| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/20/2007 1:08:27 AM | | Most of these 'nice' girls have one thing in common, they all love to critisise everyone else and put themselves on a pedestal. It's the same with the 'nice' men threads in the forums. | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/20/2007 11:12:20 AM | um-ya? did one of 'the nice girls' spend a *nice/looooong Time*...
insulting 'not nice girls'? girls that are dressed up? sitting with Other 'girls'?
(or, was that a 'gent'?)
i just doNT really 'get' this whooole thread/premise
*nice* is Such a 'subjective' Word!
i know that ~i~ would Never be 'considered' a *nice girl*
(by most/strangers?)
But, i AM...a Good Person, have No intent to HURT folks (unless Deserved  )
(and? ALL zee Folks who ~KNOW~ me...Friends/Family/co wrkrs-Know...im GOOD)
i just aint SURE that this whole *nice girl* thang
'holds water'?
*Too Many 'Holes'*
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/20/2007 6:07:31 PM | No pamper pooch.
THIS
"And this is a quote from a typical 'nice' girl, calling women skanks when she doesn't even know anything about them. Is this a genuinely nice attitude, I ask you?"
This pamper is ME calling skanks, skanks, Not calling women skanks. Calling skanks, skanks. Us guys have all been abused by these skanks. That's why we don't go past loking done their tops. If we want a date we ask the nice girls. Their tops aren't cut low enough to get a good look at thier tits but you have a much better chamce of getting the full picture, alter on, when they/you take off their tops. | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/20/2007 7:07:54 PM | How DOes One 'loke done' a top?
dont go 'PAST' ^?
OH! so thee Does do the LookIng (and, That is ok fine?)
But, the gals WearIng the tops...they Are 'skanks'?
Hmmm, sumpin smells fishy-even for in 'here'
gotta say-pamperpooch (who reminds me of my Favorite EST cousin by da way  )
Has made some Very InSightful Observations.
we All look (or, 'loke' ) For Different qualities/characteristics in a partner
i have Found-in My experience,thaaat...a gent(or, even a gal)Who Seems to be
*nice*
Can 'turn out' to BE just as HUman as zee Rest of us
(when zee 'chips are down') | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/20/2007 10:57:44 PM | That's a very nice thing you posted. :)
Power to the nice girls.  | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/20/2007 11:26:37 PM | ------------------Woman -------------
--------------are like apples---------
----------on trees. The best ones-------
--------are at the top of the tree.-------
------The Men don't want to reach--------
----for the good ones because they----------
---are afraid of falling and getting hurt.--
----Instead, they get the rotten apples-----
---from the ground that aren't as good,-----
---but easy. So the apples up top think----
---something's wrong w/ them when in------
----reality they're amazing. They just---
------have to wait for the right Man--
-------to come along and the one who's-
-------------- brave enough to-----
------------------climb all---------
------------------the way--------
-----------------to the top--------
----------------of the tree.--------- | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/20/2007 11:39:50 PM | Thanks suckafish, I appreciate the support. It would appear that we are one of the few 'not nice' girls left remaining
As for crayonz....words fail me. I made a mistake in assuming you were a 'nice' girl, my apologies You are obviously just one of the 'nice' guys who goes around loking done 'normal' girls tops but only dating 'nice' girls cos you don't like any nasty surprises when they take their tops off? ....I'm lost on this one.... How does a 'nice' girls chest differ from a 'normal' girls chest?
Why the need to label yourself 'nice'? Why not just be a good person. Good isn't the same as 'nice'. Good can sometimes be outspoken and hard, because 'niceness' and honestly can't always go together. You will usually find out with the 'nice' people, that the truth of the matter will come out later rather than sooner, that's the only difference. Yes there are some ****es, but 'nice' people are no better IMO because no-one is perfect, but 'nice' people pretend to be. | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 12:11:05 AM | cool
I made my own version.
(men feel free to borrow it)
------------------Woman ---------------------------------
--------------are like apples------------------------------
----------on trees. They are all--------------------------
--------living at the top of the tree.---------------------
------The Men don't want to climb for them----------
----and endanger their lives & sacrifice their---------
---money, time and sanity on the way 2 the top.-----
----only Find out the ones at the top were half--------
---eaten by crows & are full of worms & bugs,--------
---So naturally the apples up top think that-----------
---something's wrong w/ us men when in fact-----------
----some of us just know better nowadays &----------
------would rather take it easy and wait----------------
-------for the women to climb down the----------------
-------------- friggin tree and ------------------------------
------------------meet us------------------------------------
------------------ at the --------------------------------------
----------------- bottom-------------------------------------
-----------like a normal person.---------------------------
--wtf are you doing up in a tree anyway? -------------
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 12:35:09 AM | ^^^^^^^^^Lmao, can girls borrow it too. I think it's much better than the original version  | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 1:07:33 AM | This is, without a doubt, one of the best things I have ever read.
I am starting to think that people are scared of being nice now because it leads to getting hurt.
What do you think? | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 1:35:51 AM | Or we have become more and more suspicious of people, these days it seems like we wonder "whta the hell" if someone is trying to show us interest or affection, so yeah, it is like we are starting to feel scared to be nice, it's a weird feeling, feeling vulnerable, but it's a wonderful feeling if you are with someon you do actually love and trust.
R | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 6:26:24 AM | | Look, I am sure tons of people think they are nice. I've dated girls who were nice who drove me crazy. Nice is not enough in my book. If I were a girl, a guy being nice isn't enough. As a guy, a girl just being nice won't cut it with me. She should be interesing somehow, warm, kind, passionate, intelligent, consistent, and rather stable and at least plain looking. If she fits all that, then I would sure date her, but finding all that is a tough call...Some of these nice girls and nice guys act like the people who go to church and believe God should bless them for following rituals. It doesn't work that way. This entitlement mentality and why is this happening to me attitude is pointless... I've been there, done that... Yeah, I am a very nice guy, but I don't think it entitles me to something. How I present myself, believe in myself, what I do with myself would entitle and nothing else... | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 7:12:19 AM | Why don't the nice guys go for the nice girls, and vice versa? But no! Everyone feels entitled to a hottie, and therin lies the conundrum. The thread implies that hotness equals skank, and nice equals homely. Not always so. And Mr. Dynomite-just stay on the ground with the easy smelly wormy apples, waiting for the beauties to fall on your head, cuz after all, the angry sarcastic ones deserve the very best. What? It's too long to wait for one to fall? And what about the ones in the middle of the tree? The ones you actually have to make an effort to reach up & get. No mention of them atall.
I thought guys liked the challenge of climbing. | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 7:12:30 AM | | Well put Seavoyage. Why is it that these 'nice' people seem to think that they should have the monopoly on dating? If you want to date but you're not having any success then look to yourself for the reason, instead of blaming the other people for poaching all the good people away from you. If men don't want to get involved with these 'nice' women, or when they do, they treat them like doormats why do you think this is? Could it possibly be because they start to realise that beneath this 'nice' exterior is an overly needy and clingy person who doesn't have the strength to voice her own opinion for fear of losing the relationship? She sits there quietly and acts nicely when she sees men drooling over the other women, why doesn't she say something? because she is afraid it will make her seem like less of a nice person. Doesn't mean she isn't thinking it though. | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 7:16:01 AM | | DAM....I am a "nice" woman............and I am that because.........I am everything I say I am...I am not phoney.....I am who I am........dont tell lies.....and I treat "people with respect".....I am not after a man for his money......or ...what he can give me......and ...thats how I would expect.......a nice man to treat me!!!..... | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 7:20:40 AM | mr. dynomite: you are hilarious... ... ....maybe even better ...woman could climb down half way...and..the men could ...climb up to them...... | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 7:21:32 AM | | I would say going by your description that you are a 'good' woman, there's a difference. Of course the original meaning of nice is a good thing, but when it is used on threads like this it takes on a different connotation. It takes on a 'I am better than all the other women out there because I don't say or do nasty things, I just think them' meaning. | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 7:47:02 AM | @op....wow!! and to think i was starting to loose all hopes. big kudos to sweetchristina...thank you. I observe, no matter what i do or where i go...its the nice girls are the last pickings of the crop, see it everyday.
@neill...nicely said. | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 7:59:52 AM | I dont think all woman are like that ... and as far as the top or in a tree it just means that we dont lower ...
come on don't you think I am a nice girl?
If I was a man, I'd date me....
there are good woman out there.... and there are good men....
Just have to do a little gardnening and "weed out the weeds" | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 8:50:10 AM | | sweetsherry, yes I agree with you, except in my opinion the weeds are normally the ones who state in their profile that they are a 'nice' person. | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 9:00:56 AM |
^^^^^^^^^Lmao, can girls borrow it too. I think it's much better than the original version
Yup. Do it up.
Make the ajustments to cater to your needs. Thats what it's there for.
Oh, and no offence to the original tree girl. We men do like 'nice girls'... as long as we still get to be a little bit sarcastic sometimes.
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 7:19:52 PM | ah, a Real Man would just Chop zee tree DOWN
k, im jist bein gitchy-NM
Truthfully, i rather liked the idea/suggestion of 'Meeting in zee Middle'
of the tree
But? we All ~Know~ that Every 'tree' has Many branches
Sooo, Do People-and? There are So Many (many many MANy) 'things' that we 'look for' in others (in assessing 'potential relations')
sure, 'nice' is one-But, it's kinda a 'Given' (isn't it?)
i mean, most dont want to be partnered with a complete 'a s s'
(rude to 'waitstaff'/other drivers/customers/ETC)
But DANG-aside from ^those^ 'indicators'...finding out if SomeOne is Reeeeeeeeeeally
'Nice' , could take a looooong Time
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 10:28:19 PM | | Youre okay.. No offense taken.....We also have attitude some days.... | |
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| Ode to the Nice Girls
Posted: 11/21/2007 10:54:31 PM | I'm preveived as a 'nice girl' but if it were up me
I'd straight up tell it how it is... I'm struggling to be a good person
Aren't we all?
As for the tree, analogy... I half agree w/ Mr. Dynomite there.
Nice girls shouldn't wait until the right person comes to them...
Meet them half way and help a person out.
Even if it does not work out, I guess you become a damaged apple/woman.
But if you're scarred then you have a strory. And a mistake to learn from
Does Mr. Dynomite want a INNOCENT woman... also waiting to be saved?
I'm not waiting...I take control, I'm ambitious, and when I have needs,
I get the piece of ass I want and I wash my hands of it! I guess, I am a 'bad girl'
But no one could tell! haha | |
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