| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/21/2005 12:12:43 AM | | schooner. for how long shoulf keep ourselves fit and our outlook positive? when it's coming on sixteen years, don't you think it may be time to reconsider? | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/21/2005 12:15:25 AM | You're never totally alone..or totally WITH someone. WE are born alone and die alone..but lets hope not TOTALLY..or forever, eh? jolly and fat...believe me...better..than a sour puss miserable model or miserable me...attitude and altitude? Upward, outward, onward....get involved...make a move. [Its lonely at the top and bottom - the middle is crowded? Its also lonely bouncing between the bottom, middle, and top]
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/21/2005 12:30:00 AM | | well in your case you have lost hope,which was the main ingredient in any motivation during our isolation--once hope is gone feel free to do nothing except wait and die | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/21/2005 12:53:59 AM | | sometimes I do and then I start to blame myself "I'm to pickky I ask to much of people" alot of times I really dout me but then I think. would I want someone to settle for me. no I want to be there dream come true and thats what i want for methat person is out there I'll find her one day till then I'll just keep looking | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/21/2005 4:32:49 AM | chapman, most women would tell you there are other ways of pleasing them. If you're honest and upfront about your problem, a worthy woman will understand. The rest you don't need.
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/22/2005 4:12:15 PM | Well said, I am recently on my own after 25 years, Wow its hard and I am heart broken as its has only been a few months for me now. I like to think in my heart I wont be alone forever, but I have to agree with you. When God has decided for me to meet my soulmate I will and I will be happy but if I rush it and just settle for the wrong relationships just to have someone handy then more than likely I will doom myself to a life of unhappiness. So food for thought all rather ya believe in God or not put it this way, the old sayin is true " When your not looking for it and your concentrating on loving yourself then it comes along" Just kick back and like the others said get a good hobby, cherish you children and take life one day at a time and dont look to far down the road because it changes by the minute ya would have to be a prognoticator to even have a clue that far away.
Take Care all and I hope all broken hearts out there mend swiftly
Mine Included LOL
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/22/2005 5:53:24 PM | The fact there must be a dozen threads on with the same overall topic, floating around is proof of that.
Apparently a lot of people have fear of being alone forever. It's a tiring and annoying subject.
Like you're going to die without someone.... | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/22/2005 8:09:47 PM |
Like you're going to die without someone....
No, it just feels like that sometimes.
Just curious but, if it's a tiring and annoying subject why are you reading and posting in this thread? Remember, I'm just asking OK? | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/22/2005 9:20:54 PM | I think just about everyone who is alone feels as if they are going to alone forever...unless they are the type of person who just jumps from relationship to relationship without any time in between.
I have definitely felt it. I've been divorced for close to 5 yrs. now and when I got divorced, believe me, I really didn't think I would still be single after 5 yrs. Not necessarily married again, but at least in a serious relationship. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/22/2005 11:17:32 PM |
Just curious but, if it's a tiring and annoying subject why are you reading and posting in this thread? Remember, I'm just asking OK?
*smirk* You know... thats a very good question. Haha.
I'll try to reply with at least one decent answer.
Because in the state of being annoyed about something, I feel like I must address it.
Because there must be a half dozen of these threads, if someone doesn't complain, it'll never end!
Because I am one of those folks who once felt like they were going to be alone forever, and hate being reminded of it.
Well, thats all I can think of for right now... Then again, sometimes I post things without reason. Spur of the moment sorta thing, I don't know.
I hate to say it, but there is also a good possibility that when I posted it, I was bored/lonely and wanted something to talk about. That of course, contradicts what I'd previously said. Amazing huhn?
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/23/2005 10:57:01 AM | The worst part about being alone is when you think you have a possibility and it turns out that you came into the picture too late without knowing it. What I have done because of that is try to stick my foot in the door early on with someone early on so that I don't end up too late again. I am not trying to get serious with someone, just not get left out in the cold again. I am then misunderstood and am avoided because I move in too fast.
Timing is everything, and I always seem to be out of sync when it comes to relationships. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:09:17 AM | | Sometime even when your with someone you can feel like your all alone, I had that feeling for the last 10 year's of my 16 year rel'ship, so now I'm not with him, I don't just feel like there is a strange lieing next to me anymore, but at somepoint I think that everyone feel's alone, even if you are with the most wounderfull careing person in the wold(which I was not) you can only find someone to take away the lonely feeling for so long, so if this person that I kind of with right now leave's then I think I will just get a goldfish, as that way I can just watch it follow it's self around in circlels rather than me, next time I someone I though I loved leave's me.and they are much easyer to clean up after,lol | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/24/2005 12:33:35 PM | I have to say, that it is possible that some people will be alone for whatever reason. Whether they are like me (plain as home made soap) or a not nice person or happen to be the wrong shade of green...
What is really the saddest thing of all is when people just give up trying. As long as there is hope and a little bit of an attempt, there is always a chance. I am alone but I am proud to have friends that I can meet in heaven for a beer, and family and hopefully one of these days that right lady who isn't afraid to open her mouth and tell me what she thinks about the tye dye tapestries on the walls. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/24/2005 4:10:22 PM |
one of these days that right lady who isn't afraid to open her mouth and tell me what she thinks about the tye dye tapestries on the walls.
Zero, you have tie-dye tapestries on your walls? Think that could be the reason you're single? lol. j/k 
Sometimes I think I'm going to be alone forever because I realized, recently, that I tend to find reasons to push someone away. I create faults, if you would. But, I do believe in soulmates too.
So, I'm hoping that my soulmate will find me, and not let me get away with the stories I make up in my head. And, when it's right, I won't feel the need to push him away by finding faults.
Listen, I know I have issues. But, isn't the first step admitting it?  | |
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