| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/7/2005 11:43:09 PM | OF course i feel like im never gonna meet anyone for long term.
Ive resigned myself to the fact that im not a barbie doll,i have 3 teenagers and not many men want that.I try not to get depressed about it so i come on here hoping to just connect through chat and the forum. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/8/2005 6:11:59 AM | | ^^^i hear ya...im the same...cept i dont have any kids lol....last night i felt really alone...i just wanted someone to hold me....i miss that....god i really miss that...sex is wonderful great who dosent love it....but i miss having someone hold me, so i feel safe at night....while ive accepted the fact that im gonna be alone...it sucks lol...and i miss so many things..its ok to be alone...and its ok to miss the things you get while being w/a man.... | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/8/2005 6:36:01 AM | Hello Kristine,
I know exactly where ur coming from, its not sat nite now but sunday morning and all my mates are off doing the 'couple' thing and im sat here alone again! I am lonely and I hate it. But like u am not gonna take the first guy that comes along, I want the magic too and being alone beats being in a bad relationship. But I wish I had someone to cuddle!!!!!!!
Keep smiling hunny, you look like a great person and im sure we'll find our princes some day! Yours is probably here in uk and mines oover there! Wanna swap?!
Take good care
Melannie xxxxx | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/8/2005 1:56:01 PM | Ya its hard finding a guy when you have kids.First your main concern is your children and you have to find a guy that you absolutly trust with them.Problem is at my age the picking get slim and as you get older ,you yourself get pickier because you learn from past mistakes.
The part i miss is not the sex but the holding and warmth of waking up next to someone.
Just the human touch i think.
god it gets lonely. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/8/2005 2:09:29 PM | | Women are alone because of the drama they bring.Guys like me choose to be alone because we're sick of the drama.Alone is not as bad as being in an ugly relationship.I expect to be alone unless one day I find honesty in the women that claim to be looking. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/8/2005 2:18:36 PM | At the risk of sounding "feminine", I too would like someone to hold and embrase one another. "human touch" is a wonderful thing! Worse yet, is when you have absolutely no experience dating or being with someone, you start to wonder if you are ugly or that there is something completely wrong with you... I even went to a doc to find out what makes me so darn painfully shy. He said that it is a "social phobia" or dating anxiety. Fear of not saying the right thing, and fear of saying the wrong thing. If you know what I mean... Lonliness is the worst feeling in the world. It does hurt allot!!!  | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/8/2005 2:30:55 PM | Women are alone because of the drama they bring.
Hmmmm i didnt ask to be alone.I didnt cause any drama other than cry when my husband found my best friend more attractive as he told me.
Ive never done the drama thing on purpose.Ive always been honest and faithfull.
I never chose to be single again.It was forced on me.Mabey you'll say i caused my marriage to crumble but my husband was specific on why he left me.My friend was better looking.
I hate being alone. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/8/2005 2:55:33 PM | | Don't really HATE being alone, just thats theres moments when having another adult around to share the adult stuff would be a bonus. Me ex also did the choosing for me, leaving me for a co-worker, but hey, that's life, as they say. I just spent the morning and afternoon with my daughter and her step-sister as a special mothers day gift to my ex, giving her some "alone time", so you see, being alone sometimes is'nt alllllll that bad. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/8/2005 2:58:33 PM | | Well Sweetkristine, you are in good company. I have pretty much given up on finding "that special person". In my case, I guess some things just aren't to be. It was depressing at first, but I am concentrating my attention on other things now, and gaining satisfaction through them. Yeah, I know those things won't keep me warm at night, but heck, I'm just tired of putting forth effort with nothing to show for it. If someone comes along, maybe I will reconsider, but I'm not holding my breath. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/8/2005 3:12:37 PM | | Bah. My thought process is that nothing lasts forever, so enjoy it while it lasts. While I'm at it, Fig Newtons don't last forever either. So I better grab a few out of the cupboard before my gramma comes over and gnaws on em. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/8/2005 4:02:10 PM | | Yeah there are moments when I feel like I'll be alone forever but then I remember the times when I wasn't alone. Maybe my previous relationships weren't perfect and didn't last but I did have them. That gives me the hope that it will happen again. One thing I do know is that I must be in a "place" where I can be comfortable being alone before I can share myself. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/8/2005 4:12:50 PM | | sleeping in someone's arms at night is wonderful...but being alone has its perks too...get all the blankets to yourself...and get to eat the last piece of pizza cold at 2 am w/bedhair and zit cream lol | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/8/2005 4:21:29 PM | what a crock of bull s h i t
they all told me that too and for six years I didnt look and could not have cared less
but everywhere you go are couples
how about today mothers day i have no mother she is dead
my children have not mother she is useless
and gone
so what do we do??????????????????????
nothing we do nothing but i hate it when people are not honest
we do need men we do need woman we were created to
have relationship
and yes great sex that gives pleasure to BOTH
LOVE and RESPECT the best book i have ever read | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/9/2005 4:37:08 AM | Sir James has a point; "where I can be comfortable being alone before I can share myself."
