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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/3/2008 10:01:52 PM | I am Not , haven't Been 'AlOne' ... for Many Many Years.
I have a FEW people , In My Life/World , That ... Are My Very Reasons for BeIng
If - By 'Alone' ? The intended question is in reference to a 'Romantic/Intimate/Spousal'
relationship?
I can Only ~HOPE~ , that i Will Remain ... A L O N E ! For .... EVER.
Tis my Big EST *fear* , that 'SomeOne' Will *sneak* In/Under/Past the *Radar* , I will fall
Victim/Prey to Yet AnOther friggin 'Relationship'
I am doin pretty well at 'keepin the hounds at bay' - so... I shall probably stay in zee
~CLEAR~
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/4/2008 7:29:01 AM | Ross, after reading your history, I think it would behoove you if you were to take a trip to Thailand.
You are not ugly. Hell farr, I've seen some down right ugly men with beautiful women.
Your problem is not only that you that you have a social anxiety disorder, you lack confidence and have an inferiority complex.
Some of these problems can be solved with medication, and the others with counseling. For immediate relief, go to the Doctor, get some Xanax then if possible, take a trip to Thailand.
You have to be careful, because a beautiful Thai woman will steal your heart. You will find liars and cheats but you can also find beautiful, decent, hard working, loyal women who will love you and take care of you.
If it were possible, I would be on the net plane to Thailand.
Google stickman's Bangkok site and have a look. You may want to avoid the big cities and go to Udon.
Don't believe me? Do a search here on pof for women in Thailand.
Good luck and get yourself to the Doctor to get some help ASAP. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/4/2008 5:27:02 PM | Oh, I am alone and feel just fine. I am divorced, had a few bad relationships after that, and so I just fine by myself. I am not looking. I do what I want and when I want to, not when I have to. I watch TV most of the night (on my days off), and then sleep until about noon or so. I don't have to impress anybody, I don't have to cook, vacuum, do laundry, etc., unless I am in the mood. Nobody gives me hard time, nobody criticizes me like my ex used to, nobody's cheating on me or playing games... Of course, I am not saying that all the guys are like that (described above), no not at all; it's only those whom I meet. So, why bother? Besides, not all of my friends have bf's or husbands. Some do, and some don't. I am alone, but not lonely. There is always something to do around the house and enjoy it.  | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/4/2008 10:53:04 PM | | I totally get what you feel like, I feel the same way all the time. I have friends but all of my friends like you said have serious bfs/husbands... I hate being the third wheel and feel that that is all I'm ever going to be.. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/5/2008 2:22:58 AM | Yeah, I feel like that this is it for me sometimes. I haven't had a serious girlfriend
in a very long time, and I can't really remember someone liking me enough to say
that they love me. I am pretty lonely and I hate it, and I am trying but there's not
much you can do when you keep getting told 'no' or 'not interested' or 'but you're
an awesome guy but...' or 'not attracted to you...' or the worst one 'we'll always be friends'
(which is the BIGGEST lie I've ever heard from women) why do
they say that when they really have NO inention on being a friend or anything
to you at all - if they say that to comfort you - its bullshit - i'd rather be
told the truth than some crap sugarcoated response. Its so lame and cowardly. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/5/2008 2:44:49 AM |
I am Not , haven't Been 'AlOne' ... for Many Many Years.
I have a FEW people , In My Life/World , That ... Are My Very Reasons for BeIng
If - By 'Alone' ? The intended question is in reference to a 'Romantic/Intimate/Spousal'
relationship?
I can Only ~HOPE~ , that i Will Remain ... A L O N E ! For .... EVER.
Tis my Big EST *fear* , that 'SomeOne' Will *sneak* In/Under/Past the *Radar* , I will fall
Victim/Prey to Yet AnOther friggin 'Relationship'
I am doin pretty well at 'keepin the hounds at bay' - so... I shall probably stay in zee
~CLEAR~
I do not blame you . I too am not alone as far as friends go... My last relationship turned me from wanting to get hitched too becoming a commitmentphobe. I will say that I am still open to the thought of a relationship to develop mnaturally, but I am not looking to fall for someone right now. Still I do miss some of the romantic entanglement, but what can you do. You can't have your cake and eat it too. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/5/2008 12:54:53 PM | I would lie if I said that I don't have moments like that but rather than to succumb to doom & gloom prospect, I came i.e. for inspiration on here - in forums (seeing pics of couples who found themselves in this pond) 
What I am lacking to find in people who I engaged in conversation with - whether on here or in real life - is passion, consistency and being realistic. There is always something that brings seemingly nice inspiring and intruiging ........ ship to a halt. Que sera sera ... | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/5/2008 2:55:30 PM |
You can't have your cake and eat it too.
