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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/3/2007 8:02:50 PM | | as long as most woman spread their legs at every option....then why shouldnt they take it. why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. | |
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| Why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/3/2007 9:17:17 PM | "it's never JUST about sex- for anyone"- pipe in here shrinks and back this one up
and all the women I've ever known and myself have used many men for sex- so
what? it's the emotional trickery that makes it crappy- not the good feeling sex
the sex part is easy- it's the rest of it that's tough-
I think it is one men especially crave a bit of closeness and intimacy- even though most would deny that-
thanks for that one- | |
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Jemue
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/3/2007 10:44:03 PM | I disagree. Men are not pigs. Sorry guys, that you have to hear that 24-7.
Only from people with issues that we/I don't want anything to do with anyway !!
I know I'm not a pig, just leave people like that to it, not my job to prove them wrong, that's up to them to deal with. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/3/2007 11:00:51 PM | Not all men want only sex...that's generalizing. There are plenty of men who would love everything a women has to offer, because we're amazing.
Also, it is perfectly healthy for a woman to want to have sex. Humans are, after all, sexual creatures. BUT we are ingrained to have certain reactions to certain things and sadly sex is still a very controversial area. My advice...either use discretion...not because I think you have to be discrete to be considered a "good girl" but because people are brought up with shitty views on sex.....OR understand that any man who would lose respect for you for getting down (just like they did) has views that aren't up to your standard, and therefore can hit the road. We shouldn't be ashamed for being sexual..it's human nature. That being said..what we have to offer is exceptional..a treat few deserve. I just try to behave accordingly.
People have sex and that's a beautiful thing. Own your desire. If you don't want to do it...don't ..if you do and he has issues..well that's his individual problem. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/3/2007 11:14:08 PM | | honey a man's sex organ is 100% muscle and like any other muscle in the body,if not exercised regularly,will become defunct.On the other hand a woman's sex organ is also a collection of muscles but more of soft flesh as well.It will be always the same...on the receiving end,whether you are sixteen or sixty.Do not demean yourself by classifying yourself as a whore....instead appreciate the fact that you are providing for what a man would need to keep his muscle toned in shape and size.You ultimately control him.He comes,penetrates,travels back and forth,releases and its all over.He is done but you can still go on....cheer up | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/3/2007 11:31:44 PM | | I normally don't do this..ever..but seriously..a c*ck is not technically a muscle. It's "muscle like" but mostly it's spongy tissue and blood vessels. I'm sorry I'm a medical student and I can't let this fly. That's like saying t!ts are made of "wishes and dreams". While they seem to be, they aren't actually. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/4/2007 12:00:15 AM | You are just meeting the wrong men. Plain and simple. There are a few.. rare.. few out there that looks for someone to care about before walking into the bedroom.
And you are right, your not a whore so keep crossing the legs until you find the right man and let the Morons know that your not in for the pleasures, but interested in the long haul. The good men will respect the work they had to put in to get your love. The idiots will move on to the next easy score. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/4/2007 12:40:44 AM |
as long as most woman spread their legs at every option....
Oh, really? And just where does one find these "most woman [sic]"? They sure aren't hanging out in my area.
why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.
Why are you calling women "cows"? Is there something making you this bitter? | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/4/2007 1:39:56 AM |
a c*ck is not technically a muscle. It's "muscle like" but mostly it's spongy tissue and blood vessels
now you tell me, after all that working out! | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/4/2007 3:53:54 AM | | I want a woman who likes to talk . that so bad ? AFTER we get to know each other THEN and then can we think of sex . 1 of the things I crave is foreplay . yes you heard that right . a guy who likes foreplay and being in a relationship . | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/4/2007 7:24:34 AM | To say that men care "only" about sex is a misnomer. They care about many other things as well.
But why do some men seem to be preoccupied with sex? (Ok, maybe most men.)
It really is quite simple: biology.
Spirituality and philosophy aside, our prime reason for living is to procreate. The most important thing to any species is the continuation of that species; humans are no different, regardless of how we try to separate ourselves from animals and the "natural" world.
Getting our "seed" out there in the gene pool ranks with the need for food, water, and shelter. With animals, the male often courts the females; it is the peacock and other birds who have bright plumage to attract females, not the other way around. If a man doesn't care about sex, his line might die out. If all men were disinterested in sex, humans would die out. The same goes for women. (Who were, for centuries, seen as the carnal creatures; women not liking/needing sex is a relatively new concept.)
This is and has been a patrirchal word for millennia. One reason why polygamous marriages were long considered fine where polyandrous marriages were not is simple: a man can have many pregnant wives or concubines at once, thus liberally spreading his genes and insuring the continuation of the species. A woman with several husbands or lovers will still bear one child at a time.
