| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 5/16/2005 12:07:55 AM | | that was awesome......... ya know.... the thing is..... do guys really want us girls that are "nice"....the old saying "nice guys always finish last" hmmmm well maybe if they weren't so into the "Barbie doll" fake boobs, fake ass, high maintence, high budget, low class - no class, rich **** i'm better than you attitude shoulder trophies... the rest of us "real woman" would have a chance... but men... think you could handle a few small imperfections for the one woman that would make you happy.... or are you going to over look the real deal for some one minute fling that you will aventually be on here ****ing about??? | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 7/6/2005 3:54:35 PM | | bump. someone asked about a "nice girls" here it is if you missed it. | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 7/6/2005 5:21:57 PM | | thank you sweetchristina! As a "nice girl" who is always getting calls from guy friends to ask for dating advice, or fashion advice, or just plain "well, you are kind of a girl, so maybe you can help me figure out what "she" is thinking" advice ....... this was so nice to read! | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 7/6/2005 6:26:37 PM | Dear Lord...there's something out there for us GOOD GIRLS to cling to? We have our own ODE? I think my heart stopped beating for a few moments.
As for all you guys who want to know where the nice girls are around you?
They're the ones you asked for help with homework in high school, and never gave up on your sorry butt even when you showed up stoned, hungover, or half-asleep.
They're your buddies' sisters, younger or older, who smile shyly & make sure your favorite pop is in their fridge.
They're the girl who waits on you at the grocery store & ignores the pop you already drank...or at the Mickey D's and tosses in an extra apple pie when the boss isn't looking.
You know them now? Yeah, I thought you would. 
We're all around, we just don't stand out because we're not always the most beautiful, the most glamorous, or the most popular. We're just the sweetest & biggest-hearted. | |
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w82b
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Joined: 5/9/2005
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 7/6/2005 6:47:03 PM | I've met several nice women from this site. Problem is... many of these nice women do not post in the forums so you kind of stumble onto them, if you're lucky. Ther are many nice women that do participate in these forums, but I believe that the majority of these nice women are shy and do sit back, unnoticed..... too bad.
I've been trying to encourage one very nice woman to participate, but she won't. | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 7/8/2005 7:44:37 AM | You know, I'd have to say this is one of the cutest things ever. We have our own Ode. That's awesome.
I, as well as someone else who posted here, have the issue with guys saying I'm too good for them. Or they're 'not ready' for me yet.
Which is ridiculous, considering these men should grow up a little. They're usually in their 20's. I even had a guy tell me once that if he was looking to get married right now, I'd be the one he'd do so with. But right now he wasn't.
...So he went and dated someone else. -_-
My conclusion is I think boys are scared of nice girls.
*Kat | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 7/8/2005 1:48:04 PM | Kudos to you, SweetChristina for posting this up. Certainly brightened up my day.  | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 10/28/2007 5:17:50 PM | That was such a nice thing to post Sweet....almost brought a tear to my eye...
I too have always been the "nice girl" The one the guys always want to be friends with...and the one that always gets told "your one of the guys" Hello...i have boobs 
Very cool thread...glad i found it  | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 10/30/2007 10:02:08 PM | Thanks so much for posting this and bumping it up for us!
I too am I nice girl and never really thought about it until now. I posted this on my myspace page even! Sure hope that guy realizes what he has in me... soon!  | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 10/30/2007 10:10:49 PM | great.
now every type of girl is going to post on here claiming to be a good girl.
good lord. this site makes me laugh everytime i come here.
too hilarious.  | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/18/2007 8:48:42 PM | Nope i dont think every girl is going to jump on this bandwaggon...
Funny how lots of guys seem to have been jaded by girls who have either cheated, wanted to cheat, lied or whatever it may have been, then unfortunately when they meet someone new and all is going along nicely for a while, and he has infact met someone truly nice, but perhaps she is wanting to take things slow, or is scared of jumping into the relationship or whatever the reason, some guys just grab on to the "I have no time for liars or cheaters etc"
It happened to me :( I met someone I liked, he had been cheated on in a previous relationship etc, when we met I felt we kind of were going too fast, I wanted to "slow down a bit" he didn't like it, he thought I was rejecting him and jumped off the deepend about it, he said he would call etc, he didn't so I went back on POF, because I was hurt because I thought that he was not interested after our bit of a argument about "us" when we met....yada yada yada...and now we don't talk...he sent me abusive texts telling me I was weak....I wasn't weak, we just misunderstood each other alot....in a way I figure he just used it all as an excuse because perhaps he wasn't really ready to be with someone, I don't know, but all I know is, this nice girl is terribly hurt, and have been made to feel like I was using him or playing games etc when I wasn't at all....but I think it was him who was....:(
gawd did that make any sense??
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/18/2007 9:09:22 PM | This might make me sound horrible but what about nice guys who know they're nice and want to meet a ncie girl they are physically attracted to?
That may not be true for some but even though I'm not some hunk I don't think I should have tos etytle for someone I'm not attracted to. In my experience the best women i've encountered are older than me and mroe mature than the women who are my age thata re still in party mode.
I don't drink or smoke and I try to be a decent person but the so called nice good looking ones just pass me by. i wrote my first book and tried to focus on that and away from being single and it helped.
So for thsoe nice people who are still looking focus on your hobbies and your friends. That has certainly helped me.
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/18/2007 10:16:55 PM |
Well screw that. Nice girls are the STRONGEST of the women. There is a difference between being nice and being a pushover.
So true! Well said!
That applies to us 'nice guys' as well ;-)
There is a difference between being desperate and being affectionate! | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/18/2007 10:29:58 PM |
This might make me sound horrible but what about nice guys who know they're nice and want to meet a ncie girl they are physically attracted to?
shhhhhh
don't tell them we exsist. they might get mad and throw sh*t at us or something.