Mmmm , CAKE! I had a dream about Cake - last night/dis mornin. (Just reminded me)
If i just went to zee store , got some Cake? I sure Could HAVE it ... *AND* .... EAT it!
And? Ya'll know what? If i am so inclined? To go hop in zee car , drive to zee store , get that CAKE? Then, come home , sit down with , Eat ... that Whoooole friggin CAKE?
I CAN!
*And NoBody can/would/WILL be eyeballin , CLOCKIN me , givin me any GUFF*
about my eatin MY friggin CAKE!
All CAN ... Have Cake , Eat it TOO - Yup! Tis just ONE of the MANY ~Beauties~ of BeIng
S I N G L E !  | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/5/2008 5:59:25 PM | | I think I understand now why the fastest growing American Household is the single person living alone. I know that I'm alone mostly because I no longer trust my judgement about women. I guess this is why, all I expect from my judgement is that friends with benefits is as far as I can go as far as being able to trust my judgement about women. Anymore, when they visit; I like them to leave shortly after. On this, my judgement is ok. I see by this post, people may have a different response or outlook but as painful as it might be, I see alot of people seem to have given up. We' ve surrendered to solitude. Rae Andre` Phd. wrote a book entitled, " Positive Solitude" (It was a great read). The book relaxes the reader into embracing the benefits of being alone. She explores the many misconceptions about how loners are seen in the media and encourages the reader to explore healthy ways to enjoy solitude without having a sense of fear or panick. Reading along and following her train of thought was fun and worth reexploration (if I could ever find the book). Anyway, for those having a hard time it might be worth your while to check it out. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/5/2008 6:17:21 PM | Yup, I feel the same way. But I'm not going to settle for some loser with tons of baggage and several ex's lurking in the background,lol.
Seriously, although its like searching for a needle in a haystack, I believe its worth the wait. Why hook up with someone just to be part of a "couple" if it isn't right for you?
And why put up with someone who isn't kind and sensitive and makes you feel totally special?
Have patience, enjoy doing things on your own, hang with friends, learn something new and before you know it you won't even worry about Mr. Right coming along. He'll come when the time is right.
Good luck and good fishing.
Angelgigi | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/5/2008 10:36:52 PM | yes
but why not have fun while being alone??
I want to have fun until the day i die, even if i die on my own. I will have my good great memories of the fun I have in this life.
so yeah!!
have fun! life is too short to feel like you are going to stay alone forever. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/6/2008 7:50:32 AM |
There is always something that brings seemingly nice inspiring and intriguing ship to a halt. Que sera sera ...
Yes, if your here just for some short talk this would be the place, whether it be the talking about weather,bashing their ex and past failures, and the list of short comings goes on and on. It's good to vent but you don't need to remind us for next twenty years! ~peace~
I sure there are various reasons why a person who you meet and enjoy can only go to certain point in a relationship.
For the folks who have moved on, healed,matured and handled all of life's ups and downs and still can be open,passionate,honest, are indeed the lucky ones.
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/6/2008 11:46:12 AM | kristine, unfortunetly i do know how you feel, i was told if i lost weight, if i was taller(5'2")
wish that was possible . but i have learned that no matter what is on the outside, it is how YOU feel about yourself on the inside. and i know i use feel that we have 3 soulmates in our lives, and what happened if i already passed them by because i was looking for MR.Right or mr right now. but i learned the hard way when my true first love, soulmate,guardian angel was killed in july07 and all i could think is would i get another chance and the answer i have to believe in is yes there is someone for all of us and we will find this person when the time is right...it may not be tommorow..but it will happen remember good things come to those who wait. your prince charming is looking for you too. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/6/2008 12:07:03 PM | I feel that way everynight I'm on the computer typing away an email to someone new because the other girl will not answer the email I sent to her. I wonder...what's wrong with me?...why does the girls I'm attracted to not recepricate?...I dont want pity, or "everyone will be ok"...I just want that one person. Maybe I"m impatient, but I've been waiting for years now. My ex-wife is already getting re-married, and I wonder why God has decided to bless her instead of me? Or, is it a blessing of her. Maybe she is rusing into things. Maybe this is what God wants for me, and as usually I'm not happy because I'm selfish. Maybe he is leading me somewhere and getting me ready for that perfect person. Regardless of the answer, I'm alone now and I feel lonely often. I invite many girls who are suppose to "friends" out to just hang, but all are always buys and have other plans. I've been met so many busy people in my life. Is every girl out there busy EVERY night of the week? I mean geez...what I think is that they are just not interested in me, and they dont want to hurt my feelings. I know for a fact, that if a girl was interested in me, she would make time. I do that same. So when they dont make time, that is a clear indication they are not interested. Which brings me back to why I'm here. I'm lonely also, and have been for a while now.  | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/6/2008 12:25:00 PM | Wow. I recently posted something basically expressing the same thing. All my friends are married and too busy with their kids. I'm not into going out on the town all the time either. But, I want companionship.
