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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 11/11/2008 3:51:50 AM | I am 48 and yes I like sex but it seams like other things are growing more important in my relationship. Maybe older guys is the answer.
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 11/11/2008 11:17:36 AM |
Guess im just too romantic and passionate for the ladies here.
No, we love romance and passion,but if it's too much too soon,we can have a tendency to be waiting for the 2nd shoe to drop, so to speak. Unfortunately a lot of "hit it and quit it" guys will lay it on thick. I myself look for a guy who is pleasant, makes it clear he's interested,while still being respectful,but above all seems calm, confident and comfortable in his own skin. Over doing the sweet talk and ultra romantic gestures too quickly make me( and I'm sure a lot of other women, too) a bit edgy, because PLAYERS can come on very romantic and passionate ,too.
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 11/11/2008 11:38:34 AM | | all men are after you for sex because the men your around are dogs.why dont you step out of the dog pound or the bar your hanging out at. quit looking for a man also,mr. right will cross your path in his own time.you're right, sex is a benefit! be happy with who you are and your friends. enjoy life to its fullest and that doesnt mean it has to be with a guy all the time! | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 11/11/2008 10:30:45 PM | It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. A companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8.. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12.. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19.. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined!
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
44.. compassionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
45. give her compliments regularly
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes
I have no idea why we would want sex... | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 11/12/2008 3:04:27 PM |
all men are after you for sex because the men your around are dogs.why dont you step out of the dog pound or the bar your hanging out at. quit looking for a man also,mr. right will cross your path in his own time.you're right, sex is a benefit! be happy with who you are and your friends. enjoy life to its fullest and that doesnt mean it has to be with a guy all the time!
With all due respect, you know the OP is hanging around a bar or a "dog pound" ....how? Do you know for a fact that she's looking for a man, other than posting a profile on a dating site, which, I might point out ,you and I have also done?
Since arrranged marriages are sort of out of fashion in the USA and most other Western cultures, it's gonna be pretty hard for anybody to cross the OP's path if she's sitting in her house being happy with who she is and her friends.
And actually, her profile didn't really SAY she was out beating the bushes for a man...or are we women just supposed to handle any man who speaks to us with a right cross and a kick to the 'nads, to make it unmistakably CLEAR that we are waiting for mr right to cross our paths, that we are happy with our lives and our friends and who we are? Seems like that would mean we'd be enjoying life to it's fullest with a guy NONE of the time. Of course, if they all have the remarkable grasp of the patently obvious and talent for stating the banal cliches displayed in your post, that might be a very attractive option.
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 11/12/2008 9:48:51 PM | I do not know why, most men only care about sex. I do not only care about sex. Sometimes it could be a man hears a conversation you are having with friends and takes something you are saying jokingly and takes it literally.
As an example: You and some girlfriends are at a bar or a party talking about a good looking guy. So you say to your girlfriends: "I would like to hump his brains out." And as a different guy walks past, he hears this and thinks you and your girlfriends are talking about him. So then he eventually asks you out. You figure he is not that bad looking and seems like a nice guy, after talking for a while, so you say okay. Then when on the date the guy asks, if you want to hump each others brains out. Then of course you tell him to go F himself.
With the above example, you could see why someone may attract people who appear to want someone just for sex. And all it was, was someone overheard a conversation and took what they heard out of context. Or they did not hear the full conversation.
But then again those guys could just be players or guys only interested in having sex with every woman they meet and not care about having a caring "relationship".
Do not give up! There are guys out there that want a real caring relationship and do not only care about sex. The difficult part is trying to find them or screen them out from amongst the others. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 11/13/2008 8:58:45 PM | | Yeah men are cratures but that don't give them a write to use woman like that! So your saying that if you really love someone then you will go and cheat on them just cause you want sex! and you have the right just cause you are a man! | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 12/12/2008 4:32:29 PM | yESSSSSS I LIKE WHAT YOU JUST SAID ON THIS, YOU ARE SO RIGHT AND IT IS THE SAME WITH WOMEN, I AM A GOOD WOMEN THEY ARE A FEW LIKE ME AND IF I MEET A MAN LIKE YOU I WOULD GO FOR YOUR HEART IN A BEAT. YOU SEEM LIKE A VERY RESPECTFUL MAN. WOMEN ALSO THINK ABOUT SEX AND IT SEEMS LIKE THEY NEED IT ALL THE TIME, BUT SOME OF US DONT THINK THAT WAY JUST LIKE YOU AND OTHER GOOD MEN. YOU ARE A VERY ASOME MAN. TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 12/28/2008 12:16:05 PM | Because that's all he may WANT at that time! I mean.. he has BILLS to pay, food and gas to buy and other responsibilities! I'm just curious.. what do WOMEN care about??? Since soo many are just as about SEX as men are "claimed" to be. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 12/28/2008 9:04:48 PM | All i got say to that is i have a male friend and he told me that Mans are Pigs to watch out for them:  | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 12/28/2008 10:16:33 PM | | This question is like a double edged sword and it has as much merrit as saying why are guys pigs. Some guys are pigs! that is true. alot are not and the same for the opposite sex. Everyone saying that you are attracting them for a reason is true. If you demand respect and show it as well, you will get it in return. Remember a guy is only going to go as far as you let him right! The other edge of that sword is that any normal guy is going to think about sex sooner or later. Thats why we are here, we are the chaser you are the ones we are after. it is the natural order, so if we show no interest in sex at all then you think you are undesireable or there is something wrong with us. We are damned if we do and damned if we dont. I personally would like to find a woman that can deal with her own baggage and problems that isnt a man hater or doesnt have other issues. I am finding it hard myself. So the next time a guy says something about sex jokingly dont take it the wrong way, be flattered if its done tastefully and have a sense of humer. If its crude then politely tell him and im sure if he cares he will respond properly and if he doesnt kick him to the curb and find another! And stop condemning us guys!!!!!!! | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 12/29/2008 4:01:15 PM | | One of the responses to this question was...you may want to look for an older man.I am 55 years old and the desire is still very strong but I would prefer to do without if it isn't with the one I love and as far as trying an older man ....unless they are dead then that is the only man I have come across is safe.I get an I.M and before 5 minutes is up you can bet they are talking sex.These are men in the 50-60 age range.Sorry girls,guess we do without or accept them as they are. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 12/29/2008 8:20:10 PM | | Older men are no better. Every time I meet a guy for the first time...it's ..."hello...how are you? let's have sex" | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 12/30/2008 5:09:21 AM | All these posts about what guys what in their twenties yadda yadda yadda. There are plenty of guys out there who want more, but usually they're the guys who are willing to give you a ride home if you had too much to drink, are on the phone with you during that bad break up, and are willing to just be your friends. Most of the time, they are the hot guys chillin in the bar with a drink, or the guy that lives in the gym, he is usually the guy sitting down with a few friends, drinking a couple beers and laughing.
It's like what I tell my guy friends who are all about all these girls dancing on tables, you dont' want that girl, she isn't classy, she just wants the attention, you look at her really cute friend that isn't getting no attention. That is the girl they want. Hey, I'm right twice at least seeing as how 2 of my boys are getting married soon. | |
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