Think of movies or books you have seen or read, including the latest, Children of Men. Most of these types of movies deal with infertile WOMEN, not men. One fertile man could, theoretically, "save" humanity; one fertile woman really could not--not unless she produced all girls.
So, blame, or give praise, to nature and biology. | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/4/2007 7:30:22 AM | OP: Some men DO only care about sex. You kick those guys to the curb. It HAS occurred to you that there's no obligation to say yes just because the guy wants to have sex, right? No one can use you for sex without your permission.
And if a man initiates a phone call, a chat or an e-mail and brings up the topic of sex early on, you hang up, end the chat or don't answer the e-mail. No reason to deal with disrespectful men.
If a guy turns out to be a creep on a date and puts the moves on you, you say very loudly so everyone can hear, "Did you lose this" and pull hand out of embarrasing location, get up and leave the creep sitting there. If you were going to split the check, make sure he picks it all up. Then go home. Next time go out with a better guy, lol.
Now the thing is, you never have the problem of this happening in your house, because a first date ALWAYS occurs in a public place. You meet the guy there and you leave the guy there. This is as much for your safety as anything else. You could wind up with a lot more than unwanted sex, rape, an STD, or AIDS from early sex -- you could wind up dead.
It can literally be months before I invite a new guy to my house, but never before I've met some of his friends or family. I want to at least have an inkling that a person is sane and safe before I let them into my home.
So please be more carerful OP.
honey a man's sex organ is 100% muscle and like any other muscle in the body,if not exercised regularly,will become defunct
Apparently someone here is joking, or someone skipped high school biology. No muscle involved honey -- it's arteries and erectile tissue. The words "love muscle" is only figurative. Let your fingers do the walking through Wikipedia:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Penis
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/4/2007 7:37:38 AM | why is it that every guy i meet or talk to automatically thinks i want sex from them?
Well, seriously… if EVERY guy you meet or talk to thinks you want sex from them, then I suggest you are the one with the problem. If that is in fact true, then sounds like you are attracting men who are out to get done and recognize vulnerable prey when they see it. Although, I am assuming you’re ever so slightly exaggerating.
dont they know there is more to me then whats between my legs???
Do you? I’m not being smart here but it seems that you have a problem with self esteem and knowing who you are and what YOU want.
Im tired of being used by men for sex.
Are you being raped? You are 100% responsible for yourself and your actions – if you are being used for sex, it is because you are allowing yourself to be used for sex.
Are there really any men out there that dont want women just for sex?
Yes, I believe most men ultimately want a loving and intimate relationship but many of course will SETTLE for sex alone while waiting for a “suitable” partner.
I feel that sex is a bonus.... but only when both ppl are ready for it. Just because he is, does that mean i have to be as well??
Sounds like you have been behaving as though you were ready as well; you do have a choice in the matter – do you actually realize that?
This is an everyday thing i deal with and i would like to finally know why thats all men want me for. I am not a whore.
Again, I think you have a lot of work to do on yourself – getting to know yourself, your worth, building up self respect and dignity. When you realize that you have much more to give, so will the rest of the world – including the men.
Incidentally, for those who got involved in the debate, it was threads just like this one that lead me to post "The Sex Mistake". | |
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Posted: 5/4/2007 12:23:39 PM | this poor poster is getting asked for a physical romp everywhere she goes...poor thing, im soo, ,sooo , glad im not in your shoes, being a s3x~magn3t must be soo depressing... | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/4/2007 1:21:59 PM | as long as most woman spread their legs at every option....then why shouldnt they take it. why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. >>>
Really? Why buy the pig when you can have the sausage for free?
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/4/2007 6:46:31 PM | Sounds like your talking to the wrong men.
I'm not like that at all, I think a relationship is built on (God) and mutual Faith, Love and Respect. However I've noticed men are the only one's with this mind set. I've met a few very nice people on here that I'm happy to have as friends and unfortunately one who took her shirt off thinking that was the kind of man I am or what I wanted.
This kind of behavior is very sad to me when I get over being mad at them. They must lead very dull, very sad lives - if they think the only way they can gain someone's love is to "put out" I will be friends with almost anyone but I would not think of dating someone who doesn't "Actually" know the peace of God. If they think that taking off their shirt is something they need to do or what not that doesn't sound like peace to me. I know I need to screen potential people better, sounds like you might need to as well.
"Treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity" (1 Timothy 5:2)  | |
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| why do men only care about sex???
Posted: 5/4/2007 7:00:49 PM |
Appears to be alot of sausage at the market
And they come in all kinds of sizes too! 
Sounds like your talking to the wrong men.
She's young and she's talking to men her age. That'll change with time.
I'm not like that at all, I think a relationship is built on (God) and mutual Faith, Love and Respect.
That's nice but not relevant to the OP's religion as shown in her profile.
I've noticed men are the only one's with this mind set
Really? I've noticed that it's not unique to one sex. | |
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