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| | Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?Page 20 of 60 (6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42, 43, 44, 45, 46) | Can bad answers lead good people astray?
I think not. Good people are not lead outwardly.
But inwardly....by intitution
You"re never really alone. It's all in degrees of emotional feeling.
Sometimes you feel lonely but it is relative to the pleasure you seek to comfort you.
If you were a (POW) you might have a good excuse for feeling feel lonely.
Strangely enough some (POW'S) have a sense of peace, and sometimes have more joy
than a rich person in great creature comfort.
But I can't talk a lonely person into not searching for what they think they haven't got.
How about that for a mouth full???
They think they haven't got happiness. When actually by comparison they may be tickeled pink in joy, relative to a (POW).
And to make matters worse. Sometimes, often times, you can be quite unhappy even after you thought you found the person who was suppose to be your soul mate.
Gentleman
Be careful!........."What ever saves you claims you."
I wish I was smart enough to call that my original.......... :)
Ladys
Yes it's possible be more alone with someone than without someone.
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There is this thing called a "trial balloon"
Lawyers use it all the time............
It's about time we get a little science mixed in with this dating game.
Don't get me started!!
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Here's the solution.
(to be continued}.................. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/21/2007 9:32:29 AM | | eh i don't know about all that mess.......but i've felt alone almost all my life.....i sometimes cry thinking of never finding miss right and ending up all alone and never having a caring wife or a faimly of my own....plus when i get shot down by a girl i really like i feel like i'm worth nothing. They say its because they don't want to lose a good friend but..myself tells me that its me (my looks,my personitly) i'm a nice guy who is hurt and i feel like i'm going to be alone for the rest of my life......*sighs* i know many of you will reply saying i have the rest of my life but....it hurts very badly not having anybody...so if any of you feel like this plz repost and tell your story. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/21/2007 9:49:17 AM | | yes all the time,but i find you must keep yourself busy,i have ben alone all my life,i left home when i was in my 20's and have ben alone since,i go to movies alone,coffee shops,i would say except for work i basically spend time on my own.it is what it is .some people must be surrounded by otheres all the time.maybe some day we will find that special person,but rest assure you are not alone in your thinking .hang in there ,take care. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/21/2007 9:53:44 AM | | pycolist ty for saying that.......but some people do think that they will never find that person and it brings them down even more so when their friends have their girl friends and fiancee with them when your hanging out. You feel like you'll never find that right person. | |
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DMF
| | Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 481 | |
| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/21/2007 3:15:12 PM | | i have felt that way for a long time. mostly because i'm shy and don't normally initiate conversations. but i normally find that i put on a front at work and when i'm out with others and i must be quite good at it because no-one has noticed anything in many years. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/22/2007 5:03:56 AM | | Well, not all my friends are married, but some of the ones who aren't do want to find someone serious. I do, too, but I am having a hard time finding someone who is interested in that as well or in the right frame of mind for a serious relationship, but I've come up with nihil or zero lately. It can be a bit disheartening..... I have no control over the people I meet not having the same intentions as me.... | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/22/2007 7:22:44 AM | I feel that way sometimes, but I try to keep a few things in mind:
1. I can go to the movies without haggling about what to see.
2. Ditto for dining out.
3. I like myself everyday and don't get on my own nerves.
4. Also, when I'm at an event or something and I'm not having the greatest time,
I can leave without arguing with myself.
5. Last, but not least, I can lavish all the time and money on myself and not
expect anything in return, except a thank you and a smile to myself.
lol
Cheer up, girl. You'll see, it's like the old saying goes: You meet someone when you least expect it. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/22/2007 2:27:59 PM | | i must say the worst thing about being alone is not being to share your life with someone,when you have had a bad day and just need someone to talk with or get their opinion on an issue,or it could be a great day and wanting to share your great mood with someone.when i think about winning the lottery,what i think about is how i can change so many people lives with sharing the winnings.i remember a saying in a movie 'success is nothing unless you have someone to share it with'i beleive that to a degree.thank-you for your time | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/22/2007 2:31:57 PM | Just go out to the pool hall and have fun. Say hi to some guys. Use that confidence and go talk with some guys. I am sure you are a cutie, so work it girl. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/22/2007 3:14:37 PM | to sweet kristine
i have to say that sometimes i definitely feel similar to you. i love my self and how far i've come in life. but i just get down because i feel as though i'm not gonna meet someone. i think its a similar situation for many people. loneliness is sometimes the worst thing. i know for me i run alot of thoughts over and over and i do myself no good.
but i always think to myself the day im completely happy just being alone sitting down doing nothin is the day im completely happy bcus i won't need anythin to gain that happiness. everything then will build from there.
i guess its that old saying of love urself before anyone loves you.