Odd how so many women and men seem like very nice people, good catches and yet it's so hard to meet someone.
I think keeping busy with things you enjoy and not fixating on how others have someone, why not me? is key. Just do stuff that will get yourself happy and the sense of loneliness will dissipate. Know that others are in the same boat who understand and offer some compassion. Also, not good to play the "what if" game. I do that. What if I NEVER find someone and grow old all by myself with no one who loves me. What a terrible, lonely life I chalk up in my head. Makes me hit the panic button! Catastrophic thinking. Yikes.
Chin up! | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/6/2008 12:53:17 PM | No, I do not believe I will be alone for the rest of my life....
If you believe you will be alone...then chances are you will....why not think the other way? And then wait and see what happens OR better yet, keep going out and make it happen?
It seems to all boil down to how you look at things.... | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/6/2008 1:01:56 PM | Know what's worse? Being attached to someone and still feeling alone.
Those who flaunt that they're not alone (attached) and are on POF, aren't fooling anyone. If you need to be on here, you're alone, because you can't talk with your significant other about anything and go online to seek comfort. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/6/2008 6:29:49 PM | I can't even imagine someone as cute as you ever being alone. But I do understand exactly what you mean about passing up good people for what? Its time to settle and I believe if its your time you will find the true love and even if its five years you have left to spend with them and it was the happiest time you ever had before you die, I believe that is true love. Its better to love and lost or never love before. Thats the saying I know. But anyways just wanted to tell you how handsome I think you are. I don't know where your from or what your looking for but i can't even imagine you being an ugly duckling. Friends are a good source of keeping each other sane. Also its ok to be alone, even though the people in this world think its a sin to die alone. Everyone dies alone. Have a wonderful day
Sheila | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/6/2008 6:39:32 PM |
Mmmm , CAKE! I had a dream about Cake - last night/dis mornin. (Just reminded me)
If i just went to zee store , got some Cake? I sure Could HAVE it ... *AND* .... EAT it!
And? Ya'll know what? If i am so inclined? To go hop in zee car , drive to zee store , get that CAKE? Then, come home , sit down with , Eat ... that Whoooole friggin CAKE?
I CAN!
*And NoBody can/would/WILL be eyeballin , CLOCKIN me , givin me any GUFF*
about my eatin MY friggin CAKE!
All CAN ... Have Cake , Eat it TOO - Yup! Tis just ONE of the MANY ~Beauties~ of BeIng
S I N G L E !
very good point. Being single does have its good points. Saving money, time to take on projects, take on overtime at work, do things that only you would do not have to compromise. It is quite a good thing. However there are somethings I wish I was able to do with a partner. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/9/2008 4:43:30 AM | I have one little piece of advice for those of you that say you can't find mr./mrs. right.... stop being soooo damn picky...
ScottCBR1000, have you answered any of the girls that may have been interested in you?....i checked your profile, big mistake one right on your mail settings you have...MUST NOT SMOKE....change it, yes you have a right to be in a smoke free invironment...but if the person you start seeing smokes they will respect you and not smoke close to you...if it's the smokers breath well there is gum and toothbrush's and paste also mouthwash.
Who knows maybe your the one person they need to quit...most of us that are lonely is because of our own doing....TOO PICKY | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 2/9/2008 6:56:28 AM | | Yes, I know just how you feel. I don't want to be the third wheel nor do I want everyone trying to "hook" me up with just anyone all the time. I can get dates, I guess I'm a bit picky on who I go out with. I'm ok being single, but miss having someone to share my life with. I haven't gotten a very good response on this site either, but I still try and give it time. You never know what may happen. | |
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