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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 8:29:41 PM | Sexual Morals ... do I have them?
Heck, I've never even visited the sex and dating topics here before today.
See what you people have done to me. Now I'm going to Hell ...
and I'm taking all of you with me
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 8:44:32 PM |
Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
No, I don't. I only have morals that apply to all aspects of my life, including sex. They pretty well can be summed up in two three-words mottos: 1) Do No Harm. 2) Let Me Help. | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 9:39:06 PM | I think there are some sort of morals out there ...
But the fact of it is that the term morals may just be outdated now ... but then waht would you call them ?
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 11:45:41 PM | i have always made a man wait as long as i can hold out.... now that i am back on"the dating scene" and a lot older... men round my age think that you are going to jump into bed on the first night.. but you cannot change the way you are... sometimes i wish i could.. you know if the sex is safe..just have some fun.. oh dam i have made myself horny now.. and this time in the morning naughty. | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/10/2007 11:52:32 PM |
I think there are some sort of morals out there ...
But the fact of it is that the term morals may just be outdated now ... but then waht would you call them ?
I don't know if you could call it anything ...
I just hope we don't devolve into something with hairy paws
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/11/2007 1:59:36 AM | I think dawn1114 made an excellent point. Our morals should be the same everywhere, like
Don't take what's not yours.
Have fun, as long an you're not hurting anybody.
Don't let other people have fun at the expense of hurting you.
It doesn't have to be about you all the time, but sometimes it's nice.
Don't call mean names, (unless the other person likes it, in which case, it's not mean.)
If you don't know what to do in any given situation, laugh.
Don't make fun of anything another person can't help about themselves.
Be honest, keep the lines of communication open.
If you see an oppurtunity to give a compliment, then you should.
Remember, variety is indeed the spice of life.
Like I said, in the sack, out of the sack, it's all the same. | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/11/2007 3:38:43 AM | Okay, I'll give this a try. Here are mine:
1) Cheating should never be allowed or tolerated. EVER. A cheating partner should expect to be dumped promptly. If you're a swinging couple, that's different, I guess.
2) Never, under any circumstances, is it okay to date or hook up with one of your best friend's ex-girlfriends. Even if he's okay with the idea, you're likely going to create a whole lot of weirdness.
3) Kissing, sex, etc., is okay on the first date as long as both parties are comfortable with it. People get hung up on "the rules" too much. Like "No calling her until 3 days after." That one's stupid, too. Follow your mutual attraction as you see fit. If you make a mistake, learn from it.
4) Don't EVER forget your friends. Don't just disappear when you meet someone new.
5) Don't try to pressure or pester your partner into doing something sexual that she doesn't like. Why would you want to make her uncomfortable during sex?
6) If you watch porn, don't keep it some hidden secret from your partner. That doesn't mean you should necessarily parade it around in front of her, or pressure her into watching it with you(see rule 5).
7) If you're not interested in someone, tell them. It may be blunt and seem mean, but it'll help them (and you) in the long run. Pretending you like someone just out of politeness (which I've done...guilty as charged) or just avoiding them and making excuses doesn't help either of you.
8) Communication, communication, communication. If there's something that you don't like, or something you think could be even better, you need to let your partner know, and not just hope they suddenly realize it.
9) If you buy a girl a drink at a bar, she owes you nothing. Just be happy you did something nice, and don't expect or demand anything in return.
10) And dear god, if you go to a strip club, don't go in expecting to get laid. So many idiots will go there and fully expect to take a stripper home. Well, they're not getting naked for you out of the kindness of their hearts. They want your money. | |
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OHM
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Joined: 11/27/2006
Msg: 36 | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/11/2007 7:06:04 AM | 1. Thou shalt not pull’th out until thou hath pleased ones partner
2. Thou must use kinky whips along with sexual vibrating toys in an immoral fashion
3. The act of Sodom is a sin to God but not to a man of the cloth
4. Do unto her as she will want to do onto yee
5. Give’th good and hard but not give’th her the house
6. Acts of sexual abomination be essential on first date with professional lady
7. Tis best to give’th then receive’th when it comes to anal
8. Thou shalt drink’th from the fountain of urine
9. Thou shalt not covert they partners siblings
10. Thou shalt not fake or mislead’th any man into thinking his tool be to small for they box | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/11/2007 7:43:07 AM | 1 do not use anyone,unless they want to and its clear.
