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 spiderette

Joined: 6/28/2008
Msg: 76
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My b/f of 6 months is still active on dating sites
Posted: 7/6/2008 9:49:26 AM
not because i was insecure or anything


^^^^feeling insecure is not a bad thing. you have every right to feel insecure about this man and situation. he's up to no good.
 fra59e

Joined: 6/4/2005
Msg: 77
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My b/f of 6 months is still active on dating sites
Posted: 7/6/2008 10:08:25 AM

Posted By: spiderette on 7/6/2008 926 AM
Subject: My b/f of 6 months is still active on dating sites
Message: not because i was insecure or anything

^^^^ you have every right to feel insecure about this man and situation. he's up to no good.


Oh yes, HE'S up to no good because HE'S on a dating site. SHE of course is not on a dating site, oh no.
 badkitty718

Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 78
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My b/f of 6 months is still active on dating sites
Posted: 7/6/2008 10:21:26 AM
Was with a guy for 8 months ,, he stayed active on dating sites .. never posted on the forums... always felt like the axe was gonna fall... finaly it did ... when he found someone that he felt was a little better than me... as far as i know he hasnt even met her in person.... i can only hope that she does to him what he did to me.. or better yet she turns out to be a TROLL... sorry if i sound bitter... but he deserves whatever he gets....
 Dumpling-Girl

Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 79
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My b/f of 6 months is still active on dating sites
Posted: 7/6/2008 10:21:50 AM
I would just dump him (after having a conversation about this, of course). Why do women put up with this when there are guys out there who are willing to be exclusive within a month?
 sundance28

Joined: 3/7/2006
Msg: 80
My b/f of 6 months is still active on dating sites
Posted: 7/6/2008 12:44:38 PM
Sorry hun, This guy not worst having you care about him this much. Find some one else who worth it.

If, I was dating a guy I had feeling for and he was doing that? I would kick him to the curb. Life too short to waste it on guys who don,nt deserve you.
 Odessateach

Joined: 6/28/2008
Msg: 81
My b/f of 6 months is still active on dating sites
Posted: 7/6/2008 12:49:18 PM
It really sounds like you want a trusting relationship with someone. The fact that you felt the need to check up on him says that it is not a trusting relationship. Follow your instincts. The fact that he was reading these emails about matches also tells you, he's still looking.
 The Jabberwock

Joined: 5/21/2008
Msg: 82
My b/f of 6 months is still active on dating sites
Posted: 7/6/2008 2:06:08 PM
Your bf is a player and an attention wh*ore and he is not ever going to change.

Find someone else. Preferably someone who does not use the computer 24/7/365.
 Chardit

Joined: 2/16/2008
Msg: 83
My b/f of 6 months is still active on dating sites
Posted: 7/6/2008 7:01:01 PM
I think your man should be the one getting some knee pads sista -He needs to be off the other sites if he wants to be with you.......6 days maybe, six weeks if its grey and there is no communication ....six months? No way friend.

There are plenty more fish and there is no sense wasting your time on a man who doesn't treat you as special as you treat him.

He's off or tell him to BEAT IT.
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