is that all guys think about is puppies? I mean, yeah, I have him proudly displayed in my main photo and all, but come on... I am MORE than a puppy owner.
... and uh, if you "get" the correlation, good for you. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 4:21:37 PM | I have some really great woman friends...I asked a lady friend about getting used by men sexually...Her response was, "I have too much class and men arent allowed to use me"...Total class...Ive known her for 20 years...
If you dont want to get used, "dont offer it up"...Sure we all get used once in a while...Its pretty easy to stand your ground and wait until your comfortable. "Isnt it"...Most of us men arent going to push sex right away anyhow...WWWWWElll, "Ill shutup"..Joking
Ive found the most complainers are the woman that end up giving it up on a first date ...wheres the class in that?...A good strong woman isnt going to drop her guard for any of us men...period | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 4:22:45 PM | The reason is simple.
Guys like to talk about the following in order of importance.
1/ Sport 50% == Female brain shuts down
2/ Cars 20% == Female brain shuts down
3/ Handyman projects 10% = Female brain shuts down
4/ Politics 10% == Female brain shuts down
5/ Travel 5% == Female brain shows some interest
6/ Sex = 5% Female brain goes ballistic
So the girls THINK that guys ONLY talk about sex, because their brains disengage when guys talk about their favourite topics. A guy can talk about sport for hours and the only time the female brain engages is if he mentions the size of the cheerleaders tits. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 5:31:43 PM | | Why do women only care about money? When I was somewhat poor, driving an older run down car, women avoided me like the plague....Now that I have a power position job again and drive a nice truck, I get looks and smiles and women introducing themselves and all that.....Which is the first sign I look for to just say no. You want 20 somethings, then accept players......women are "go for the gold" at all ages. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/12/2008 5:56:33 PM | bretashly said: "Hey Demon Leather you made me laugh...for being refreshingly honest...but why do you limit yourself to "young ones" ? "
I DON'T! ... read it again,.. I think you'll see I said waiting for the "late comers" upstream(pun intended) which was my way of saying the old-ones ,. (almost dead, like me ) sometimes realize they ARE actually breathing, and start living live like they only have days left and their color is changing.
In reality,.. I think all this man/women just want sex crap, is just that...CRAP.
Of COURSE you want sex! Man, Women (or some place in between) One of the greatests gifts we have! 99% of the rest of the mammals have to breed by annual or semi-annual cycles,.. and by instinct. WE,. get to choose, share, enjoy, ANY time we see fit. People start putting different values & meanings on it due to religion, up-bringing, culture,..etc. etc. and muddy the whole beautiful thing up!
I'm sorry, I don't follow religion, political correctnes, or the witch-hunt to brand the masses with the "scarlet"A".. If you do,.. fine for you.. just stay out of my way while My partner and I enjoy ourselves... or you might get something on you.
PS: I like making people laugh,. it's another "good-thing".. don't think any of this was written for you, other than the explanation in the very first part. The rest is for the incessive whiners that don't know what to do with the testicles & ovaries God gave them... geeeze! talk about "Boo-Hooers!" | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 6/13/2008 7:49:39 AM | | Im sure wen u get sex and a relationship u wont have anything to complain about. the difference between men and women is based on thier sexual organs men treat sex as an outside action coz thier****is like that outside. women need to except the man b4 they let them into thier private life inside themself. and to jstifiy the answer that all men are the same thats a joke thier is a prism of difference in people and that covers both sexes stop accussing the opposite sex 4 ruining ya life or wat have ya. its based on personal choice and perception that makes ya jaded. would you rather a guy not want sex im confused I dont drive I hate sport . so am i gay or a woman. or doin wat i want and not wat society expects of me. I say take while ya can get it and enjoy it. | |
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