2 never have animals involved, or children.or men
3 .always see to it shes is happy.
4 always find out about her personality(it tells you what type of person she is)
5I NEVER STAND INLINE!
6 she and i have to enjoy allowing ourselves to drop inhibitions
7no blood shed,kinky is fine but i aint causing bloodshed.
8no forced sex,willing participants only.
9communication has to be free.and without hesitation.
10.no scat or yellow rain thats just nasty.
theres probably more ,but those are important
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/11/2007 7:55:14 AM | | In my opinion there is absolutely no one on the planet that should set sexual morals, or any other morals, for anyone else - it's all way too personal. Sure there are community standards for what is acceptable and what is not - but it's up to the individual to decide how they will fall in that category. Never push your beliefs on someone else!! | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/11/2007 7:15:40 PM | im not sure why you felt it necessary to write your comment, as the statement/question was do YOU!!!!! have sexual 10 commandments.. no one is saying they should push their morals on anyone. they want your opinion
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/11/2007 10:16:42 PM | I can't say I won't have sex before marriage.
But my kind of 10 commandments
1. Never have sex on a first date.
2. Don't date a woman a second time that mention she wanted to have sex on a first dance.
3. Never have casual sex, one should have some sort of emotional connection to the woman. This connection makes sex worth while.
4. Never force sex, if it occurs let it do so naturally.
5. Let the woman know you want to know her before you move into another level of a relationship.
Other than that almost everything and anything goes. There are limits but that is what girlfriends should know about not entire world.
This is how I have been since age 16. | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/12/2007 5:54:13 PM | Wow ... there is some diversity out ther that is for sure !!
I realised that I had never put up any of my commandments either !!
1. Sex is mutual ... Meaning that give and recieve is not an option. It is the reason to have sex ... Mutual gratification.
2. Sexuality is natural and thus should not be avoided in conversation or hidden from a persons life.
3. Be open to new ideas and experiences.
4. Never force anything on your partner ... Suggestions and discussions are welcome.
5. Always show respect for your partners wishes ... And do your best to fullfil them.
6. Pointing and laughing is only for jokes ... Not sex ... lol ...
7. Partners must be of legal drinking age or have at least been in a beer commercial ... lol ...
8. Always make sure that anything mounted into the ceiling is mounted into a cross beam ...
9. Role playing is just that ... Playing ... And should end with the obvious results.
10. And there is no shame in "loving" oneself a need to basis ...
Thank you ... | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/12/2007 8:07:38 PM | Sex is mutual ... Meaning that give and recieve is not an option. It is the reason to have sex ... Mutual gratification.
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Joined: 2/8/2007
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/12/2007 8:10:29 PM | Under those blankets, or on top, behind that closed door, who cares.
What you need is a willing partner, some one whom you comfortable with. | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/15/2007 7:06:13 PM | - Do not mess (get involved in romantic or sexual relationships) with married and "involved" (say, "taken") men.
- Do not hide your wish to give.
- Sex is a mutual, not one player game. Even when it's not a game.
- As long as both of us are in the same bed, nothing else matters. . Fly as high as you can!
- Protection 100%, every time, whatever he says. ALWAYS.
- If I (you) feel NO, then NO. Nothing else matters.
- Leave everything except LOVE behind the bedroom door. | |
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/16/2007 9:19:50 PM | I would just like to thank everyone for thier contributions ... I have enjoyed this thread greatly ... Viva La Forums !!!
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| Sexual morals ... Do you have them ??
Posted: 4/16/2007 10:13:14 PM | 1: No married women.
2: No men.
3: Married men are right out.
4: No deep and lasting scars.
5: No sheep.
There's a number 6, but it's not appropriate for the board. | |
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