i reckon u do love urself very much. cus i see myself as similar to you. its probably just not time yet. but i do hope u find the right guy.  | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/22/2007 4:00:37 PM | latinlover40,...I am so sorry for your loss,..they say time will heal,... we go through the steps, cry...get mad...ask way..& ya think there will be no one that can take her place. There is no rush for u to find someone, take your time make friends & u never know. I wish u well,..take care..scandalous4701 | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/24/2007 1:37:18 AM | | I sometimes feel this way also. I have had three relationships in the past year and a half which were going so well. The last two they broke up with me. There were no warning signs. One I got a dear JOhn note from on my door and the other just decides to stop calling me for 2 weeks and then comes by and gives me the news after countless times calling him for an answer! THe other I broke up myself due to me doing all the work in the relationship and he nothing. Oh well. Anyway, yes I feel that way there was a year and a half of my life that just flew by with those three relationships and ended! I have been divorced 8 years now and have had many dates but just cannot find the right man. There have been good and bad men, mostly good but just not my type! I have been told not to look so hard but you know that's kinda hard isn't it when we feel our life is going quicker and quicker along every day. I know how you feel! When I do get lucky and find my man he's sure not gonna get away! | |
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ab245
| | Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 494 | |
| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/24/2007 8:44:14 AM | i guess everyone feels alone sometimes. even if you are in a room surrounded by your best freinds and loved ones you can still feel lonely.
everyone needs a cuddle and a hug now and then but i really don't think that having a parner will make my life complete. yes i do wonder if i'll ever get to have a big white wedding and have the joy of kids but some things just arn't meant to be.
i have now decided to get on with my life and make the most of it and maybe , just maybe, alone the way i may just meet someone to share my life with, if it doesn't happen then at least i can look back and say i made the most of it :O)
keep smiling , and if you really think about it.. we don't 'need' a partner to make us happy.
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ab245
| | Joined: 5/27/2007
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/24/2007 8:45:31 AM | i guess everyone feels alone sometimes. even if you are in a room surrounded by your best freinds and loved ones you can still feel lonely.
everyone needs a cuddle and a hug now and then but i really don't think that having a parner will make my life complete. yes i do wonder if i'll ever get to have a big white wedding and have the joy of kids but some things just arn't meant to be.
i have now decided to get on with my life and make the most of it and maybe , just maybe, along the way i may just meet someone to share my life with, if it doesn't happen then at least i can look back and say i made the most of it :O)
keep smiling , and if you really think about it.. we don't 'need' a partner to make us happy.
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/24/2007 8:57:22 AM | Yup honey...sure do.............I have plenty of self esteem too, sweetie....but, I cant seem to meet anyone either...I think I'm just too blunt w/men........at my age,( and I look damned good for my age, and don't act it, ) I have zero tolerance for bullsh*t......
and I can read a bullsh**r a mile away.........I like you have mostly attached friends...
It's not that I can't be alone or don't enjoy my own company, because I do.........I'm just ready to be with someone ..........unfortunately, I either get contacted by guys who I can tell are just way toooooo old for me, (isn't that a hoot) or by very young men....
The guys I see on here that are in my age range (40-50) just seem to be looking for eye candy i.e. 18-30 yrs old.........sheesh.............what is it about an older woman that we are put out to pasture by men our age for younger, less experienced women????
so I sympathize with you...........hang in there..............don't give up hope........ | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/24/2007 9:13:59 AM | Ohhhhh, yes! I can completely relate. I am not an emotionally needy person, and even for a very long time i had no interest in dating or being involved with anyone... I do not know if it had to do with frustration from poor relationships in the past or what... but for a while, I truly enjoyed being single (while raising my daughters). I had much time to really do a lot of soul searching and learning about myself... so, quite possibly, it was time needed.
However, more recently... maybe the last 2 years or so, I have had this enormous desire to share the love and passion that exists deep inside of me. Do I want just anyone to share this special love with? NO!! I am done with poor relationships, and want a man that is as considerate and motivated as I am about this. I am not a picky person... I mean, there must be a physical attraction, chemistry, and it must feel right. I mean, here I am.... a kind, loving, emotionally mature woman with a good sexual appetite who is fun-loving, one of the easiest people to get along with, kind, big hearted, and patient... but do you think I can find a decent man who is seriously looking for the same thing? NOPE! They are either looking for "NSA," "Just friends,"
Married, or an hours drive away. Where are the men that are looking... or don't they exist any longer? It is sad, I tell ya... sitting at home sometimes just wishing you had someone to love, laugh with, spoon with, and all that fun stuff. At times it even feels unfair... I am worthy of a good relationship, dammit ~ LOL! Where is my partner?
OK, well I do not want to sound like I am Whining, so I should just stop here... but like I said. I completely know where you are coming from and talking about. GOOD LUCK with your search...   | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/24/2007 9:26:37 AM | So much for the plenty of fish thinking :) I think some of us stay alone by choice. We are a little more selective, we seek quality, not quantity. Having been trapped in a bad marriage for over 2 decades, being alone while waiting for the right one to come along isn't bad at all. You call yourself fat girl, OP. Maybe it's time you do something about that and maybe something good would happen. | |
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