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| What would you do if you were in this situation???
Posted: 4/10/2007 7:56:33 PM | | In this type of situation I would have to talk to him about it, but if it is his second profile why would he bother to view her if he has been seeing her for 6 months. Isn't the idea of the second profile so he can hide from her. There is quite a few unanswered questions and she definately needs to talk to him without accusing him. He might end up a little peturbed if it is not him and she can't tell the difference between him and some stranger. Good luck to your friend. I hope she gets it worked out. | |
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| What would you do if you were in this situation???
Posted: 4/10/2007 7:58:00 PM | Ok..so basically, what you are telling us is this :
1) The guy is possessive bc he secretly checks up on her
2) The guy is a cheat bc he has a new profile where he chats with other women
3) The guy is stupid bc he forgot to check off the " Viewed Me " option on the Acct Settings
Hmmm...Possessive, Stupid Cheater...sounds like a catch. You should tell your " friend " to keep him, bc he's such a gem! | |
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| What would you do if you were in this situation???
Posted: 4/11/2007 6:35:43 AM | | I believe the only reason he made a 2nd profile was so that he can continue with his sneaky ways. There are a lot of players that are addicted to these online dating sites. The last guy I dated did a very similar thing and had an ad on a different site which I found. You said he didn't know what the forums were, and he just wanted to continue talking to his friends, then he would use his original name. His old friends wouldn't know his new name, so what would the point be in making a new profile? If she confronts him he will probably come up with some lame excuse, and if she loves him, she'll want to give him the benefit of the doubt. The only way to be sure is to either make another profile or use a friends profile and include a cute picture of a girl he doesn't know and email him pretending to be a stranger that is interested in him and see how he responds. | |
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| What would you do if you were in this situation???
Posted: 4/11/2007 6:52:24 AM | If it was me, I would kick him to the curb. He's shown his colors, and there is nothing to talk about. If she talks to him he'll just delete this one, create ANOTHER one, and this time be even more sneaky about it.
It all comes down to how much your friend values herself....this guy is scum, end of storey. | |
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Tarra
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Joined: 7/22/2006
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