Many ppl feel "I'll be happier when I've a partner...I'll be happier when I've a bigger home.." etc..
Sadly, they're missing out on life.. the now.. the present.
I personally reached a point many, many years ago that being 'alone' is perfectly fine and I do enjoy my own company. I've learned to accept who I am..love who I am and be in the 'now' without huge expectations of myself...I don't need to measure up to anyone and yes, I'm a happy, secure woman with so much to give to the right man and blessed to be in a career I so love.
I have had my share of heart ache but, I do believe that nothing in this world is a 'mistake' if we, as humans, can try to see the good from it all.....there are values to be learned.
I can't say I've ever felt loneliness...and that's coming from an Irish lass who has her two sons here in Canada....BIG country to be without family and support!!
Anyway... just my 2 cents worth... :)
PS: Great forum..I so appreciate such diversity of opinions!  | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/9/2005 10:50:05 PM | I was reading this forum,and just could not believe your comments. You seem to be very judgemental. How many of the women on here have you actually had contact (whether it be by chatting or in person) with?? I think not many at all. You have the utter ignorance to claim 90% are just looking for a handout! Well you are either misled ,misinformed (probably can't even add ,let alone decifer percentages) or just ignorant!! I say you are the the latter. I have corresponded with several women here, and to the best of my recollection,have not come into contact with a single one ( Thats 0% for your narrow knowledge ) that has lead me to think they are looking for some kind of a handout!!! You on the other hand.....well I will leave that alone for now....................... samiam1693
PS. Sometimes when I read these things,I should probably just consider the "SOURCE" | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/10/2005 10:02:21 AM | Can you elaborate on what you mean "a handout"?
Im not looking for anything material as you can see in my profile.Im just looking for a decent guy.I am not going to meet someone i barely know until i feel safe and secure about them.
I have kids to think about.I have had guy that come on her that immediatly want my adress and phone number.Sorry but no.Mabey after ive chatted with them for a while and i do talk to them on msn.
Its not called ignorance,its called being smart. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/10/2005 1:36:35 PM | Sweet....You asked what is a girl supposed to do?...The first thing that comes to my mind is be content IN yourself,and WITH yourself....you are so darned cute, it's really hard for me to imagine a guy not snapping you up right off the bat...
And don't worry so much about being alone...heck, g/f, I'm going to be 55 on the 13th, and I'm alone....*BUT* I'm also happy, confident, funny, and content with my life...when I found this site, I thought why not?? I've made some of the best friends here, both male and female,and oh by the way, I count YOU as one too (just in case you didn't know). Nothing is better or more valuable than a wonderful friend, in my book...
I realize I'm old enough to be your "gamma" (that's what my grandson calls me,lol), and I've written many chapters in my book of life, that you are only starting on, so look around you and appreciate what you see...then get up off your butt(I can't believe I just said "butt" lol), and look in the mirror and see what an awesome person you are! WE ALL SEE THAT, ok?
And when you feel lonely...go visit someone who really knows lonely...those would be the people in nursing homes, who never get visits....I promise you, that you will leave there, feeling like a million bucks!
And lastly..YOU ROCK, g/f!! There's not anyone else like you...so know that and be confident in everything you do. God gave you a gift, so appreciate it, and use it...and know that I will be keeping my eye on you, young lady!
 gentlespirit | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/11/2005 5:28:16 PM | i think they should make a pill that creates multiple personality disorder then we could take viagra,and chicks can take the purple pill and we could make love to ourselves all the time!: | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/11/2005 6:02:15 PM | when i go to bed alone at nite..yep i do...gosh this thread i started really picked up :) thanks guys for all your responses..and being honest :) glad to know im not alone w/this feeling
i still hope one day prince charming is going to come by and sweep me off my feet....they say good things come to those who wait :)
but still its hard when i havnet been held in soooo long...havent heard the sound of someones voice glad to hear mine on the other end...... | |
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