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/19/2007 11:40:17 AM | Nice gets a bad rap. Guys and girls both. And with good reason. I've known people that described themselves as "nice" when what they were really was passive to fault, afraid of conflict, afraid of telling someone how they feel, afraid of being hurt, and doing unasked "nice things" for someone and then getting secretly upset when the favor wasn't returned.
I'll pass on "nice" unless it includes honesty and self-confidence.
To those who have the above but lack flash or volume, either by nature or by choice.. hang in there!  | |
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Joined: 1/26/2007
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/19/2007 12:29:04 PM | | Honey....It's like I always say I'm a nice girl in a bad's girls body! | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/19/2007 12:47:52 PM |
thank god for every girl that can unclog a J-pipe, with the need for a plumber.
AnyOne can 'unclog' Any pipe...WITH the 'need' for a plumber
guess that was 'quite' zee 'typo' (on poster's part)?
OR...was it a 'quiEt mistake'?
thank god for every girl that reads kahlil gibran, and not vogue.
thank god for every girl that knows the difference between quite, and quiet.
thank god for every girl that doesn't mix up Tori Amos, with Tori Spelling.
thank god for every girl that dreams, and doesn't get thier dreams from tv.
thank god for every girl that understand pointlism and depth of field.
thank god for every girl that listens to anni difranco, and led zepplin, cause its good music.
thank god for every girl that can unclog a J-pipe, with the need for a plumber.
thank god for every girl that believes she can do anything herself.
thank god for every girl that, tries to be something more.
None of ^ has AnyThing to do with BeIng
*NICE*
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/19/2007 1:01:40 PM | What th!
What blind, stupid , melodramatic, drama queen, wrote this stuff in the first place.
The nice girls DO get the guys. Listen to the skanks, round the far table, in any bar, moansing about it. They spend half thier time moaning, and the other half abusing and rejecting any guy who asks them if they would like to dance.
The nice girls arent welcome around this table so they head up to the bar, with the boys.
The boys, briefly, lust after the the trash girls, from the safety of the bar, but they date the nice one. Mostly becasue she is safe. Grab a handful of her tits and she will say either "yes" or "no" but she will never scream rape, in the way that the drama queens do.
They date her because she is there. She talks to al of them so they know the score. The usual petty miunderstandings and jealosies don't occurr becasue ALL of da boize already know if she's dating one guy or one hundred guys.
They skip the skank clothing becasue it's too expensive and too uncomfortable. You can grope and smooch a nice girl without wrecking her make up because she wears minimal make up and clothes that dont fall off every time you hug her.
When nice girls listen to da boize, discusssing the hotness of the skanks theyalso hear the same guys talking about any disasterous dates that the guys have had when they have tried to date the skanks. They KNOW that the guys hate the skanks massive atttitude problems.
The skanks do "allow" their guys to hang with these nice girls because they think that the nice girls are safe. Fact is that the skanks don't realise that its the nice girl, that it the real girlfriend. The guys regard the skank as the piece of ass on the side, the casual one night stand between the nice girls.
Nice girls don't bake cookies because they have the brains to know that comfort food only works for girls.
Guys do not turn down chances to date nice girls. If a nice girl hasn't got a specific date it's becasue she chooses go hang out with ALL the boys instead of just dating the one.
The only problem, that guys ever have with nice girls, is that quite a few of them, ffrom Mellisial Ethridge, to Missy Higgins, turn out to be gay. | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/19/2007 1:23:37 PM |
the problem with nice girls are the wolf in sheeps clothing girls...the ones that are nice at first and then once you are commited to a certain degree do a 180 and decide they haven't partied and gotten crazy enough previously to deciding they were ready to settle down. I LOVE the nice girls, but I just can't seem to find any that are REALLY that way, they start there yes, but I have yet to find one that is that way down in her bones so to speak. *sigh* It makes me want to look for something not-so-nice
Oh how true, this is how I personally feel about 'nice' people. They are so giving, but don't forget they will expect you to be gratefull when you get to know them better, and they will never stop reminding you how lucky you are to have such a 'nice' person.
They skip the skank clothing becasue it's too expensive and too uncomfortable. You can grope and smooch a nice girl without wrecking her make up because she wears minimal make up and clothes that dont fall off every time you hug her. When nice girls listen to da boize, discusssing the hotness of the skanks theyalso hear the same guys talking about any disasterous dates that the guys have had when they have tried to date the skanks. They KNOW that the guys hate the skanks massive atttitude problems. And this is a quote from a typical 'nice' girl, calling women skanks when she doesn't even know anything about them. Is this a genuinely nice attitude, I ask you? | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/19/2007 1:37:50 PM | Christina,
I commend you for sticking to your guns! About 3 months ago I tried to pull a switch as I was tired of all the "bad girls" getting what I percieved as the good guys. I dressed more seductively, practiced my not so subtle flirtation techniques, and prepared my mind for the concept of casual sex. What I recieved a fair amount of sex, some good some bad, and a very bad taste in my mouth for the ways of mankind. Because as I got to know these guys I realized I really didnt want them for anymore than they wanted me for, some sex in a pinch. Pretty stupid! gratefully this period was very short lived and I was safe. Now I'm putting back on my nice girl t-neck and hoping for the best. Wish me luck!
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tinydi
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Joined: 4/21/2007
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/20/2007 12:03:53 AM | | If you were all so genuinely nice, do you think there would be any justification for ending up last all the time (now I'm not stating this as general, but more of an overall impression from the OPies question and some of the responses) Honest people are the ones who catch all the best fishies, not 'nice' people, theres a bl***y big difference IMO. | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/20/2007 12:16:30 AM | | I just "briefly" skimmed thought that... I had no idea wtf she was talking about... | |
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